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Guy Trouble!
BTW~ this is a question I asked earlier but I'm repeating it cuz I have an account now. *'s are additions
Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
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***~I'm pretty cute looking, but I havee kinda small boobs. Would him being predjudice against that be a big factor in the eqation, particularly at this age? Do guys REALLY care about that?
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if you wanna know if he likes you just ask him. or ask one of his friends. theres nothing you can do to make him keep liking you. its natural, if he does he does , if he doesn't he doesn't. life is like that. if you really wan t to stick to this boy you can but there are other fish in the sea.
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Annie, if you like the guy, you should go for it. The fact that he is a druggie could be a problem, but if you are okay with that, or help him to change it, then that would be alright. The main reason I wanted to answer your question is to reply to your statement about your breasts. Yes, some guys can be hounds about that sort of thing, but if you are confident in the way that you look, then the size of your cleavage should not matter. If he only cares about how big you are, then he does not seem like a very nice guy. At your age, I was not entirely flat-chested as they say, but I was not really well-endowed either. Guys did make fun of me, but I still dated, because I found people who liked me for how I am on the inside, not how much of a trophy I could be. Beside all of that, do not wish for your breasts to be larger, because when you get older that could cause lots of health problems if they were too big. If this guy is not the right one, you will find someone who will love you for all that you are.
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