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Confused between 2 brothers.
I'm a 20 year old female who has been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and been living with him for 2 years. Before we got together I had a 1 night stand with his brother then I cheated on him with his brother 3 times, (he only knows about 2) Everytime it has happened I told me boyfriend cos i was scared his brother would tell him 1st. I pretend infront of everyone including my boyfriend that i hate his brother but i secretly wanna be with him. His brother called me the other day and i told my boyfriend cos i was scared it was a test, and when I saw his brother at work (the 3 of us work together) we made plans to meet after work and 'talk' but i know it would've went further. (my bf wasnt at work that day) I can't stop thinking about his brother and I eally want him to call me again. I love my boyfriend heaps but I don't know why I feel this way about his brother. I think I love them both....what should I do? Please help!!!!
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get 2 know them both more then deside i know this sounds lame but follow ur heart!
Kate
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you really need to get a grip on who or what you want r destroying two relationships. yours and yours boyfriends thats not fair to the brothers,there r a lot of men out there to b meesing with brothers,what does that say about your morals as a human being, you really need to get a grip on who u want to b with or bettr yet let them both go that relationship is never going to prosper not unless u r just looking for sex you really need to evaluate what it is u want.. anissa
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I agree with Nevaeh. You need time away from both of them. Give it like a week or so and decide where your heart truly lies. Nobody has enough love in them to really love two people at the same time, in the same way. You obviously don't love your boyfriend as much as you think you do - if you did, you wouldn't have cheated on him.
I mean, I love my boyfriend and because of that, I don't even look at other guys. None of them appeal to me but him.
So take time away from both of them and chill out for awhile, then decide with whom your heart lies. If you still can't decide, I suggest you get away from both of them and find someone else. Good luck with all this!
-Siren
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Ok, in answering your question what should you do? You need time apart from your boyfriend so that you can truly see where your heart is. This is YOUR life, and you only live once and you deserve to be happy, and if you think that could be with his brother, then that should tell you your answer right there.
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what is ur bf still doing with u? u've hurt him, cheated with his brother. U need to sit down and work out what u want from a realtionship and if ur current bf can give u that with out u cheating or if its time to move on. If u want to b with his bother tell him, But stop cheating on ur bf he will be very hurt and will find it hard to trust gfs in the futhur
i hope u make the right dissicion 4 u and stop hurting ppl u love
best of luck
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