I'm a 14 year old girl, and I constantly fantasize about older guys...sexually. I haven't done anything about it, but they're in my dreams, while I'm in school, and I've talked to some online. Is this common? Is there a certain reason why I keep thinking about them this way?
RainbowDiva answered Sunday May 9 2004, 1:14 am: Hello!
The feelings that u r feeling are valid and u shd not feel embarrassed or ashame of them. I think there is only a problem if u at ur age pursue these older guys and they take u up on the offer. U must understand that a minor being involved in sexual activities with an adult or a person over the age of 18 is a crime.
U shd not pursue them and hopefully they won t pursue u because that isn t right. I feel that u r probably just going thru a phase that many people ur age go thru especially when it comes to puberty. Ur hormones r most likely just getting the best of u right now.
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday May 8 2004, 10:51 pm: It's normal...unless we're talking, like, sixty-year old guys. In that case, it's just gross. But like 18+ guys, yeah. I mean, I dated an 18 year old when I was your age (big mistake on my part, but that's another story). No reason, really. It's just a preference. =)
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