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what does it feel like to be in love? theres one kid who i cannot stop thinking about for anything and when i think about him sometimes i wanna throw up i feel literally sick to my stomach when im not with him and i cant stop smiling when im with him and hes such a sweetheart and idkkk i pretty much think i am but like is it possible to fall in love with someone within a 6 day spann? cause ive talked to him for like a month and ive always kinda liked him but we have been hanging out for the past 5 days straight and i realize how much i like him and when im away from him, all i wanna do is be with him i mean i think its pretty self-explanatory but does this sounds like love?

i agree with every word the people below me have said. but o far what your feeling DOES sound like something that could become love. i might be young but i loved this guy once...and i couldnt do nything when i wasnt with him. this will happen. you didnt really ask what to about it.so ill leave it at, it seems like a formation of love. and once he since it, you will love him. truly.

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im in seventh grade and a girl. well theres this boy i like a lot and ive liked him almost the whole school year. we used to talk and laugh all the time in the beginning of the year when we sat across from eachother in science but since then we barely talk. im still in lovve with him tho. its the end of the school year and im woondering if i should tell him how i feel? im afraid that if he doesnt like me back, things will be awkward then. should i tell him?

ok, first things first. i wouldnt tel him if you not that close anymore. try to get closer, and if he sees you putting th effort ino bcoming friends, he might think you like him, and once youve become better friends, tell him. but not just.. i like you. ask him if he just wants to hang out over the summer with some frends, and over that period of time, either tell him online, or pul him aside and say...'[name goes here] this has been really hard for me to try and tell you, and i think you know what im going to say, but i like you." try and leave it at that, and if it goes anywhere, THEN tell him youve liked him the whole year. dont be to stalkery or pushy about i either. guys dnt like that.

the worst thing that could happen would be he doesnt like you back. and thats ok, its happened to the best of us. tell him you dnt want it to ruin your friendship. and you still want to be friends. and maybe it works that way....


hope i helped


lauren

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i go to dance parties all the time, and ive freaked/grinded with a few guys, but im always to scared to do it with a ton of guys without people thinking im a slut... i went to a party last night and i danced with my old preschool friend.....and he danced with a lot of girls so it didnt mean anything, but everytime i dancw with a guy, for some weird reason we ALWAYS seem to like look at eachother...and i know i wanted to dance with him again, and the aotehrs guys. But am i jsut being weird, or dus that mean sumthing?

the guy from my preschool that i danced with, well he also danced with my friend, and thats not an issue really becasue like she thought he was ugly, but i think he might think shes hot, she is pretty and she knows she NEVER DATE HIM....so like this isnt reallly relevent just htought i neeeded to add it!

duckyville72

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Hi, im 12, and theres this boy i really like. His name is Brian. He doesnt even notice me, or talk to me. I really want to make him notice me, but without trying too hard that he gets suspicious. I mean, my friend doesnt like him, but knows that I do, and flirts with him a lot. Its really annoying.... how do i get noticed, and make my friend stop flirting?


lonley...

well, its seems that this freind wont stop flirting, u cant just tell someone to STOP! its kinda odd, and rude, no matter how much it annoys you.

One way you can get him to notice you is to bump him in the halls, or just ask a random question to him. I do it all the time.


You can also act like the dominator. [[hes younger??]] well you can always just dominate and maybe be like at lunch, he and then push him over, and act superior, or bringup sumthing really stupid, thats also a convo starter.

Maybe call him a first grade insult, that noramlly gets guys all, wtf??? and i know this is my personallity, but maybe treat him like a little brother, and like call him hun, or blow kisses[[to everyone, becasue you dnt want to seem to flirty]]

hope i helped
Lauren

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We're now better off than before, but her parents are very against our relationship. To tell you the truth, they are the only hurdle left in this race, and it seems impossible to overcome them. Her parents don't allow her to see me or go out with me or whatsoever. What am i to do? I'm prepared to wait for her to get out of her parents grasps. Yea, i'm a teenager, 19 years old, this year. So is she.

your BOTH old enough to make your own descisions. she does have to respect her parents, and if shes living with them she should, but she really can make up her own mind....let her know by phone, and see what she says...any more questions on this ask me personally.

hope i helped

lauren

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how exactly do you grind, and get agirl togrind with you

to grind get up close to the girl, and just move you hips/sway your hips in a kinda sexual way, and do what ever with your hands, hold her around the waist, or hold her hand and guide her.


if your hott most girls will grind with yuo if you just go up behind them, you might get rejected but ya know. you can also tap on the girls shoulder to kinda ask her politely..right before you grind..hhaaa

hope i helped

Lauren

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I'm 15/f (well 15 this summer) and I've never had a boyfriend. Never had a first kiss or anything. I'm pretty (or so i've been told) I'm easy to get a long with and as long as you respect me then I'll respect you. But whats wrong with me? I've never been asked out or looked at in an affectionate way before. I know im only 15 and I shouldn't worry but all these chicks in my school are freaking ugly and have no self respect and they have boyfriends. So why can't I?

Please don't tell me "your time will come" I've heard that a million and one times.

One of my friends is so annoying and ugly, and she's just a pain in the ass and she's dating this guy in grade 12.

wtf. :(

well when guys get older, they tend to go for the bigger ass and bigger boobs kinda girls. and ive had this feeling. It sux for me too. ive been told im pretty but ive never been in a tru e relationship. a lot of times girls will be slutty or do something to attract guys, you just need to very assertive and go and flirt with guys, theyll get attracted to that. and trust me, im not saying your time will cum, but if you pretty, guys are missing out, and when there is a guy it might be in a while it might not be, but like if you really dnt like it ask a guy out, they thinkits fine. ive dun it! just be assertive flirty and not slutty but not too prude!

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my boyfriend has kissed so many girls (and boys) that its just ridiculous. i have never been kissed. the thought of kissing him makes me really nervous. i'm not asking for kissing advice. but when we do have our first kiss, how bad am i going to be? lol. i mean is he going to be really turned off by me being inexperienced? share your stories, plz, i am nervous. :(

ok well everyone has this feeling EVEN ME...i had it. but the thing is when it happens, it just happens and u dnt know it! really. most guys thinks its cute, and he wont get mad, hell think its cute, and cool , and he might like it....du u get that? well i hoipe i helped

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Okay, so this boy.. he likes me. He used to go with one of my friends. Well, really we just got good friends.. but I didn't know they were going out untill like a week ago.. I really want to go out with him, yet again... I don't want to do that to a friend. But, we're not like best budz for life.. or anything, we're just like..friends. Soo..would I be wrong for going out with him... Should I just leave him alone,?..and go fetch some other fishes in the sea?

well i think that you should first consult your friend. If shes really not that good of your friend then it shouldnt be a problem with you or her, unless she still really cares about him. But personally i think that it isnt wrong to go out with him. You like him, and he likes you, and he went out with a friend of yours, but not a best freind. So it should be ok, but you really need to talk to this friend first, becasue you never know what could happen if she stilled like him. hope i helped
Lauren

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Okay sorry this is so long....

ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hes rushing you, and you really dont want that. and if all he wants is the sex then maybe you have to think if he really wants you. he probably does, but rushing isnt always good,plus its ONLY BEEN two weeks, and hes 18! 15 may not be young to some people, but my brother is 15 and its really young to have sex, and maybe if you do choose to do it that young it ould be with someone younger. Plus a lot of people think guys are the guys of there dreams, but hes probably not and your young[[so am i]], i know what your going through[[in a way]] and its really hard to actually take action, but loosing your virginity too your boyfriend of 2 weeks, who is ALSO 18 isnt something to risk. I really think you should talk to him, and if all he wasnts is to rush to sex hes NOT worth your time or tears! if worse comes to worse you might have to break up...and that will suck, but its really whats healthiest, and safest for your body, and youself, as in stress and those things. if you do break up you might cry, but then you really need to think of all the bad things that were and could have happened. hope i helped
Lauren

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. It was great at first. We agrue all the time now and he gets on nerves all the time. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves. I love him and i want to be with him but i am not sure what is going on, He says that its just me, and he thinks that nothing is wrong with our relationship. Please help me.

i think that you should talk to him about it. but if things really start to get real bad then you should just break up becasue you dont want things getting out of control. Plus he might not see it as a problem for so many reasons but you see it differently, maybe you could try to think about what youve done to see why he doesnt thiks its a problem, but it this keeps happeneing and you just dont feel comfortable, then you really should break up.hope i helped
Lauren

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There is something wrong with me! Everytime i start liking aguy i change myself (sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad). It's not just my peronallity it's also my intresets! I just want them to like me back! I am so affraid to show "real me", i'm afraid they will never like it!! And I have gotten to the point i don't know who the "real me" is anymore! I have just copied all the guys i have been intrested in and that's it...am i a hoplesscase or is there any light at the end of my tunnel? Please help me!

this happens to a lot of people and it just might keep hapenning. its just something we girls do to get attention, but we sometimes make ourselves not as noticable becasue of it. its normal and all you have to do is try to find what you really like. if there is a time your just with your friends, try new things and maybe old ones too and see what you like and try to find the real you. sometimes it takes A GUY to find the real you, like in movies..i know stupid but true. i didnt know who i was at my new school until i finally just found sumthing....and you shuld to, my something was someone who i felt comfortable with, yu really should try to search for something you dont feel wong liking. Its not that great of advice..but i really do hope it helped
Lauren

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Ok so i like two guys..

one is my current boyfriend (("Hollister" well call him that))

the other

is a family friend ((areopostle))

... My mom doesnt know about Hollister

and she knows that bAreopostle thinks im cute

.. I reallly like Aero too.

And i sorta dont like Holllister anymore..

so what do i do??

do i break up with Hollister for Areo

or what
??

HELP!! :]
thank in advanced

:]

truthfully i think that you should just let hollister down easy, but dont mention areo, just tell him u wanna break up, wutever a good reason that doenst mention this other boy. Plus if you really want to be happy, you would go out with Areo. PLus its not always good not to let ur mom know, i did that once, and it was really weird, becasue wen we broke up everyone knew, so i had to tell her, but if you do it now you wont be lying to your mom, and youd be hapy. hope i helped
Lauren

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13/f
Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks now. We both like each other alotalotalot.
We've hung out with each other every weekend. He met my mom & dad, i met his mom, and our moms met each other.

The previous times that he has hung out at my house, we've just cuddled on the couch watching a movie. We've never made out (once i tried to..), just regular kissed. We both want to makeout with each other, and we've talked about it. Except everytime we plan to, my mom is at the top of the stairs, or we're supervised SOMEHOW. When we try to go outside, my mom is always like "NO KISSING" and she watches us.

I've made out with my last boyfriend several times, without my mom getting involed. I don't know if it's possible for my to go over my boyfriends house, because i know my mom would be suspicious and know what we want to do.

well im 13 too, and wen i was with my boyfriend[ex] i didnt really know what to do and where and my mom got suspicious, but we ended up never making out.. : [...but im not quite sure where you can. BUt you could try to talk to you mom about it. talk to her about kissing, and then talk to her about the whole ordeal. it would be best if you did it right before bed, good time to let it sink in. this might not be the best thing if you know she doesnt approve of it, but if it becomes your only opption you should. but im sorry i dnt really know where because i dnt know where you live. but i hope it works!
Lauren

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i have a problem. ive been friends with this kid 'tom'. we're really, really close, and i just recently found out he likes me because he told one of my friends, who eventually told me. i was shocked, yet happy at the same time. Ever since i found this out, we have been together all the time in school. [in the halls, ect.] we also have a couple classes together and we text all the time in class. =X, ha, anyways, i have concluded that i really like him, alot, which is great for me because ive had trouble likeing someone ever since my last relationship i was in.[it was terrible.] But, theres one problem, hes 100% mexican, and pretty dark. Im irish, and my dad has a huge problem, and won't let me date anyone who's 'not white'. This bothers me because he is honestly, one of the nicest, and best friend i could ever ask for, and i really, really like him, and would love to date him. But i know my dad wouldn't approve. How could i try to talk to my dad about allowing me to be with him ? =/

If you really like this kid then you should give it a try, and talk to your dad about how he is a good guy. My first serious relationship was with someone who was black, and i went to a very white school, and my dad didnt seem to like it very much either. But a good way to resolve a problem like that is to talk to your dad, or even both your parents to let them know that even if he isnt white, he still is a good kid and they should give him a chance. If they dont like him in the end then they can deal with it. So dont let your parents get in the way if you truly like him, just talk to them. hope that helps

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