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This one or that one??
Ok so i like two guys..
one is my current boyfriend (("Hollister" well call him that))
the other
is a family friend ((areopostle))
... My mom doesnt know about Hollister
and she knows that bAreopostle thinks im cute
.. I reallly like Aero too.
And i sorta dont like Holllister anymore..
so what do i do??
do i break up with Hollister for Areo
or what
??
HELP!! :]
thank in advanced
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"never leave the one you love for the one you like
because the one you like will leave you
for the one they love."
holy sheee-ot is that a true quote.
unless you're positive you're ready
to end things with hollister,
don't leave him.
I made this mistake and I'm completely
a mess about it.
I dumped my 'hollister' for my 'aero'
and i've regreted it ever since.
so unless you know 10000000 percent
that you're over hollister,
don't do it.
it might end in heartache =/
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haha that was kinda funny that you gave them names after stores. but okayyy.
well first of all, if youre not happy with "hollister" then you need to break up with him. dragging it on when you arent happy with the relationship is a BAD thing. but if you only like "aeropostale" because he thinks youre cute.. then that isnt a good idea either. maybe you just dont like "hollister" anymore because he doesnt compliment you or show you how much he likes you the way that "aeropostale" does. consider that. but whatever you decide to do.. dont let "hollister" think that you are dumping him for "aeropostale". guys dont like that and you will get a bad name at your school. so if you really want to dump your boyfriend then do it nicely, remain friends with him if possible. then wait a little while before you go out with "aeropostale".
trust me. this same thing happened to me. i was going out with a guy and i liked one of his best friends. i let the relationship drag on for too long.. bad move. then i broke up with him and went out with his friend 9 days later. they hate eachother now.
i dont know if "hollister" and "aeropostale" are friends or not. but if they are, then you need to be sensitive to their feelings.
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Well, if you don't like "Hollister" anymore then you should breakup with him. I was in the same situation, and I ended up breaking up with my bf for another guy, and it worked out my bf took it pretty well. Just make sure you don't go out with "aero" too quickly after you break up with "hollister", give it a little time.
Hope I helped :)
Nicole x0x
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truthfully i think that you should just let hollister down easy, but dont mention areo, just tell him u wanna break up, wutever a good reason that doenst mention this other boy. Plus if you really want to be happy, you would go out with Areo. PLus its not always good not to let ur mom know, i did that once, and it was really weird, becasue wen we broke up everyone knew, so i had to tell her, but if you do it now you wont be lying to your mom, and youd be hapy. hope i helped
Lauren
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ok, for one thing, why are you naming them after stores? just wanted to know that
and if you dont like your boyfriend anymore, break up with him, do what you think would make you the happiest
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well if you know for a fact areo like you.. because its wrong to lead on hollister and you dont want to do anything ur gonna regret so simply break up with him and just wait a while befor goin out with areo right away.
tell me how it goes?
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You gave yourself the answer. Drop Hollister & go for Aero. If you don't like Hollister but stayed with him anyways, you'd be leading him on and he'd only get hurt worse in the end, so do it now.
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you answered your own question..."And i sorta dont like Holllister anymore.." if you don't like him anymore then you should break up with him so he can find somebody else that does like him.
what i think you should do is break up with 'hollister' but don't ask 'aero' out right away. you said he thinks your cute, but that doesn't mean he likes you. i think a lot of guys are cute but that doesn't mean i like them. so just break up with 'hollister' and wait a little while and try flirting with 'aero' and either eventually 'aero' will ask you out, or he will show signs that he likes you and you can ask him out.
good luck :]
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if you like aero then i would break up with hollister. although i wouldn't suggest going out with aero right away. i would give it some time. it wouldn't be fair for hollister if you kept going out with him while you liked someone else, just make sure not to hurt his feelings. good luck<3
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