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It's me again, and the situation has worsened; on my girlfri
We're now better off than before, but her parents are very against our relationship. To tell you the truth, they are the only hurdle left in this race, and it seems impossible to overcome them. Her parents don't allow her to see me or go out with me or whatsoever. What am i to do? I'm prepared to wait for her to get out of her parents grasps. Yea, i'm a teenager, 19 years old, this year. So is she.
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Guess what? The others who answered before me are wrong. REGARDLESS OF HER AGE, whether she's 18 or 45, she's living in her parents' house and she has to live by their rules. So, until she moves out on her own, there's legally nothing you can do about it.
HOWEVER... don't lose all hope! :)
Try getting to know the parents. Find out what they're concerned about. Maybe you can come to a compromise that allows you to go out with her, but keeps them from worrying. Show them what a nice, respectable young gentleman you are, and how well you'll treat their daughter. They could just be over-protective or may have had a wrong first impression. Dress nicely, speak respectfully, and there's no way they could not like you.
No matter WHAT they say, remember to keep a cool head and don't let them provoke you into giving them anything to prove their preconceived notion of you right.
Good luck!
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your BOTH old enough to make your own descisions. she does have to respect her parents, and if shes living with them she should, but she really can make up her own mind....let her know by phone, and see what she says...any more questions on this ask me personally.
hope i helped
lauren
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If she is over the age of 18, then her parents can't tell her what to do or who to hang out with, as long as she respects the rules of the house.
If she is over 18, she can legally go hang out with you when ever she so chooses, no matter what her parents think about it.
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