Okay, this boy likes me. Yet, he used to go out with one of
Question Posted Monday April 9 2007, 9:01 pm
Okay, so this boy.. he likes me. He used to go with one of my friends. Well, really we just got good friends.. but I didn't know they were going out untill like a week ago.. I really want to go out with him, yet again... I don't want to do that to a friend. But, we're not like best budz for life.. or anything, we're just like..friends. Soo..would I be wrong for going out with him... Should I just leave him alone,?..and go fetch some other fishes in the sea?
iwantthetruth answered Monday April 9 2007, 9:36 pm: well i was in the same situation and what ended up happening was that my friend got over the guy and ended up going out with another guy. it might not work out this smoothly though. so first i suggest that you talk to her. explain that you like him and ask her if she'll mind you two dating. most likely she will not mind. if this is the case then go for it. if not then you should probably move on/ look for other guys.
lets just say i have a friend who is going out with her friends ex behind her back. she found out and now they hate eachother and trust me its not pretty. so just make sure it feels like ur doing the RIGHT thing and you'll never go wrong
duckyville72 answered Monday April 9 2007, 9:31 pm: well i think that you should first consult your friend. If shes really not that good of your friend then it shouldnt be a problem with you or her, unless she still really cares about him. But personally i think that it isnt wrong to go out with him. You like him, and he likes you, and he went out with a friend of yours, but not a best freind. So it should be ok, but you really need to talk to this friend first, becasue you never know what could happen if she stilled like him. hope i helped
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xxaoifexxx answered Monday April 9 2007, 9:30 pm: i think you should just ask your friend would she mind if you go out with him?just to be on the safe side you dont want to have a fight with a friend over a boy.she might not mind you going out with him but if she does then dont go out with him because as you said yourself theres plenty other fish in the sea.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx [ xxaoifexxx's advice column | Ask xxaoifexxx A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Monday April 9 2007, 9:29 pm: Well first I would talk to your friend. Let her know that you've developed feelings for him and you know the two of them used to date and you don't want to try anything with him if you know it's going to make her uncomfortable [ this shows your a good friend and you respect her and everything and are considering her feelings in the matter whereas most girls wouldn't ]. See what she says.
If she says she's fine with it, then go for it & good luck! :]
If she says she's uncomfortable with it, then tell her you understand and don't try and make a move on him. Of course talk to him and everything still, just don't give him hints that you like him and everything. She may be uncomfortable because she might still like him a little or feel he's her "property" of some sort, so try and get her to set her new sights on another guy and see what happens then. Obviousyl, don't make your plan of making her like another guy obvious, but just point out to her all the cute guys there are in the area next time you two hang out at the mall or somewhere, and see what happens later.
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