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14/f
going out with my boyfriend for a year now.. hes birthdays coming up in a month. he has like an aquarium full of fish.
i'm thinking somehow i could get him/make him a gift related to his love of fish? [[he doesn't eat them]]
But i'm pretty sure he doesn't need another fishie pet lol. Any ideas or opinons on what to buy him?
thankss for reading :)
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SEA MONKEYS!!

The gift can be amusing, whilst being cute, "old school" and a some form of fish ahha.

Just think..they can be your fishy babies ...and not be too much of a responsibility :)haha

And come on..who wouldnt appriciarte sea monkeys?!

If not, maybe buy something miniature to PUT into the aquarium like a cool figure( you can get almost anything like skulls, castles, statues etc ) , im sure they sell them at pet shops, Walmarts..other ...Marts, haha...and the mall.

Have fun and I hope you find something appropriate :D



- Alex


i'll try not to make this too long. so there's this guy named joe, and he just got out of a relationship with this girl, they were together for about 5 or 6 months. (we r 15 by the way). anyway, he and this girl gave each other oral sex. recently, me and joe have been talking and flirting, and we like each other. i think his friends know that. well recently he became kind of popular. i'm in between popular and like...normal. anyway so he was grinding with me at this dance a few nights ago. online we have been having really intense talks about like, how far i would go with a guy and i said i wouldn't go past feeling up for a while. he said that that might eventually push us apart because he has such a high sex drive (this was like a week ago). anyway, he came to my house this weekend and we made out a lot and stuff. and it really seemed like he liked me, he would randomly come up and hug me really tight and just sort of nuzzle into my neck. well since then we haven't really been talking too much. online i will try to start conversation and he will just answer and say nothing else...and at school he has been flirting with other girls (but he's a really big flirt and we aren't official yet or anything). also, 2 nights ago he told my friend that he was going to ask me to our homecoming dance...but he hardly talks to me. should i ask him if he is still interested? i fell for him really, really hard and i'm so scared that if i ask if he's not interested, he will admit that that's true, and i'll lose him. what should i do? (link)
If you are constantly chasing Joe around, you are giving him self-satisfaction because it seems to me this is what he wants.


I’d play him at his own game. Act slightly interested but also act sour towards him…after all..you would only be imitating his behaviour towards you.

His behaviour may I add, is unacceptable. It seems to me that Joe is either doing this to cause a reaction because he likes you. or he is just another jerk who is messing you around, and has no interest.

Either way you need to know where you stand. He’s already made it clear he has no clue whatsoever on how a girl’s mind works so instead of confronting you, he’s typically immaturely ignoring you. To some degree.
When you to get talking again, even if its not the way you want the pair of you to be heading, I’d make this clear. After all., Your emotions are very fragile at this point in life .
Explain to him that he CAN NOT continue to behave in this manor.

(Eventually girls will realise what he’s like and sensibly step far away from him)

This is an awful thing to say, but I think Joe is behaving this way either because

A)You didn’t give him what he wanted that weekend

Or a more upbeat 2nd suggestion

b) he DOES like you, and is possibly afraid for what you may feel, and so is testing you to see what your reaction is. (…in one of the worst ways possible)

Whatever the reason, it is affecting you undesirably. The next step is deciding what YOU need to do.

I don’t want to bring your hopes up, or let them down. But seriously if I were you- I would have left him after that conversation you had.

If he says he has a high sex drive, and that you not having a high libido will part the pair of you, I hope you realised that he only wants one thing.

And any sensible girl knows that one single boy is not worth that torture.

Leave it a few days to see how he acts around you. And if he does ask you to homecoming, which is great, I WOULD say yes, we need to talk first.

After all, it would be bloody cheeky of him to expect you to say

“Oh yes of course I will! You’re the best Joe!!!”

Ok maybe not THAT squeakily happy…
…But he’d better not be expecting you to be grateful with the fact he’s asked you after all of his bull.

If he wants to avoid the situation where you would tell him how he’s made you feel, I would leave him :(

I really wish you the best, it seems to me you really like this guy, but I hope that if things don’t turn out all right, you find a better guy who can make you happier, and someone who will not pull the same stunts as Joe.

Take care, and chin up! :)

- Alex


is it right to have a bf or a gf, and yet flirt just for a change (link)
Its not right..but its not wrong either.

Make sure it's innocent, nothing too heavy otherwise this could cause future problems in relationships.

Consider your morels. Is the flirting for all the right reasons?

Hope this helped.
Take care,
Alex.


sorry i didn't know what to put this under but, i have a problem with my makeup staying on for a long time. No matter what i do it just wont stay on for more than an hour unless i keep puttin it on, especially the eyeliner. Any tips on how to get the eyeliner to last longer atleast? (link)
It's fairly expensive..but it's a wonderful invention!

An American brand called "Models Prefer" make up..heard of that?

Their face Primer is AMAZING!

I really do reccomend it to you!

here's the website

http://www.modelsprefer.com

You may fnd some other products you like. i have a whole case FILL of Models Prefer make up , and the Primer itself costs £15 in the UK ( $22) but worked out a total bargain because the cae of make up cost no more than £35!


Not only is the make up frienly to skin, but it looks too fabulous for words!

You can purchace it on the website too!

QVC have them on regualarly over here, so it may be worth watching!

Have fun!
Alex


i'm a 22 year felmale and was very clingy to my exboyfriend and is the reason why we broke up.

what i want to know is why do people become clingy what causes this and how can you stop?

him and i still care for each other but i still show him that i am clingy and we both don't like the fact that i became like this. (link)
Im sorry to hear this.

I know EXACTLY where you're coming from.

To be honest, I felt I was clingy..and the only reason was because I was insecure due to HIS actions.

He basically controled me like a robot..and my first boyfriend was the same.

Unfortunatley he moulded me into this clingy monster, who WASNT the real me at ALL and all I could do was secretly blame him, whilst he PUBLICALLY blamed me.

I hope you were treated better and im not sure if these are the same cirumstances for you, however, it doesnt seem to me as if your ex reasoned with you (un-harshly), or tried to help you.

(maybe if he did you'd still be together :()

Please realise that you are able to control yourself, and you CAN gradually stop..once youve found the right person who doesnt make you feel clingy!

I think clingyness is a result from not being able to truest them, or feeling unloved in some form. I know this is true in my case!

You want to show him youre not clingy?

If he calls you...dont pick up first time.

Wait for him to call. If he hasnt called you back 3 hours later, YOU call ( whenever you like)casually apologise, saying you were busy and didnt realise he rang.

If he texts, emails you..or contacts you in any form (APART FROM SPEECH!) Then delay your reply.
(MORE THAN 10 MONUTES!! haha)

Unless he urgently needs you... you can be as lazy as you like replying, even though i know it's tempting to tet him back, myspace him back or whatever IMMEDIATLEY!

You'll just have to resist temptaion, reassuring yourself that its for the best :(

Dont have a hostile tone towards him if you want to maintain the peace, just explain that youve got alot going on blah blah..and if he doesnt seem to like it ( he wont come out and say it..unless youre ex is a rude as mine :)) but if he doesnt like it..you know its working.

If youre on a really good friends basis, then suggest to meet up in a week or so ( if you know he wont object).
The reason to meet up a while away is to show youre not desperate to see him but to show that you still care.

If he blows you off, just say it doesnt mattter and youll keep the original plans to go with your friend, but thought he may like shotgun or something.

However, if HE is the one saying, "can't we see eachother sooner?" then let him have what he wants...BUT if he says "Wednesday?" say..."uhh..no ...thursday :)"


Then you have control..which is the thing you lacked in your relationship.

I really wish you luck, being able to relate with this on so many levels.

Update me if you need more help or anything!

Take care,
Alex


14/f
i have a question on the rules of cheating.

okay well i had this boyfriend and we had gotten into a fight because he was playing witha girls hair and hands infront of me. i asked him why he did that and he gave me the "rules". he said what he did was being "friendly", kissing is "innocent" flirting and sex is the only thing considered to be cheating. i told him that those rules only apply to him. i told him what he did was flirting (innocent i don't know intentional? yes).kissing is where the cheating starts and the only he got right was that sex was cheating too. would you agree with me or not and why.

please and thank you! =]] (link)
Right.

Cheating is cheating. simple as.

I class cheating as being unfaithfl in any form.

you decide out of the below what YOU would class as cheating:

Texting suggestive messages to eachother, or in email form , myspace comments or whatever...

Seeing another person behind one's back (especially if guilt striken)

Heavy flirting

Holding hands

Kissing on the lips (and KNOWING it means something)

Making out

Groping ( of gentitals or breats), touching, or...uh."USE" of sexual organs, including foreplay, oral sex, intercourse.

As you can see the last section is the worst kind of cheating.


Things like going out AS JUST FRIENDS, staring at a "hot" girl, hugging, kissing on the cheek, friendly texts and messing about implying inuendo may not amuse you, and youll probably pretty much hate it..but it doesnt class as cheating.

However, there IS huge difference between innocence and intentional.

You may think its intentional when its innocent or vice versa.

you need to tell him what YOU think is cheating and ask him if he agrees. If he doesnt, ask him why.

Kising is worse than flirting, so i dont know wht he was on about there!

The hair thing would tick me right off..and the hands would probably cause me not to talk to him. However, i consider myself fairly jealous because im insecure over things such as this.

I'm Not sure if youre the same but you do seem concerned.

Personally, i would agree with you. kissing is cheating. it only gets worse from there.

you may be young, but it's best to educate him about the REAL RULES of cheating before he gets older, and where cheating could become far more serious.

I hope this helped!

Good Luck and take care
Alex.



18 Male

Hi there is this one girl that I really like. I mean we talk and stuff and usually play sports together. She is really competitive and so am I so we basically take it out on each other. Like I said I really care about her but the problem is she doesn't just flirt with me she acts like a playerette and messes with like every guy. Any tips to give me the competitive edge and also what are some good date ideas for the two of us. (link)
Hows it going? :)

If you play a game with her..dont let her win. this will make her happier she beat you :P

Then if YOU beat her...dont BRAG but tease her about it..and say that youll have to have a rematch sometime so you can kick her ass..or she could ATTEMPT to kick yours.

..or alternatively if she still beats you without you letting her (haha) then still insist on a rematch and say that you wont let her kick your ass again and youll attampt to kick hers ( and dont give up until you win!) :)

If she's easily offeded dont sound rude when you say it..just try to laugh or say it with a smile on your face!

Right,,the messing around with guys bit..I THINK is to get you wound up and concerned ..and it looks like its worked :(

if she does this INFRONT of you..after you telling her you like her..she must feel SOMETHING back.

If not and she is doing this as a nasty act I'd rethink about the girl.

However, if shes continuing to play sports or games with you..i doubt that alot :)


i dont know what you do play but it could be as simple as going to the park together and secretly taking a rugby ball and ask her if she wants a match and plunge into a game.


if you hit it off, suggest that you two should take a night off being competitive , or take a night off "you beating me" and go to the movies where the only thing thats ok for her to win is her choice of movie!


In the meanwhile, if youre concerned about other guys, try to engage her in converstation (with substance), catch her eye and smile randomly, try to make her laugh :). Hopefully this sould makke you seem more interesting than the others, and youll be ahead in the game!

Compliments are where it's at if you know she'll apprriciate them. comment on what shes wearing,ask her if shes done something different to her appearence, then continue to respond (if she asks why) with something like " oh i dunno then, its just..you seem to have more of a glow today than usual :)"

try not to sound corny when you say it.say it casually (casual as in if you were re-assuring you mum her new haorcut is fine lol) ..but smile when you say it! :)

I wish you luck, keep me updated!

after all, I'm here to help!

Alex :)


I have been crushing on this guy for a few years and every1 would b like ewwww gross u like him. But now every1 is falling all over him and he's the most liked guy in school

I wanna let him kno i like him, but i don't want it to be like every1 else.....do you know of a suddle way of telling a guy you like him? (link)
I know EXACTLY where youre coming from on this one.

Im in a similar situation myself :)

well to be honest ..if youve liked him for this long, you MUST see him for who he really is unlike everybody else. It seems to me this guy has recently had an outburst of "man" about him and so girls are noticing this more grown up guy.

Now obviously, due to this ,its stating to show on the outside and girls like him for what he LOOKS like.

Be friendly, chatty, act NORMAL around him.
Maybe create some inside jokes.
If this is a friend, i would just see what happens because chances are that there may be the possibility of him liking you too.

(im speaking from experience on this one :))

touch his arm lightly when in conversation ESPECIALLY if he makes you laugh...or you could say: *gasp and touch his arm* "I have to get to my lesson now buuut...ill..see you later!" smilem then walk away.( unless he offers to walk you then take the offer damnit!)

when in converstation, engage eye contact. or if youre in the same room..face his way but look elsewhere and glance over every so often to check if hes looking..which if he is you should smile!

laugh at his jokes. guys LOVE that.

these ARE typical girlie giveaways to indicate you like him.

..flipping your hair is a bit cliche so just twiddle a few strands every now and again whilst talking to him ..or if he's in the same room.

you really need to be interesting when you do talk to him. Make sure your converstations have substance. For example, don't ask him what he thinks of your new top, or if your bag would look better in a different colour. This will make you seem as if you are materialistic and not an interesting person!!

Ask him what he got upto at the weekend, or what music he's into at the moment .if a question leasds on to a discussion rather than a "yeah it was aa good weekend thanks ... see.. ya!" ,thats a good sign! ( you should try to keep this up so that eventually you could ask him out with you and a few friends and see what happens!)

Keep me updated! and GOOD LUCK!!

Alex :)


My boyfriend and I have been together a little over three months. For his birthday, all he asked me for was the biggest best most amazing kiss ever. I've kissed a lot of guys, but its always been like a little peck. Now I promised him this big amazing kiss, so how do I pull it off? haha. ANYTHING can help. Thanks. (link)
Dont try too hard, because that will ruin the kiss for YOU!

Realise how much you mean to eachother.

It wont make feel you have to "be better" at it..this type of kiss will come naturally, trust me :)

Don't see it as "snogging", or "making out" or "frenching", simply gently kiss him meaningfully and naturally.


It's the best sort of kiss :)

You'll find this non-pressuring :)

Good Luck!

- Alex


How do you get out of an abusive relationship when you have no money, no close friends and nowhere to go? (link)
This may seem as an obvious sugestion but Do you not have any family members who could help AT ALL?
If you have NO ONE..not even family members I would call the police as soon as i got a chance, personally.

They WILL help you.after all... this man has committed an assult.

I'm sory to hear that this relationship is hard on you.

Please dont be afraid, once the police know about this, you'll be safe and he won't reach you.

alternatively, you could call the samaritans. they are there for anyone and EVERYONE.

Im not sure which area of thw world you originate from...but here are a few Samaritans numbers and sites:


UK: 08457 90 90 90 (UK) (www.samaritans.org)

USA : (603) 357-5505 (www.samaritansnh.org)

Republic of Ireland: 1850 60 90 90 ( the site is the same for the UK)

Im sure you're not stupid, however make sure HE isn't around when doing so...incase he assults you.
Make sure youre relaxed before you pick up the phone, and call when YOU feel ready.

I wish you the best of luck, and Sweetie stay away from men like this.

I hope life improves for yoou as soon as possible.

Alex


Can someone just reassure me that getting over true love is possible because right now I'm not so sure..

Is it possible? Have you done it?
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I believe it IS possible- in the longrun. Although the process is painful.

All i know is, although it doesnt seem like it, everything WILL be alright eventually.

I'm thinking the same as you to be honest..it doesnt seem possible.

Ive been broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a half since march.
and it still hurts alot, but i just reassure myself its for the best, and I'll find someone else who will treat me better.

Plus, I find it's the little elements in life such as music and my friends that help me not to focus on this, and to help me get by.

we can never determine how long it will take an individual to get over love. For some it takes as little as days, others months, and for some - years.

I will reasure you as much as i can..but YOU have to believe in it yourself in order for it to happen.
And unfortunatley it won't happen immediatley.

When you are over it, however, i think you'll know and will be able to continue with life acknowledging this.

Im still in-beteen stages where im content with being single, although i AM lonely. However, ive seen this happen to friends - and they HAVE overcome this "crisis".

so if they can, im sure we both can :)


you need to maintain a positive attitude and (cornily) think - anything is possible!

Best of luck - I hope this helped somehow :)
Alex


what are some thigs i could do to have me stand out bfrom everyone else...in a positive way? (link)
make yourself as individual as you can by doing the most individual thing only YOU are capable of doing...

be yourself.

act how YOU want and not how others expect you to act.

say WHAT YOU want and HOW you wish to say it.

others can not criticize you for doing this because being unique these days is very rare.

if they werent so caught up in all of this popularity bullshit and follwoing the crowd, or acting to impress others the WHOLE time,maybe they would be as strong as you by wanting to be different.

ive been doing this for about 3 years now, and to tell the truth its alot better.
youre known for WHO you are rather than what you appear.

my friends know me for being totally crazy ( and bordering on insanity haaha)...and others DO look down on me, BUT i remind myself that if theyre going to be like this all through life, they have no hope :)

good luck :D


15/m
riiight i need a bit of advice, girls your the only people who can help. i love my gf to bits but she keeps like having loads of mood swing i know the period n all that but its not that:S she keeps having loads of mood swings and everything is ok with her family and all that i dunno what it is. so girls do you get like this at times?? and if so why:S its personal yeh but i could realy do with the help. thanks very uch:) (link)
Well, you and I are in the same boat.

my ex used to become very emotional and take me along for the ride.

that included him being weird, moody and DUMPING me 3 times PLUS saying hurtful things which i could'nt manage to piece together as they werent true (or were extremely exxagerated)!!

well, now you've told me this i have alot of sympathy for you to be honsest!

it just sounds as if shes' a little inconsiderate of how this may affect you NOW becaue of what happened last time (her dumping you), and for reasons such as that its just irrational and unfair on your bahalf :(

well, you love her. you support her. you be there for her.
thats all you CAN offer.

and if she isnt grateful for that and can't see how much you care for her, then i'm sorry but you don't deseve treatment like that, and she doesn't deserve to have the privalage of having a caring boyfriend if she is just going to dismiss you.

hope that helped a little more :)
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hey

can i just say

i was actually dumped because of this.

ill tell you WHY i was like that, to help you understand :)

(if what i have to say doesnt apply, then i apoligise, im just trying to make you understand how its the things you may not even realise affecting her moods :( )


i doubt you treat her badly, but when i was with my boyfriend, it was really great until he broke up with me after 10 months. i had the occasional mood swing mostly due to hormones. however, then we got back together a month later which changed everything. i was having mood swings every week because of HIM and we broke up about 3 months ago because of it.

he was blind to it and so didnt understand, let alone ASK why i was like this.

( by the way, im not saying youre at fault at all, im just talking from experience)

he was TOTALLY in control, and this made me doubt to whether he loved me or not.
its not JUST that, it was tiny things like he may have canclled our plans, and i could never trust him.

sometimes it went as far as he would call me a name and not mean it but i took it to heart because im sensitve. and then wewould argue.

i became VERY paranoid which caused me to be VERY snappy around him.

of course, he couldnt understand this, but im hoping youll have more tollerence with her, by trying to understand...after all women have these as it is preparing them for motherhood.

if worst comes to worst, youll go a few days without seig hr so she can cool off. explain to her how you feel, and maybe youll be able to talk abiout it and explain that you may feel that its ruining what you have.

but if you love her, dont break up with her.
because that will contradict your emotions, and make her feel totally at fault.

i didnt have anything to be mooday about either apart from him. maybe its different in your situation.

She may have things she doesnt want you to know, like it may be school stress, or she MAY be having family problems, but doesnt want to say anything.
It coud be something realy samll to you, but big for her...for example her best friend may have copied her hair style or bought the same top as her.

it IS normal for us to be depressed or moody without a reason though.so dont worry :)you wont get this because luckyily, males are not as emotional as females! haha

all you can do is appriciate her for who she really is despite her "alien" personality, all girls have them. try to support her as much as possible and i know itll be hard, but she really doesnt mean to act like this.

if we could help it, we wouldnt do it :)

sorry this was a bit long, but i hope i helped somehow.
i would have offered more if you explained the situation a little further :)

you sem to care for her a great deal if youre seeking help.

good luck and i hope all goes well :)

take care

Alex


okay so i have a boyfriend of about 9 months now and i love him so much.. it's just sometimes he annoys me and we get into stupid little fights..i have a problem with like over thinking things, or sometimes i let things get to me that shouldn't. does anyone have any advice as to how i can just let things go and be more carefree about things? and also is this normal? like do couples get into little stupid fights? just let me know! thank youu (link)
YES THEY DAMN WELL DO!!

i am, EXACTLY the same as you. i over think EVERYHITNG..i think too much..that it sometimes CAUSES the stupid fights.

the only way to resolve this is to talk to one another it.

(without sounding like an insaine psychologist:)do you feel you need to be constantly reassured..or you have trust issues?
this may be why.

i know i do..which isnt good.
at least youve aknowlegded this..well done :)

i feel my boyfiend of a year and a half will get back with his ex...of 6 months maximum! its 90% likely he wont...but i convince myself he will..because im stupid like that.and im neurotic (creating probs that dont exist...a result of too much thinking..again!)

however, i tell myself that if he didnt love you, he wouldnt be here for you. "so quit your whining" hehehe

now that you understand how you feel, take action...take a deep breath before speaking out loud, and calmly tell him what you feel, and how you think you over think :)
if he loves you, the least he could do is try to understand. :)

it will be hard, but you can do it :)
good luck:)


i like him
hes likes me
hes got girlfriend
im fridgid
help lol (link)
well, if he likes you back, all he has to do is break up with his girlfriend..if hes telling you the truth.

about being "frigid"...i dont know how old you are..whatever the age, there is no age where youre expected to be sexually active in any way.

if you ever have that desire, make sure you're ready, dont plunge into anyhitng you may regret.

take it a step at a time.

remember, dont push him to break up with her. how he is feeling is confusing enough (maybe he feels a bit guilty THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT THOUGH!! well...unless you left out something :) )...she may be devistated with his decision. in these situations, you have to consider EVERYONES feelings.

good luck whatever happens :)


I just thought I'd get some different opinions from different people... The question is...

What is the meaning of Love? [define love]

Thank you (link)
love is undescribable as an emotion.

everyone has their own way of feeling this, or expresing it.

from current experience, i can tell you that without love i would not be complete.
you have ups and downs , but are still there for one another, and still feel the same for each other after.

love is unique, each person has a different experience, or story to tell, of how they would define it..but you will never find out until you have fallen in love yourself.

falling in love is the best thing that can happen to a person in my opinion.
its all you need to make you truely happy.

once you have fallen in love..you WILL know.

p.s: ignore people when they tell you that youre too young. we wouldnt claim that we were in love if we didnt believe where our hearts were leading us.


when my boyfriend and i make out. i get really wet. what is considered normal. i dont want to be a freak and get unusally wet. thats why i wont let him go any further because i think i get too wet. so what is normal (link)
do you know how much that turns a guy on?...if anything, he'd be all over you more if you did let him go any further.
yes, you are totally normal, and lucky you get aroused fairly easily. itll make anything you DO do with him alot better for you:)

the only way your "wetness" will vary is plainly on how aroused you are.

hope i helped :)


im in 8th grade, in a really small school. there is only 8 guys in my whole 8th grade. there all shallow, and will only go out with "hot" girls. sometimes they say, "if you cant supply, we will deny." Is that true about all guys? (link)
no they are not.

if they say that to you...just tell them they're immature, and rely on the "easy" girls to get what they want,(even though what they want will be no use to them once they have it) and if theyre always going to be like that..they wont get anywhere in life.

shame for the really..because the girls who those shallow guys dont class as "hot" get the better guys anyway :)

They arent woth the time, or effort. tell them that too.

if they STILL have something to say, you can tell them :by that comment they just gave..,they just confirmed themselves to be an asshole.

i can safely say that by you asking this, youre one of the mature ones, who havent fallen for them or their stupid ways.

good on you :)


Is it normal for the guy who loves u to check out other girls? because i find it sorta disrespectful but i also hear its normal and im confused.. (link)
would you like it if your girlfriend checked out other guys? thinking "man..HE'S hot!"

how would you feel...honstly now!
you may say you dont mind...but deep down you pprobably do...she may not like it at all..i know id get upset if my BF did it..which he probably does.

yes it is natural...we all do it.
just dont let it get in the way of your relationship. have respect for your GF and DONT , DONT say "shes pretty."
now THATS insulting to a girl :(

good luck :)


my bf's friend died. i want to give him something sweet to show how sorry i am. but i dont know what. we just started going out. i already told him i am so soo sorry for him, but i want to give him a sweet little something. what should it be (link)
he'll appriciate a gift from the heart..i dont mean a physical gift i mean an emotional gesture.

that means your support and your companionship.

dont be too sympathetic...he may not want it.
just hug him and be there for him when he needs you :)

im sorry to hear his frind died (but dont tell him :S)

good luck :)




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