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Boyfriend stealers


Question Posted Monday September 10 2007, 9:30 pm

I have been crushing on this guy for a few years and every1 would b like ewwww gross u like him. But now every1 is falling all over him and he's the most liked guy in school

I wanna let him kno i like him, but i don't want it to be like every1 else.....do you know of a suddle way of telling a guy you like him?


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dia answered Wednesday September 12 2007, 12:10 pm:
I know EXACTLY where youre coming from on this one.

Im in a similar situation myself :)

well to be honest ..if youve liked him for this long, you MUST see him for who he really is unlike everybody else. It seems to me this guy has recently had an outburst of "man" about him and so girls are noticing this more grown up guy.

Now obviously, due to this ,its stating to show on the outside and girls like him for what he LOOKS like.

Be friendly, chatty, act NORMAL around him.
Maybe create some inside jokes.
If this is a friend, i would just see what happens because chances are that there may be the possibility of him liking you too.

(im speaking from experience on this one :))

touch his arm lightly when in conversation ESPECIALLY if he makes you laugh...or you could say: *gasp and touch his arm* "I have to get to my lesson now buuut...ill..see you later!" smilem then walk away.( unless he offers to walk you then take the offer damnit!)

when in converstation, engage eye contact. or if youre in the same room..face his way but look elsewhere and glance over every so often to check if hes looking..which if he is you should smile!

laugh at his jokes. guys LOVE that.

these ARE typical girlie giveaways to indicate you like him.

..flipping your hair is a bit cliche so just twiddle a few strands every now and again whilst talking to him ..or if he's in the same room.

you really need to be interesting when you do talk to him. Make sure your converstations have substance. For example, don't ask him what he thinks of your new top, or if your bag would look better in a different colour. This will make you seem as if you are materialistic and not an interesting person!!

Ask him what he got upto at the weekend, or what music he's into at the moment .if a question leasds on to a discussion rather than a "yeah it was aa good weekend thanks ... see.. ya!" ,thats a good sign! ( you should try to keep this up so that eventually you could ask him out with you and a few friends and see what happens!)

Keep me updated! and GOOD LUCK!!

Alex :)

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