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Friends don't like eachother D:
Ok! So, I have this best friend called Lucy. We've been best friends since third grade.
Lucy met another best friend in 7th grade, named Kelly. I never really hung out with Kelly except when Lucy was around and even when Lucy was around we usually didn't.
We all went to the same high school which was a big deal because Lucy was supposed to go to Granite Springs and me and Kelly were supposed to go to Newland Heights, where all our friends were going. Well, Lucy was really upset and freaking out and she was going through a bad time with her parents so me and Kelly, being REALLY good friends transfered to Granite, even though Lucy was, like, our only friend there.
So then me and Kelly start to hang out, which I guess makes LUCY really mad, I guess. Lucy starts yelling at us that she never wanted to be our friend, lying that she's fine, trying to TRANSFER SCHOOLS, acting really awkward, stuff like that. NOw I guess lucy and me are ok, but kelly and lucy are still on weird terms. It's really awkward now, like this huge elephant in the room. We've tried talking about it which makes everything SO MUCH WORSE, and we've ignored it forever and ou can still feel the awkwardness. There is a lot of things that Lucy and Kelly are mad at eachother for, but Lucy would never straight out say anything. Also, she's mad at me for hanging out with Kelly WAY more, but I value both of their friendships so much.Please, tell me how to heal this fractured friendship!
Caught in the Middle
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Well with kelly and lucy not being friend you just have to let them deal with that on their own. Even though you love them both and want to help it might just makes matters worse so leave it to them, don't get caught in more drama than you need to be in.
As for staying friends with both of them, just be as loyal as you can. Let kelly and lucy know that even though there not friends you still are friend with both of them, they cant tel you who you can and cant hang out with. Most likely everything will boil over sooner or later and things will go back to normal.
Jess<3
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dont give your advice to either of them about the other it will blow up in your face, i think you are both very good friends to her i wouldnt have gone through transferring schools for anyone. if she didnt have any problems with you guys being friends before maybe she doesnt right now either maybe its something else bothering her like some kind of recent change? and she sees the change that your friendship has made which she is having trouble with. sounds like shes not feeling to stable right now. keep reminding her that she has good taste in friends and the three of you are stronger then just two of you.stay strong it sounds like rocky roads. brie
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