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Tell me the truth
Can someone just reassure me that getting over true love is possible because right now I'm not so sure..
Is it possible? Have you done it?
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I think it depends on how in love you were with that person. I was in love with someone once and I spent most of my freshman year trying to get over them, but sometimes you can't. If you love someone, you will not be able to just forget them. You can only move on. You will think about them less and less as you move on. It's like grief. There will always be a few times when you will think of them again and will feel some pain and heartache, but it fades slowly.
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Are you even sure it was true love or was it an infatuation you had so deep for this person you feel that way?
Time will help.
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I believe that you can fall in love more than once, and if you break up with them or whatever you can get over it.
I also belive that there is only one TRUE love. possibly you fell in love but its not true love.
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I don't mean to be a cynic, but in my opinion, if you truly love someone, then you'll always love them...no matter what.
::Jasmine::
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I believe it IS possible- in the longrun. Although the process is painful.
All i know is, although it doesnt seem like it, everything WILL be alright eventually.
I'm thinking the same as you to be honest..it doesnt seem possible.
Ive been broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a half since march.
and it still hurts alot, but i just reassure myself its for the best, and I'll find someone else who will treat me better.
Plus, I find it's the little elements in life such as music and my friends that help me not to focus on this, and to help me get by.
we can never determine how long it will take an individual to get over love. For some it takes as little as days, others months, and for some - years.
I will reasure you as much as i can..but YOU have to believe in it yourself in order for it to happen.
And unfortunatley it won't happen immediatley.
When you are over it, however, i think you'll know and will be able to continue with life acknowledging this.
Im still in-beteen stages where im content with being single, although i AM lonely. However, ive seen this happen to friends - and they HAVE overcome this "crisis".
so if they can, im sure we both can :)
you need to maintain a positive attitude and (cornily) think - anything is possible!
Best of luck - I hope this helped somehow :)
Alex
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It is totally possible!! I does take ages because it took me long enough but trust me, eventually you will be over it! Ino that its really hard but and it seems that you will love him/her for ever but you wont;) Just keep telling yourself that it is possible x x
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