im in 8th grade, in a really small school. there is only 8 guys in my whole 8th grade. there all shallow, and will only go out with "hot" girls. sometimes they say, "if you cant supply, we will deny." Is that true about all guys?
TheLostOne answered Monday February 26 2007, 5:46 pm: Not all guys are like that.
I know I'm not.
But I have to admit, some guys can be.
And if they are, don't waste your time on them.
You are way to good for that, not matter who you are.
Hope I helped you out =] [ TheLostOne's advice column | Ask TheLostOne A Question ]
clarayow answered Sunday February 25 2007, 7:23 pm: It's bullshit. They talk like that cos they're the minority and they know that. They see themselves as needles in a haystack. But really, not all guys are like that. I believe not all guys in your school are like that.
They are saying that because they are very confident that you girls out there want them so bad since there are only 8 of them. Once they get out of your school, they're nothing.
BitsandPieces answered Sunday February 25 2007, 7:10 pm: Yes, all guys are pretty much idiots in the 8th grade and several years after. Sometimes a few of them turn human by college. Most of the guys who would say such garbage will die virgins and are saying that to impress one another and fake some sort of coolness. Funny thing is, it is the girls that have ALL the power when it comes to sex and most everything else. We hold all the cards and they are bumbling babbling idiots who pray everynight they won't be discovered for the meek fragile small-weiners they are. Ignore all 8th grade boys and wait untill you have at least a pool of 100 guys to choose from, before you pay any attention to them at all. Chances are there is one boy in 100 even worth listening to at this point in your life. Next time they chant some stupid line out about "we will deny", remind them that they have nothing you want and that they are the ones who will have to spend every moment of their pitiful lives trying to figure out what it takes to please and attract a woman. You ARE the prize my dear and have nothing to fear. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
modelkate11 answered Sunday February 25 2007, 5:58 pm: no there are deffinately less shallow guys out there. my guy friends have said to me that it doenst always matter how you look but it's more about your personality. they said that they like mature girls more than hot immature ones. because if you're immature, they wont see the beauty they'll only see the ugly personality. does that make sense? if you're looking for a boy friend then try to make some friends from other schools or maybe a grade higher than you, they'll be a little more mature. [ modelkate11's advice column | Ask modelkate11 A Question ]
dia answered Sunday February 25 2007, 5:40 pm: no they are not.
if they say that to you...just tell them they're immature, and rely on the "easy" girls to get what they want,(even though what they want will be no use to them once they have it) and if theyre always going to be like that..they wont get anywhere in life.
shame for the really..because the girls who those shallow guys dont class as "hot" get the better guys anyway :)
They arent woth the time, or effort. tell them that too.
if they STILL have something to say, you can tell them :by that comment they just gave..,they just confirmed themselves to be an asshole.
i can safely say that by you asking this, youre one of the mature ones, who havent fallen for them or their stupid ways.
Flaggal answered Sunday February 25 2007, 4:10 pm: not all guys. i think those guys in your 8th grade are all liars. most guys don't think like that. they just say that because of their 'cool friends' [ Flaggal's advice column | Ask Flaggal A Question ]
bittyleigh answered Sunday February 25 2007, 3:57 pm: not all guys are like that at all. Actually those 8 in your school probably aren't even like that. They are just all talk. And since there are so few, it's hard for any one of them to be in a different group. The popular guys are the ONLY guys so therefore they are all acting that way. But I assure you most of the are just ACTING! most of them probably have never even got any themselves but it is the cool thing to make everyone think they have. [ bittyleigh's advice column | Ask bittyleigh A Question ]
LadyH answered Sunday February 25 2007, 3:53 pm: Geez, I can't believe guys that age talk like that. I can say that: a majority of guys are immature all the way through junior high & high school. Don't ever bother with anyone who has that kind of mentality. Not all guys are like that, I promise! There are guys out there who will respect you for who you are & don't expect you to put out. Those are the guys you should go after. :) [ LadyH's advice column | Ask LadyH A Question ]
whoaxbabe answered Sunday February 25 2007, 3:46 pm: No it`s not true about all guys. They`re probably just immature since it`s 8th grade. You can always try meeting guys from other schools if you want :] [ whoaxbabe's advice column | Ask whoaxbabe A Question ]
angie91 answered Sunday February 25 2007, 3:45 pm: No it's not. But most guys are like that for the majority of their teen years. Usually you can get to know them an dthey become your friends. But you're only in the eight grade, it may take sometime for them to mature and become the nice guys they will one day grow up to be. Usually out of every 20 guys theres about 2 that are genuinly nice always. And it sucks, but if you cant get a guy while you're in the eighth grade its no biggie, you'll get one soon, and hopefully he'll be super nice.
BTW thats why a lot of girls date older guys. Once the guys realize that they cant treat girls they way they do, they'll change. USually that happens around 11th grade though lo l.
Good luck with your guys. Hope they mature early enough for you. Love ya,
angie91 [ angie91's advice column | Ask angie91 A Question ]
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