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My name is Jeanny and i'm 14.
I've been through plenty and no the past hasn't been the greatest. I love to give advice and help people. I always put my friends before me. That is just how I am. I dress how I want, and because of that I get labled emo,punk blah but I don't let that get to me anymore. I love my friends but I don't love my life, things could go better at times. I get sad a lot and Stuff but most the time I don't even know why. Photography and music is my life, I love it. I am a loud//crazy//random person and most the time I have to be told shutup because i'm being to loud. I hide my feelings all the time. I can look happy and cheerful but crying on the inside. I get mad easily and I hate it. I'll go off on people if they talk about my friends.

Boys get scared of me because they think i'm "evil" but at least I can get them to leave me alone. I try to be nice now a days and I try not to get a temper with my dad because I know he means the best for me. My mom hasn't always been there for me but i've learned to accept that. Life ain't perfect and there is nothing that me or anyone in this world can do about it. I try to accept that. I love to give advice but I never listen to it for me. I don't think it fits for me so I let other people give me the advice.

I'm addicted to myspace and I hate it. It takes up so much of my life but I know that I could never delete it.I've been in love and i've got my heart broken, i'm still workin on that. When i'm mad or upset music is there for me. It's my theropy :]


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I don't know if i'm super shy or if it's a medical problem but I can NOT present in the front of the class. I can't even stand up there and read one paragragh! My legs and voice automatically starts shaking, my face gets redder and redder, and if I stay long enough tears just come out of my eyes.

Sometimes if the teacher is undestanding, she'll let me present it to her alone during recess but this is for a big project that is about half of our report cards. 30% is going to be in our oral marks so I HAVE to present. There's going to be about 3-10 pages to read.

I can't even barely stand up there to read one paragrapgh so how am I going to read ten pages? I was so nervous that one time I fainted! Taking deep breathes and calming myself down does not work. Please help me..my life is literally on the line and my reputation in the school too (link)
You need to explain to the teacher and tell her what you told us here.
Because my friend didn't like getting in front of ppl and like she had to for a project and then when she sat back down she had a panic attack.
So you should really tell her, or him whatever the teacher is.


ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do? (link)
That is such a young age! you need to tell your parents. Even if they might be ashamed, they will get over it. you won't be able to hide it for long. And You might end up having to put it up for adoption if you can't take care of it or if your parents make you. The longer you wait...the worst.

hope i've helped.


i have this friend, and we've been friends for a while now, but now im starting to really like him. so i wuz talking to his friend (who also happens to be my friend) and told him that i liked him, but not to tell anyone. i kno that was stupid because i know he'll tell him. i was thinking that i'd just go for it, so that's why i told him. was that just the stupidest decision i could ever make? (link)
No,it what you thought was right. And honestly if he is one of your friends then there is a possibility that he also likes you but what to shy to say anything :]
hope i've helped.


I was wondering if anyone knew any quotes about a "key to my heart". My boyfriend of 5 months is turning 16 in 5 days and I'm giving him a necklace with a key on it. I'm putting a tag on it too and I want a cute quote to put on it about the key being the key to my heart.
I already tried google.. no luck.
thanks for any help! (link)
This is the only one I found
I hope it's the one
and I hope i've helped :D

I will give you the key of my heart
And when you enter
Please
Irrigate the veins with all your love
Maintain it with your fidelity
Take care of it with all the tenderness
And it will be the opening
To our eternal love.


this is kind of urgent. ok so my best guy friend just got dumped by his girlfriend that he had for 7months. he really loved her and is really depressed about it. i hate to see him that way because i care about him, alot. in fact i love him. i've been secretly in love with him for about a year now. i told him that i used to like him but not that i still do. ok so anyway he's been really depressed and he's not sure if him and his girlfriend are going to get back together. if they do i'll be really happy for him because i hate to see him miserable like he is now. but i want to tell him that i like him. so what should i do? tell him or let them get back together and just be a good friend and stay out of the way? (link)
I think you should wait a lil before you tell him. If they don't get back together just wait until he starts to get over it, don't rush him and tell him that you love him while he's still upset about his ex.
It takes time
hope i've helped:D


does anyone kno any sites with good layouts for myspace? also is anyone good at making myspace layouts that would like to make me one? please let me kno! :] (link)
Whateverlife.com
createblog.com
www.myspace.com/heykidslayouts
www.myspace.com/mylayoutsherrrr


Okay well I was listening to my iPod and I clicked the "next" button and as I clicked it the volume went up as well and suddenly it was frozen. This happened about an hour ago and it's still frozen. I jumped onto the computer hoping it'd take off the frozeness and re charge it but it didn't. I clicked onto iTunes and found out it's not even saying my iPod is connected so I can't even restore it (Wipe off all the songs and restart itself) I also tried restarting it but that didn't work either.

Do I have to wait until the battery runs out and then recharge it or is there something I can do? (link)
Yeah wait till the battery runs out ALL THE WAY and then charge it and it should be fine, it happens to my friends all the time :D


hi

i got these two spider bites on my legs and they're really red and bumpy and well i'm going to the doctor tomorrow and everything but how do i cover them up?? i've tried concealer (yeah i was desperate...) and it just kinda rubbed off on my pants!

i'm putting this cream "afterbite extra" and it's cutting down on the itch but gahhh it's still sooo red!

any help?

thanks! (link)
Don't put studd like concealer on it, that could make it worst. Just wear long pants or if you want a banage.

It's nothin that you can hide unless you wear pants.


is there a program that ACTUALLY works at taking your sn off someone's buddy list? like, do you get a list of people that have you on their buddy list and you can just click "delete" or not delete? like my real question is... is there a way to get a list of people that have you on their buddy list?

i'll try anything!

thankss! (link)
No, but you can have this setting so that ONLY people on your buddy list can IM you. That way weird people can't IM you, only people that you know.


If you don't want to talk to them then you can block them, right click and go down to block buddy, :D


The school i am currently Enroled in now I dont want to go to. It`s a small school w/ about 18 kids in it. I have been threatend and i have been called dirty nanes like whore and other things And i didnt even do anything wrong. I want to trasnfer back to my old school. How can i show my teachers and my parents that the school i go to now is not good for me but that i will do well if i go back to my old school? (link)
You should basically tell them what you said here, how they have been calling you dirty names like whore and stuff and that you don't even know why. Say that you think you were better off at your other school.
I'm sorry to hear that they call you this, they should't and they need to get a life!

Hope i've helped:D


Any good myspace layout sites please! (link)
Whateverlife.
createblog.com.
www.myspace.com/heykidslayouts.

hope I have helped :D


I was wondering if anyone could suggest a really good steamy/romance novel or any teen books about life and relationships in general. Don't suggest anything corny like Gossip Girls or the A List Series. I'm 19, not 15. Thank you very much. (link)
Twlight, that is such a great book, and it is basically a romance book. It's NO WHERE NEAR a gossip girls or anything. I think that Twilight was an excelent book and there is a second book to it called New Moon or something.

Hope i've helped :D


what are some good girllyy books. cant be the clique or gossip girl series(have to read them for school. is there a book called something ALaska or idk?? thankss (link)
There are the books
Angels in Pink and there are 3 to the series and they're great.
The first one is Kathleen's Story
the second one is Raina's story and the 3rd is Holly's story, they're great :]

hope i've helped :D


What is the code for hiding my top friends on my myspace page? (link)
You can go to www.whateverlife.com and find a whole bunch of codes to hide stuff.this might help :D

http://www.whateverlife.com/hiding.php

Hope i've helped :D



when i try to use a brush, or to fill in something with the paint bucket on gimp, it never fills it in [with PSDS or pictures] is there something i am doing wrong? (link)
I don't know what a PSDS picture is but I do know that if it's like a regular pic that you are putting in paint then it wont do that because It has nothign to fill in...
take the eraser and then zoom in ALOT and then every percice square in that area erase and then you should be able to fill it in.
hope i've helped :D


This could get into a long story but im not going to let it.
Around my school, they guys pick on me because im kind of a pushover and dont get mad about anything.
Most guys only do that in front of their friends and when they arent in front of their friends they are totally different.
Anyways,one of the boys[ Jake] was with me one time, with no one there.
And randomly said "Michelle , i used to like you"
then it was a long awkward pause and he said "just kidding".
We used to hangout all the time and i liked him.
We ended up even having sex and whatnot.
We stopped talking for this reason but his best friend told me he really likes me but is only mean to me because he does that in front of his friends becuase his friends do it.
He has a girlfriend now, but he still tries to get my attention if he can and hes constantly staring at me.
I like him so much but I don't think he knows at all.
Summers coming and thats the last time we hung out
I dont know what i should do anymore?
Should i wait until next year when I might have a class with him or what>? (link)
If he can't be HIM in front of his friends then he just isn't worth it!
I'm sure that you can do much better.
Next time you talk to him alone
be like yeah I like you, but until you learn to
respect me in front of your friends then MAYBE sometime we could be more than friends, but not untill that..
hope i've helped :D


hi. im 14/f im gonna be 15 in april. but anyways.. what are some jobs that i can get at my age???

please dont say babysitting because i already do that sometimes. xoxo (link)
Well you can try and put in an application for WinnDixie or Publix. I have a couple friends who are 14 and 15 that work there.

Hope I have helped:]


well;this may get long + sorry if it does (:
so on 10|10|06 this guy i liked alot asked me out. his name is joey. he broke up with me about a month after. and i must admit hes my first love. he knows im still not over him. everyone knows. well today on aim i was talking to his best friend Jake. Jake said Joey doesnt like me like that. and i knew that;he also said i just need to find someone else. i have had boyfriends within this time of me still likeing him;i have had 4 realtionships (well 5, one was with the same kid twice so basically 4) but anyway; when joey broke up with me he broke up with me for his ex Kasey - they are now ex's again. i must admit. i thought when they broke up he would ask me out;or to atleast dance at our school dance but he didnt. and i cried over that. i cry over him soo much, i just need to get over him. he is my 1st love. and the way its going hes gonna be the last and im gonna be wishing i had him when im 45. i just need to know how to get over him. thanks so much in advance ! xo !? (link)
I know what you mean. This has kinda happened to be but I never with out with him and I fell in love with one of my good friends and he said he felt the same and it all turned to lies. But this isn't about me.

It has took me everything I can to get over him. But he is my first love and like they always say your first love never dies and that is true.

I had to say I didnt love him over and over and then I stopped talking to him and tried my best not to even look at a picture of him. I looked for better guys to treat me right. I tried to always keep busy to keep my mind off of him..

And it has worked so far. No matter what if he asked me out I would say yes in a heartbeat but I no longer cry over him, I learned that I can't live life crying over one boy. So I keep my head up and just look at him as a good friend once more.

If you want him to be jealous and want you back. Act like you don't even notice him anymore. Let him think that you are no longer in love with him and you only like him as a friend and that is all that he will ever be because you know that he was never good enough for you anyway. Look for better ppl.


I hope that I have helped :]




how far away is jacksonville from florida (link)
Jacksonville is in Florida...so there really isnt even an answer for this.......


There has been recently a bomb scare at my sister's high school. A custodian found on the wall : MHS WILL BLOW UP 3/22". Now they are investigating the whole school, screening backpacks, and sending in bomb sniffing dogs. Should we let my sister go to school on the 22nd? Or stay home for a few days because it might happen on another day.


thanks (link)
Well, you can never be so sure with bomb threats. Sometimes they are real but sometime all they are, are people trying to scare everyone. But just in case I would think that you should let her stay home that day. Just so that you can stay on the safe side. But that really is yalls choice :]
Hope i've helpeddd
:]




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