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how to get over him.
well;this may get long + sorry if it does (:
so on 10|10|06 this guy i liked alot asked me out. his name is joey. he broke up with me about a month after. and i must admit hes my first love. he knows im still not over him. everyone knows. well today on aim i was talking to his best friend Jake. Jake said Joey doesnt like me like that. and i knew that;he also said i just need to find someone else. i have had boyfriends within this time of me still likeing him;i have had 4 realtionships (well 5, one was with the same kid twice so basically 4) but anyway; when joey broke up with me he broke up with me for his ex Kasey - they are now ex's again. i must admit. i thought when they broke up he would ask me out;or to atleast dance at our school dance but he didnt. and i cried over that. i cry over him soo much, i just need to get over him. he is my 1st love. and the way its going hes gonna be the last and im gonna be wishing i had him when im 45. i just need to know how to get over him. thanks so much in advance ! xo !?
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I know what you mean. This has kinda happened to be but I never with out with him and I fell in love with one of my good friends and he said he felt the same and it all turned to lies. But this isn't about me.
It has took me everything I can to get over him. But he is my first love and like they always say your first love never dies and that is true.
I had to say I didnt love him over and over and then I stopped talking to him and tried my best not to even look at a picture of him. I looked for better guys to treat me right. I tried to always keep busy to keep my mind off of him..
And it has worked so far. No matter what if he asked me out I would say yes in a heartbeat but I no longer cry over him, I learned that I can't live life crying over one boy. So I keep my head up and just look at him as a good friend once more.
If you want him to be jealous and want you back. Act like you don't even notice him anymore. Let him think that you are no longer in love with him and you only like him as a friend and that is all that he will ever be because you know that he was never good enough for you anyway. Look for better ppl.
I hope that I have helped :]
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It's not easy to get over someone so don't force yourself. I understand that it's really hard but I don't think that you've accepted the fact that you guys are over, for good. Don't push yourself into relationships if you're not ready for them, don't cry over Joey because it's not worth it. You need to think about the good things in your life. Your family, friends and other important things. He's just a guy and no guy is worth the tears. It's going to take you some time to get over him, but oh well. You're most likely always going to have a little thing for him since he's your first love, but you'll find someone who really cares about you.
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