Question Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 10:35 pm
my bf's friend died. i want to give him something sweet to show how sorry i am. but i dont know what. we just started going out. i already told him i am so soo sorry for him, but i want to give him a sweet little something. what should it be
MW8305 answered Thursday February 22 2007, 12:20 am: There is a gift you can give... It won't cost you a dime, he won't be able to hold it in his hand, and he'll value it...
A hug.
In times of crisis, I have found that the best gift you can give a friend that is suffering, is your love and support. Give him your ears, to listen when he wants to talk... Give him your shoulder, to cry on when he needs to... Give him your hand, to hold when he's feeling lonely and confused. Give him your attention, so that he'll know someone cares...
uisforukelele answered Wednesday February 21 2007, 11:27 pm: this is a very hard situation. last november, one of my good friends passed away. and to tell you the truth, i don't think that any material things you give your boyfriend are going to really make up for his loss or make him feel better long-term. the best thing you can give him is your support. i understand what he's going through... my friend passed away very, very suddenly. and the best comfort to me and my group of friends was just being there for each other through the whole thing. for weeks, there was nothing that could take my mind off of it. yes, i think that material things like everybody else said would be nice, but the absolute best thing you can do is be a support system for him. [ uisforukelele's advice column | Ask uisforukelele A Question ]
mountaindew1007 answered Wednesday February 21 2007, 11:06 pm: Try to make a card yourself.But put some ducks on there just to try an make him laugh and cheer up.But make sure you spend alot of time with him because he may start to get depressed. [ mountaindew1007's advice column | Ask mountaindew1007 A Question ]
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