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I do make alot of misteaks so i like getting advice.But i also like to give it out to ppl who need it the most.I do deal with alot of thing bc im a tomboy an everyone makes fun of me.My parents like to fight and my sis thought of suicide anyways i've gone through a lot.So if you need any advice just let me know.I love getting to know people more b4 givng advice b/c i learn more about them.Thats how i give my best advice. But feel free to i.m. me or mail me. :)
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13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party last night. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and my ?bff?. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and showing me off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? But im the kind of gothic violent rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and acting depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him. Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf?) and my other bff (she just broke up). And he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she(bff he was talking to) started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs and him(bff) and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
i really need help soon. im gona see him again tomarrow in one class only. it will be so okward. if i dont do it tomarrow it will probly never happen between us. we tell eachother alot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked eachother. and can you answer all my questions. please!!!!.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me?
What should I do? What should he do?
How do you kiss? Ive never had a bf! But I turn down a lot of guys.
how would i tell my mom?
How do I change what happened?
What else should I do?
well first off im so sorry i didnt answer this soon enough.but my advice is that u like him as a boy friend because if your always thinking about him then thats a good sign that u may have a crush.Im not to sure if he likes you alot or not.It depends on if he always touches you like just messing around.I think you should just msg him like a text or email so it wont feel to weird if he says he dont like you.i cant really explain how to kisss because it just happens.But if you need more help just send me another msg.
my bf's friend died. i want to give him something sweet to show how sorry i am. but i dont know what. we just started going out. i already told him i am so soo sorry for him, but i want to give him a sweet little something. what should it be
Try to make a card yourself.But put some ducks on there just to try an make him laugh and cheer up.But make sure you spend alot of time with him because he may start to get depressed.
Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl in Junior High. Today, I was called down to the office and accused of doing drugs. (Which I DON'T.) The guidance counselor and vice principal then practically strip searched me, made me empty my bag, take off my shoes, and then they called down a nurse to give me an eye test, take my blood pressure and listen to my heart to determine if I was high. Their reason behind all of this? Apparently earlier, a girl whos name they "could not tell me" told the office that "I was seen in the bathroom with a tube of white powder." I had been in the bathroom, but I had absolutely NO tube shaped items or any item, not even any makeup with me, that looked like powder.
My mom and I are thinking of suing the school district. Do you think that this is a violation of my rights? I do not think they should of searched me just because some random girl TOLD them that. Obviously she was lying. Do you think this is enough to bring forth a lawsuit against the school?
I think you do have a lawsuit.Because it a kids word against another kid.They are not aloud to search you unless an adult thinks you may be high.But if they just wanted to make sure you were not high they should of only asked you an if you looked high to them then they would have a reason to search you.
well, i didnt kno what category to use. so yeaa. anyways... this is going to be long and confusing...
so my life is basically retarded right now. i dont have many friends. i mean i do, but none of them are really close, cos people tend to cause drama and screw me over, and i got sick of it, so i pretty much pushed everyone away. when i first meet people, im really shy and i usually dont talk much. i also suck at opening up, even though i want to, i just kinda.. cant. i have one really close friend, and shes not even that close. her mom is really strict and i only see her at school usually. outside of school, i never have anyone to hang out with accept my older friends, but sometimes i feel like im a pain in the butt to them. cos i cant drive and i always need a ride, and i barely talk to them. we dont know much about each other, we just hang out. its weird. i love being out with them though, everything feels better. i hate being at home. my parents always give me shit. they expect me to get straight a's or a+'s, and they give me so much responsibility. then, it soccer, they expect me to be a star player. but i cant, im not that great. they always yell at me when i dont live up to their expectations. they dont know anything about my life either. one time, my dad was asking me about drinking. i told him i dont do it and that i would never do it. he told me i wasnt fun, which was weird. truth is, ive been drinking since i was 12, and ive smoked, both cigs and weed. it makes me feel kinda guilty when they compare me to my sister and say how shes so bad, yet im so good and obediant and stuff. with guys, its been shit. ive had two boyfriends, neither of which lasted very long. im more of a tomboy, and im the youngest of all my friends that i hang out with outside of school, who are all boys, pretty much. theyre all either seniors or older, except for 2 or 3 of them, and im a freshman. there was also this guy that ive liked since i started talking to him in the beginning of the year. he kissed me, but told me it was just spur of the moment. then we didnt talk for a while. after about two or three months of little contact, hung out again and he kissed me and.. we had sex. it was a mistake, but i dont regret things.. so i guess its not really a regret. now we stopped talking so much again. i also like one of my senior friends, but hes.. well, i dont know whats up with him. hes a real gentleman, so hes never really like "dayumn, shes hot" i only heard him talk like that once, and it was just me, him, and two other guys, and they were saying they would fuck one of the teachers at our school for an a. he was just like, "oh yea, me too" but kinda in a quiet "not really" way. theres one other friend i have, and hes.. well, i feel kinda close with him. like, i feel like almost like siblings, or maybe just like best friends. but yea, i dont want to get attached to him because hes so bad. he goes to juvi school and is in gangs and stuff. well anyways. in school i always use to get good grades and never get in trouble. this year, my grades have dropped a little, and i have already gotten 3 referrals. ive been ditching and stuff too, which i know i shouldnt but.. i did. i want to go somewhere far away but i cant. my parents are giving me so much responsibility, they want me to like, save all third world countries. seriously. i dont. i want travel. my parents dont know any of my friends. not my guy frinds anyways. she thinks im always hanging out with my "nerdy friend" amanda, but im always with my guys.
sorry, this jumped all over the place. anyways, i just wanted to know your perspectives on my life and what i should do and stuff. i know i do bad things and hang out with bad people, but i dont want to stop hanging out with them. them make me happy. so i just want to hear what you guys think of this and stuff...
Ok this is weird alot of the things you said about your self an parents is the same with me.Im a tomboy i drink,smoke weed an cig.But all i gotta say is do what you want make your own decisions in your life because your not getting any younger.If your having fun with the things your doing then keep doing it.Just try to finish school an not skip as much.But if you like a guy who is a bad influence try getting to know him he might change his attitude for the girl he loves an you could be the one.Hope I helped!!
I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
Im always bored.So i always try to go to the movies or just walk around with friends.But i love getting high because it just helps you have fun.Not because it makes you cool or you feel cool.If your stressed out it helps you forget about it an just have fun.Im not saying to go an get high because i dont wanna get people to go do drugs.But if you just wanna be you an not to drugs or anything,go bowling,movies an just always try an make plans with friends.It also doesnt madder if you have alot of friends because you can always try going to a cousins house.I hope i helped if you need anymore suggestions just let me know.Let me know what kind of person you are like if you like doing drugs or getting drunk or just a type of person who likes to have fun.I just want to know more about you so i can give you better advice.
Hey I'm Jackie and I'm 15.
Here we go.. there is this guy, Sean, that I've known since 5th grade. and last week when we were haning out wanted to "make out" with me. but I didnt... since then I think im starting to like him, a lot. and I wish that I did make out with him. So, I'm not sure if he still wants to.
What do I do?
thanks
*jackie*
If he still loves you then you'll kiss when the moments right.Because you can just say hey if you still wanna make out then lets do it.If he still love you he will make the first move again.He should understand you werent ready at the time so hell most likely try again.I hope i helped.
I have this friend named Alica, we were really good, close friends during my sophomore year (now a junior), but she has done many things behind my back. Once she randomly stopped talking, and what I found out was she was trying to get away from me! I asked why, and she said I was "not being a friend". As a fact, I did nothing to her! I am 100% sure I didn't (so don't say I might of anyway). Then we made up, and she always overreacts. If I forget to call her or text her, she'll yell at me when she sees me, asking where I was, why I didn't call, and she goes, "Why are you mad at me?!?!" When I am not!
So we got into an argument, and stopped being friends. Then we madeup 6 months later, but she got worse. She does what she used to do, plus she always lied to me. I would tell her to meet me somewhere after school THREE times, but never showed, and all of a sudden stopped talking to me again. So I got very angry, called her up, and went off on her, cussing her out, and telling her to not talk to me again. We haven't talked since, and my friends are glad I am not wasting my time with her anymore. I feel quilty for being harsh, but she has done so many horrible things to me! But did I do the right thing?
Sorry for it being so long, but thank you very much for your time.
If ur friend is going to act like that then you did the right thing.Real friends don't treat eachother like that. Friends make misteaks but a friendship is all about forgiveness.If she cant forgive you for forgeting to call her or text her then shes not a real friend.
So I was checking out questions recently. And there was an answer to one about an online diary. and the website was like... www.diary(something).com and i cant remember what it was. Does anyone know? Thanks In Advance!
diaryland.com
i recently got back in contact with an old friend after several years,everything was going good and we were talking everyday.for no reason at all he has stopped contacting me and hasnt even had the guts to tell me why.i tried calling him but we only spoke for a few secs so i wasnt able to really get to the bottom of things.im very confused as to why he would do this,and i,ve tried not letting it bother me but it still is.what do you guys think of this?
Your friend not might want to talk to you because you havnt seen eachother in awhile.So you wouldnt have much to talk about.It might make your friend uncomfortable to talk to you because of that.Or since you havnt talked in awhile mabey he might not have time because hes got a busy schedule.It somtimes can be hard to be friends again cause you or him could have change like personality. That makes it harder to talk about things.So try to give it a little more time and if still no reply then just stop calling him.Because if there not going to take a little bit of time out of there life to talk to an old friend.Then there not a true friend anymore.I really hoped i help cause im going through the same thing.
Ahh! I feel like me and my family are ALWAYS being tricked!!
Me and my family moved from America to Europe 5 years ago. My mother has still not mastered the language over here, and people use that as a way of tricking her and using her! And it makes me feel so bad, i cry just thinking about it!!
I'll give you a recent example,...
we were paying way too much for our internet, so we switched to another company. The first internet company we had (chello) told us they needed 3 months.. whatever youc all it.. like we'd have them as our internet company for 3 more months and then it would shut off and we could start using our new company. Now when the third month came they didn't shut it off, so my mom called them and asked "why?" and they were like "oh sorry we'll shut it off for you now! and we didnt suspect anything so we started paying the new company.. now they sent us a bill for 200 dollars for this month (which is way too much for one month of internet don't you think? i mean its broadband and all..i dont know..) anyway, se we called the company.. and we were like "ehh, we switched companys 1 month ago, why are we still supposed to pay you?" and they were like "noo somone called and signed you up again!" BUT NO! my mom directly told them to shut it off! I WAS THERE - THEY COULDNT HAVE THOUGHT SHE SAID THAT! her swedish might not be perfect, but its completely understandable and cant be misunderstood!! so anyways, this company then said "since you signed up for it again, you have to be part of it for 12 MORE MONTHS! and that's the deal our "new company" has.. so now we'll be paying for TWO INTERNETCONNECTIONS for twelve months, and my mom already workd her ass off ALL DAY LONG to be le to afford our lifestyle! i cant stop crying about this.. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL I KNOW, but it just feels like i miss being a kid and not knowíng how EVIL people are, how we steal and trick eachother!! and i tried calling this company and explaining how unfair this is and the lasy HUNG UP THE PHONE IN MY FACE.
and that's not it! im evil too! i lie and i steal! and i hurt people..
and i jus dont undertsnd how UNFAIR this all is!
i feel like i wanna give up. i cant keep beliving in people, that we're good, that we can get better, i cant keep licing like this,..
i feel like i need stability, fairness, equality..
you know?? -
give me some hope please.
i need it.
desperatly!
I have to say that is pretty sad.I go throught some things like that.So since we all know bad things will always happen and will never end,Then just keep trying to help your mom out.If you help out just alittle bit then things could get a little easier.Sorry i couldnt be much help i just wanted to help you alittle bit.
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ok so my armpits sweat a lot. its such a problem i made this account just to ask for help on this. its so embaressing in school. i try all these deoderants and nothing works!! today i put a pad under my arms but that didnt work cus it like slid off. so now idk what to do. help pleaseeeee
well there is one d.o. that works very well.Its right guard sport.Its for guys but you can use it for women to cause im a girl and i think it smells very good.If your armpit sweats really bad put it on in the morning and then after lunch and gym.Hope i helped
This may sound silly but, I just got a new hamster.. He is black and has a white line on his tummy. I was just wondering if anyone has any cute names for a black boy hamster that are unique.
Thankz! :)
Lets see uhh squakers,sniffles,cupcake and hershey lol i think those are some weird names but i hoped you liked them
Hey, I have a 3 month old hamster and she was pregnant, VERY pregnant. She was so fat that she could barely walk. She had 4 babies on July 6th, and wouldn't take care of them, so they all died!!! :[ But, she is still huge and still has a nest, and gets nippy at me when i try to pet her. Could she STILL be pregnant with more babies?
Thanks
she might still have some in her.It can take up to 3 days for all the babies to be concevied.But after 4 days and no babies most likely means that your hamster is just really fat from eating alot of food while she was pregnant.
i want to buy this kid nick a present. the thing is that i don't know what 14 year old guys like. i ccan't buy him something to expensive like a game boy advance (or whatever) so i need some advice on what i could possible get him..
thanxx
Get him a gift certificate at best buy
helloo i am 18 years old and when i first got my period i had no problem with cramps at all. I became sexually active at like 15 and i started getting them and now i get them to an unbearable extent like i cant even stand up and all i do is cry! The first day is the worst though. it sucks pretty bad and nothing works, not even the perscription my doctor gave me. I dont know if something is wrong. Do you think its because i am sexually active? Does anyone else have this problem and if so any solutions??
no its not because your sexually active everyone gets them very bad even me.But when im on my period I try to exercise .Anyways when I did alot of exercise my period lasted 3 days and I didnt have any cramps what so ever.
I've had headaches for the past couple of days i'll have one in the morning..take some advil..and then before i go to bed i'll get another one *sometimes* and it worries me. Is this a symptom of high blood pressure? They arent severe or anything like that..they are just headaches..Thanks
Well sometimes if you watch to much tv or your on the computer alot it can stress your brain.Also a lack of sleep or to much sleep.But for most people its to much sugar or caffine.So try drinking less pop and exercise more.Hope i helped.
I can't find any online reviews for this product so I decided to ask here. "Auto Cool" a device that you put on your car window and a solar powered fan pulls the hot air out. I am wondering if this really works? I mean if the air in the car is really that hot, and it's hot outside how is this going to work?
https://www.autocooltv.com/ppc/index.asp?id=&refcode=ppcG
I will rate
well my cousin had one they dont really work . They cool it off by 5 degrees.But it also made water leak into the car.
my hamster jimmy just died on father day and today i got a new teddy bear hamster and iv never had one befor and i wanna know how to take care of it i also wanna know how old it is and if it help i have a pic of it on my myspace and myspace.com/alleyx69xlol and no im not trying to show off my myspace i just thought it would help if u no what it looked like i would alot like some websites on teddy bear hamster it would also be nice if you could tell me how to groom them and some websites with lists of foods they can and cant eat
When you buy a hamster from a store it is usually are a month old.Hamsters are not very hard to take care of you have to make sure you pick it up and pet it. So it gets use to you.If its a little mean try feeding it through the cage like treats.But NEVER wake up a hamster and pick it up right after.It will bit.But hamsters love eating fresh fruits and vegetables.You can buy any kind of hamster food they will eat it.You also must give them alot of food(like a bowl full).So you dont have to keep feeding it just keep checking every two days to see if they have any food.They also like to hide food so look around there cage.This info. should be accurate because i have 8 of my own teddy bear hamsters.Anyway if you want more info my email is mountaindew1007@yahoo.com