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friend problem
i recently got back in contact with an old friend after several years,everything was going good and we were talking everyday.for no reason at all he has stopped contacting me and hasnt even had the guts to tell me why.i tried calling him but we only spoke for a few secs so i wasnt able to really get to the bottom of things.im very confused as to why he would do this,and i,ve tried not letting it bother me but it still is.what do you guys think of this?
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Sometimes people just grow apart. I know it's hard and it hurts, but it's a part of life that we all eventually learn to accept. Try to give it one last try. Call him again, ask him how he's doing. Tell him to be honest with you and tell you why he doesn't talk to you as much anymore.
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Your friend not might want to talk to you because you havnt seen eachother in awhile.So you wouldnt have much to talk about.It might make your friend uncomfortable to talk to you because of that.Or since you havnt talked in awhile mabey he might not have time because hes got a busy schedule.It somtimes can be hard to be friends again cause you or him could have change like personality. That makes it harder to talk about things.So try to give it a little more time and if still no reply then just stop calling him.Because if there not going to take a little bit of time out of there life to talk to an old friend.Then there not a true friend anymore.I really hoped i help cause im going through the same thing.
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We can't know much about whats going on, until we know what kind of friend he was, maybe hes just really really busy - that happened to me once, i started talking to an old friend but for 2 weeks i was sooooo busy I could barely talk to my parents, let alone a friend. Or maybe, he feels insulted, neglected in someway - who knows. Just wait it out, if nothing becomes of it, then directly ask - if he starts talking to you again, just forget the past.
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