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While I am still young, I have had a great deal of life experience. It is from this that I give advice. I am open minded and try not to be judgemental. If I can help in any way, I will. Just ask. However, like everyone else in this world, I am not perfect. My advice may not always suit you, since my experiences are not the same as yours. If you want clarification on any answers I give, feel free to ask me. If you don't like what I said, or if I offended you, let me know. This is the best way for me to improve on my responses. Thanks for looking at my page!
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I have lied to my boyfriend his car handle fell off so I try to fix it with some super glue he came to my house that evening and asked me if I tried to fix his hand on his car with super glue and I stood in front of him face to face and I said no so he said well I'm going to call my son and see if he done it so you got a hold of his son and his son said no I didn't do it look at the cameras that you have at your house and it will tell who did it. So the next day when he left for work I text him that I did ithe forgive me for that stupid lie but he still broke up with me because I did it face to face if you truly love somebody you shouldn't have to lie to him you should tell them the truth what should I do I asked him for a second chance but he's not listening or even talking to me
Ok, there are a lot of things that come to my mind.
First, no, you shouldn't have lied. But why did you lie? You didn't force the car handle off, did you? Were you afraid of how he would respond to something that was not deliberate? If so, you are better off out of the relationship.
Second, you are right that if you love somebody you shouldn't have to lie. But you should also have forgiveness. This is such a small thing to not forgive, especially when you came clean and asked for forgiveness. He left you over something small, rather than giving a chance for forgiveness. You are better off out of the relationship.
Third, you have asked this question many times over the past week. One of those times you got about 20 responses. You rated only a few of them. The ones you rated highly were the ones where they told you to try for a second chance. So, if that is what you want to hear, it is what you want. Ask him for a second chance. Just know that I think it is a mistake and you are better off out of the relationship.
I don't know whether I'm being silly or over-reacting but I just need to hear what other people think. Been with my boyfriend for over a year, things have been good. He's everything you'd want in a man- intelligent, focused, funny, and he a always does his best in every situation. We have loads in common, we truly get on like a house on fire.
There's been a few things which I felt the need to bring up over the year- mostly about not spending enough time together and also he wouldn't be overly emotive which I sometimes found hurtful. We've worked through these, mostly the spending time together, and everything was great. He's a reserved guy so I wasn't expecting him to be all lovey dovey all the time but it's very rare he is. Also in the bedroom, sex itself is good....but again he's reserved, and a bit selfish....he's never made me orgasm even though I've brought it up. It's like he doesn't want to change, and rarely wants to change up the moves in the bedroom- sorry if this is all TMI! I don't know if he realises how big of a deal this is for me because he usually does take things I say on board but I feel I shouldn't have to say this. He's not very experienced in this department so it could be that either.
He admits he doesn't love me yet, but has strong feelings for me....at this stage I would imagine he should feel stronger but am I just rushing him? I really really like him, he's the first person I've ever been with that I've had no doubts about, and I'm genuinely a much better and happier person when I'm with him, but just sometimes I feel we are more like friends. I've never felt that passion/fire from him...the feeling of 'having' to be with someone. Do you think because he is so reserved and not emotional I should just give him time or should I stop investing in this relationship? Thanks.
You've been together a year and you are just not feeling it from him? I don't like the other answers. They all say to give it time. A year is a lot of time. So, so much time! He has yet to give you what you want, need, and deserve. Yes, it could be because he is reserved and not emotional. My soon-to-be-ex-husband is like that. We gave it 15 years of marriage. Neither of us fit what the other needed. There is so much hurt in the end of this relationship, it is unbearable. If you are seriously questioning if you should give up on the relationship after giving it quite a long time, then yes. You should. If he isn't right for you, there is a good chance you are not right for him. Give yourselves a chance to find the right people. If you stay together just because you think you should, it will lead to a lot of resentment and pain.
Sorry to be such a downer, but your post really says a lot and I think you need to move on with your life so you can be happy.
21/f, 27/m
Just in case you may be wondering, if you believe in horoscopes. He's a Scorpio. I am a Pisces.
Please be patient. This may be long, I feel like you will need to know details to help me answer my question.
I have always wanted to be with a guy that may have more experience than me just because in my relationships, I have always been the one that has had the most experience (meaning, I was usually their first serious girlfriend). I realized that I cannot see what others may see from a third point of view. I am oblivious to things when I am in the situation or when things are not directly said towards me.
I have been talking/dating this guy for a month. The first time we dated/started talking, I thought I might have been a "booty call" because he was making dirty jokes here and there. Many people told me, if possible, don't get my feelings involved and "go with the flow." Personally, I don't think you can control your feelings. You can't help but like that person. So, instead I spoke to him about it. I told him that if I was a girl he was just trying to sleep with, then he should go elsewhere because he will not get it from me. He told me that he has not had a "booty call" for a long time and that he just wanted to test the waters and see if we would work out of not. Things got a lot better after we cleared things up, eventually we did have sex. He continued to see me afterward and we continued dating.
On one of our dates, I saw him on Tinder (an app where you can meet the opposite sex/whatever. If you both find each other attractive, you can message one another through the app), and I confronted him about it. He admitted to me that he gets on the app a few times a day. I started getting confused afterward. At one point, he stopped trying to have sex but we continued to see each other and went on dates, he was still a gentleman and that got me curious if he was seeing other people. I decided to confront him about it, again.
He told me that he still has a Tinder. He chats with people on it, but he doesn't date/see other people other than me. He asked me why I brought it up on the day I was to see him and I said it was because if he was to see other people, I wouldn't see him that day (the only reason being because I don't want to sleep with him/see him after another girl, etc). He told me he wouldn't mind being exclusive with me, if I wanted and that he wanted to continue to see me. Somehow this conversation started off with me being curious (wanting to make it fair, trying to see if it was exclusive or not) to me deciding whether or not if I wanted to be exclusive. He let me "sleep on it" to decide. I didn't know what I want. I WAS JUST CURIOUS!
He didn't bring it since then but today, he brought it back up and asked whether or not if I wanted to be exclusive. I asked him why all the sudden he wanted to ask, he said he was just curious. I told him there must be more of a reason for him to be asking me and this conversation pretty much went nowhere. I asked him what he wanted to then I could consider what he wants instead of not hearing what he would like to do. And he said my decision has more of an importance than his when I think his thoughts are equally important.
I noticed that he tends to turn tables on me a lot, he also redirects the conversation sometimes when I confront him about something. For example, when I see my coworker or guy friends, he tends to act a bit "off" and when I ask him if he's okay, he says that he's great when I sense that there may be something wrong. I told him to tell me if I ever upset him, if I ever do something he doesn't like, and he agrees with it... But for some reason, he becomes distant and sometimes he'd say, "you go on dates with other guys" or "he's probably taking you back to his place, etc" Jealous? I'm not sure. He told me he "knows better" than to be emotionally involved with me but yet, when he acts strange, he turns it around and says that I'm the one that is acting weird.
His actions are driving me crazy, I can't read into it. I can't see it. Some people see it as him being manipulative. Some see him being insecure. Me? I can't see anything. He has been telling me the truth this whole time but why do I feel like he's hiding something? Maybe I'm thinking too much into it and I'm the one destroying this relationship? What should I do? What do you see from this?
I'm going to be blunt and it may seem harsh. You have him a guilt trip when you weren't exclusive, as though you were. If you were not, he could look. He was wrong to look while with you, though. Then, he asked if you wanted to be exclusive and you did not answer. He gave you time. When he brought it up again, you got defensive. He wasn't even nagging or pushing. He gave you time. He worries about the other guys because they could be the reason you are not responding. Honey, you are leading him on. Make a decision to be with him or not.
Well ive been with this guy for almost 2 years. We broke up about twice so far. The first time i managed to get him back and he told me that he missed me and realized he still loved me. But it was also partly because i gave into him and gave him bj the two times we saw each other while broken up. But its cause i asked him straightforwardly the thirdtime when we were about to do it again. But the three months togwther then was mostly us doing sexual stuff like up to third base and thats it. But we didnt have much time to just bond and talk. Were also a bit long distance seeing eachother only once in a week or two. But this time he broke up with me again giving me a bunch of excuses. His friends even told him that we wouldnt work out which i think possibly influenced his decision. But his friends dont even know me because my parents are strict so i mever got to meet his friends. But well a month of no contact with him then the second the month ended i started talking to him and asking to see each other for closure. But once i saw him it wasnt closure but me asking to get backand being desperate. Then he blew up on me saying we should just let it go now hefore it gets even harder to let go later on and that hes trying to move on. Then i stomped out yelling i just dont get this. Then he texted me a day after explaining that he feels like hes in the relationship for sex. And then from tere we judt argued back and forth because i got hope from that. And on saturday i lashe out on him ecause he asked this girl to prom when he knew i still liked him and i wanted to go to prom with him since junior year. And then he lashed back put on me. And then we argued intensely until thursday. Because on thursday he told me the modt hurtful things like im annoying him that he cribges when e sees my texts and that everything was in the past its over and that he takes back all the hope an consideration he gave me a few days ago when he really thought of possibly geting back together. And that im lucky he hasnt blocked me yet. Well to be honest i feel so hurt but i still want a try but im scared to hear hurtful things. But i want him to be with me again. Idk if i should move on talk to him or what i should even do!!! I honestly want some possible way to slowly get his love for me back again.
Move on. He is toxic and using you. You cannot get his love back because it was never there. This is not someone you want anything to do with. You deserve so much better. Get him out of your life and be glad he is gone.
Okay, so I'd asked this question earlier as well but I guess I wasnt clear in it.
Basically there is this guy I really like. The problem is that I am too short for him. I am 4'11 (151 cm) and that guy is 5'11-ish. And I feel REALLY consious about that. He lives in a another city so its not like we can meet everyday and eventually get used to eachother's difference.
So my questions are, where does a 4'11 person reach a 5'11 or 6 feet guy?
What do guys think of girls as short as 4'10-4 11
Those in relationships, coulld you please temme your height difference
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I am 5'3" and my husband, who I have been with since high school, is 6'5", so there is an even greater difference than you are facing. It doesn't matter. We love each other and the height just isn't an issue. If he likes you, he won't mind that you are short. Your head will be at his chest, where you can lean on him and hear his heart beat. He will probably rest his head on yours sometimes. My husband does that. Don't worry about the height. Tell him how you feel. If he cares about the height difference, he is not right for you anyway because that is shallow and meaningless.
My boyfriend went to a party last weekend and I stayed home under the impression that it was a boys night. Well last night I got nosy and looked through his phone. Come to find out I was invited and he told his friend that he was leaving me at home because I was a party pooper. When his friend asked how he proceeded to tell him that I don't drink, I don't know how to socialize, and that I would just cling to him all night and he didn't need all that shit. My feelings are extremely hurt. He has never even been to a party with me and I am one of the most sociable and independent people. I'm confused as to why he feels this way about me. We have only been together for three months. It is not serious on my end yet but he has made it clear that it is for him. This situation makes me want to leave him. I feel as if I deserve someone who won't talk about me like that. Am I overreacting or do I have sound cause to be upset?
I'm going to be blunt. First, yes, you do have cause to be upset. However, he will too when you confront him about it. Snooping through his phone, in his eyes, will show that he was right about you clinging. I'm married, my husband's best friend is a woman, and I don't look at his text messages unless he asks me to.
If you are still not sure if you want to be serious, and you already have trust issues that you can't handle with honesty yourself, this is not the relationship for you.
12 Female.
Theres this boy i know i've been hanging out with him since the beginning of summer. We have hugged & all that. But today when i was laying down my sister was at the corner of the bed and he was next to her & then i was next to him. He kept holding my hand, & making me feel all loved by him. Then at times he would put his face right near mine. Then finally he kissed me... He hugged me & held my hand, he kept moving his head shaking yes & no. I told him what was wrong? & He asked me out. I didnt know what to say. A Few Minutes After he leaned again and i kissed him but he wanted to make out but i didnt so he stopped and gave me a kiss on the cheek & forehead.Not sure what i wanna do/:
The simple answer is if you are not sure, then no. Tell him you just aren't ready yet and if he accepts it, great. If not, then he is not someone you want to be around.
Hi i recently met this girl, didnt really have much of a conversation with her but asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. She said sure, so i asked her a couple minutes ago if she wanted to get coffee. If she says yes, then how do I prevent awkward silence while we are together, seeing as i dont really know to much about her?
Ask her what she likes to read, what music and movies she likes, etc. It may seem awkward at first, but just a question or two will usually spark discussion. Try to find something in common. She probably has the same concerns and will be relieved to answer your questions instead of thinking of something to fill silence.
hey im 18 and my boyfriend is 21. his ex girlfriend who he is still friends with invited him to her 21st birthday party. its of course going to be a drinking party and such. the only issue I have a problem with is 4 of his ex girlfriends are going to be there one who still has feelings for him. plus he would be spending the night there. 2 of his ex girlfriends have boyfriends so he assured me not to worry. he said he would only go if one of his guy friends went. but he really wants to go because he hasn't hung out with them in a while. I asked him kinda vise versa like if my ex boyfriends were going to a party and I was invited and going to spend the night type of thing. he kinda hesitated and didn't give me an answer. should I let him go I mean I don't want to control him I just find it kind of awkward. thanks for the advice I rate!
Long answer, good way to build trust:
Tell him just how you feel. Say you don't want to control him, but you are just nervous about what could happen, especially if he drinks. Tell him you know he won't intentionally do anything that will hurt you, but you aren't comfortable with him being with so many exes while they may not be completely sensible and might try to take advantage if he has been drinking as well.
Would you feel more comfortable if he didn't sleep over? Tell him so. Let him know what worries you and why, but don't be pushy or difficult. Listen to what he has to say about it. Then, let him go, even if he decides to stay over. Don't give any rules or anything. Just say "I trust you, especially since you let me tell you how I feel. Have fun."
Then, don't worry. The next day, when you see him (don't call him first thing in the morning. That will just tell him you don't trust him), ask if he had a good time and leave it at that.
It is very hard, but if he listened to your reasoning, nothing will have happened. If anyone tries anything, he will stop her and, if you aren't pushing him distrustfully, he will likely tell you about it. Guys are weird. The less you ask, the more they are willing to tell. They get defensive and hide everything if you bug them about it because they become afraid that you will be angry no matter what the reality is.
If he starts acting weird right after, and you haven't been trying to get details from him about the party, you might want to bring it up. Again, don't push. Say "you've been acting a little weird since the party. Is everything ok?" Because you have shown trust in him, he'll tell you.
Thing is, this isn't just a guy quirk. I was engaged and was going out with friends. My fiancee got really controlling over what I could and couldn't do with them that night. So, I almost hooked up with another guy just because I felt I was already being punished for it. We aren't together anymore. Don't make your guy feel punished. Give him freedom and he won't abuse it. It will, ultimately, be great for your relationship.
Alright, here's the deal... I was up last night at 1:30, and I received a text from my step sister's boyfriend. Up until this point, he's never texted me, so it was really weird. He told me he was drinking with his friends, and then asked me to come over. I told him no, because 1.) I'm not legally allowed to drink and 2.) I can't even be out past midnight because of state curfew. He kept trying to get me to come out there, so I just told him no, it's way too late. but after that he just kept talking to me, so I finally asked him where my step sister is, and he said she ditched him for a party, which is why he was asking me to come. So I know that I can't just leave this be. Should I 1.) Talk to him about it or 2.)Talk to my step sister? Because I don't want something like this to ruin our friendship. Please give me advice on this.
It seems like you handled it really well. Talk to your step sister, tell her just what you said here. If you wait, his drunken memory could get him telling her you tried to start something. Besides, she needs to know what kind of guy she is with.
my boyfriend has post cuncussion syndrom from a tackle when he was playing football which makes him really depressed. it's suppose to last for a month. i'm not sure what i can do to help because he's been acting so isolated. he doesn't want to talk and i'm not able to see him over the weekend so i sent him a message telling him how happy he makes me and what a great guy he is and that i'm always gonna be here for him. but i don't think that's enough.
i want to do more to help but i don't know what i can do besides just be there for him. it hurts me to see him so sad. i love him so much too.
any suggestions?
As someone who suffers from chronic depression, I can tell you that you are really doing a lot already. Just be patient, and know that you are not the reason he is acting the way he is. Being very depressed, and likely hurting as well, will take its toll on him. The depression may go on longer than a month, as he may dwell on his behavior during that time. Make sure he knows that you don't blame or resent him for that time, and that you will continue to be there for him. Tell him that if there is anything you can do to help him, you will. Don't be pushy about it though. It is tempting, because you will fell like you aren't doing enough, but if you push it he'll quite likely take it wrong. He may say to himself "she is trying so hard to fix this, so I must be really awful right now" and that won't help at all. He'll know that that isn't true, but a depressed mind comes up with lots of negative things.
As for the isolation, I went through that too. Still have times when I do it. I can only speak from my experience here. I withdrew from everyone because I didn't want to burden them with my problems. I would guess he is doing the same. So, again, gentle, loving reminders that you are there for him when he wants you to be will make a big difference in the long run.
Don't forget to take care of yourself too. It is easy to say "how can I take care of myself if I can't help this person I love?" But if you don't take care of yourself, you can't be there for him.
Im a female, and I have had sex with 3 people, one small medium and big. I dont know whats wrong with me I cant feel anything when penetrated. I dont get tingles I dont have anything it just feels like rubbing. I can feel clit stimulation so.... whats wrong? how come nothing happens? Im very in love with the man Im sleeping with and still nothing.
Some women (a lot, really) just aren't as sensitive inside. The clit is more sensitive. Do you cum with clit stimulation? If so, perhaps more foreplay (oral?) is in order to get you going before penetration so you can both enjoy it. You can also get a vibrator that stimulates just the clit and can be used during sex. Those are fun.
But, don't worry. Nothing is wrong.
15/f
okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for three and a half weeks. and i have a lot of guy friends way more than girl friends. i'm always hugging my guy friends just as a nice gesture you know? Then with my bf i never see him hugging other girls. so sometimes i feel awkward when i hug my friends and he's there.
he's a sophmore on the JV football team and like today i met this new guy "d" and he's a junior on the Varsity football team. we're just friends. then when i was waiting for my boyfriend "T". d came up right before t could hug me d did because he was closer. And when i saw my boyfriend's face he was starring like what the heck? i don't think it was in a "you just stole my hug" thing but rather like he was a lil intimidated and jealous. He's given this look before so it's not that new.
I'm just wondering if i should i talk to him about it or just let it blow over.
thank you =]
Just talk to him about it. Let him know that you don't see anything more in these guys than you do in your girl friends (unless, of course, you are bi and interested in the girls too, but somehow I don't think that is the case here). Tell him that you understand if he worries that it is more, but that he is the only one you want and there is nothing these other guys can do to change that. You are just an affectionate person with your friends and it isn't anything more than platonic. Then kiss him passionately, smile coyly, and say "you're the only one who gets that." That tends to help.
Hello all!
I met a wonderful man and have been dating him for quite some time. He is everything I feel women can ask of a man. Among other things he’s sweet, attentive, family oriented and even cooks and cleans (and better than me).
Well, he sat down with me to talk and told me how much he cared for and wanted to be with me and how he liked things to take a step forward. He then gave me keys to his apt, which I didn't accept. He also said that (at that moment) it would be a good time to share with me this bomb shell... Since he knew he wanted to continue seeing me and wants things to get more serious, he felt he should "come clean".
He married an ex-girlfriend of his for papers (naturalization). The process will take about another year or so. He hasn't been with this girl for some time now and she is also, currently dating someone. What do I do? I value marriage so strongly and he is most certainly a very strong candidate for it. I'd marry him in a heartbeat, but I feel so lost. Am I over-reacting for feeling so ANGRY? Do I continue seeing him despite this? Will I forever hold resentment because of this if I choose to go on?
He is so concerned with my thoughts on this, but I honestly don’t know what to think and even less what to do? Any insight will be appreciated.
Thanks!
F/26
Feeling angry or upset is normal. No one like to hear that the guy she is with is technically married to his ex. However, he had a good reason to do it and he was honest with you. She has moved on. It is just a paper thing. Everything else you said leads me to believe that it won't ever be anything more. I would stick with him. You are very lucky to have an honest man who is good to you and shares your values.
im 15/f and i dno how to make eyecontact with a guy since i dont have too much experiences actually :/
so there's this guy who seems to like me and i like him back but i dont wanna talk to him yet. i just wanna make eyecontact. but how do i do that without seeming desperate or weird or stupid? :P
lol cos i'm also not exactly sure if he likes me back. help please [:
This is going to sound kinda silly, but it works:
Just look at him. When he looks back at you, blink very slowly with a soft smile, then just tip your head down (like you're shy or something) and look away and look back up again for just a moment. That will get his attention. He'll know you are interested, but not desperate. You'll look a little shy, but flirty. It works very well :)
thank you for your help! he sends mixed messages, i'm not sure if it's me or if he really is interested.but he did get jealous and snappish when i mentioned to my friend i saw a picture of this swimmer(who she really likes) in a magazine. and another time i saw him in a study room and said hi, he said he had to go to class(he was late).that same night he emails apologizing for running out on me,which i don't think he did, he had class! i saw him again on friday asked if he could help me w/math b/c he's super good at it,i kept hinting i want him specifically to help, but he said there's this other guy who's better and can help me out more.there's a lot more but it'd be long and i don't want to bother you, but i don't know, maybe he just doesn't get the hints,he is a guy, and yes i agree,they sure are wierd.how do you think i should tell him, is there a different way than saying "i like you" or is that how you told them? thank you again!
He is having the same confusion. He doesn't know how to tell you. At least, that is how it sounds. So, I'd just go with the quick and blunt "hey, I like you. I know we are friends, and don't want to hurt that, but there it is." and see what he says. From the way he is acting, it will all end well.
hey,
thank you so much for your advice, that takes a lot of guts to tell your friend how you feel, but i now feel that the chances of a worst case scenario from happening isn't that bad, but i'm afraid of the awkward situation. was it awkward when you brought it up? b/c i've been hinting at him i feel the same way, he just doesn't get it, or he thinks it's an act of kindness from a friend, so now i know i have to initiate it. and i'm wondering if you were nervous or anything, because i sure am! were they nervous/uneasy when you told them?
Yeah, I was nervous. Heck, I was terrified that I could lose a friend. Has he shown an interest in you at all? That can ease the nerves because you know it will be ok.
Here is the worst thing that will happen:
You tell him how you feel. He doesn't feel the same. It is awkward for a little while, but you are close enough that I know you will get past it and remain good friends. Also, just knowing will make him look at you a bit differently. This is good. Guys are weird. Plant an idea in their heads and it sticks. He will start to fall for you, even if he wasn't before. Trust me. When I told Josh I liked him, he liked my best friend. It wasn't long before he was telling me he loved me. I still talk to him, and he still cares for me.
hey, i just want to know if there's anyone who's asked their good guy friend out,or if you've had feelings for them and just straight out told them. i dunno anyone who's done that and what the best/worst is that can happen,as in how often the friendship still remains after that is said. so if you can tell me what happened after you told your best guy friend please let me know! thank you!
I've done it a few times. My best relationships started out as friendships. For the most part, I am still friends with the guys, and I've been married nearly 9 years now (oh, my husband was a dear friend in high school, then we dated, then we were apart for a while, then back together). So, I have yet to see it hurt anything. I guess it could, but if you are honest and not obsessive, I don't think it would.
Hey, I've known I was gay for a while and I think I might be able to come out soon. Anyways, there’s this really cute guy in my social Studies class who is openly gay and I really like him. Would it be wrong for me to start dating before I've told my parents I'm gay? And would it be unfair to the guy to not be openly gay when he is?
Well, it sounds to me like this would be a time for both. Be open because it is certainly unfair to the guy if you aren't. Be open about it as well so your parents find out from you, not from someone who saw you with another guy. How are your parents likely to react if you tell them? If it is not good, well, imagine how they will react if someone else tells them. It will be worse. Then they will be upset and feel like they can't trust you. So, come out and live your life the way you want to. It is better, and ultimately easier, than hiding who you are.
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out since October, and have spent the whole summer of 2006 with this little crush on each other thing. He's liked me for a whole year before that summer, too. Basically, after he asked me out we've spent so much time together. I can't imagine not being with him, and neither can my friends. Everyone expects us to be the couple that will never break up, high school sweethearts, etc.
Lately, though, I've been getting bored from being in a relationship so long. I've started noticing all the little things he does that bugs me, and it really irritates me how he gets upset when I hang out with or talk about another guy.
I don't know. I feel like I want to take a break or dump him or something but I don't know what to do or how to do it, and I'm afraid that in the end I'll regret everything.
Well, it sounds like you are in a relationship. After a while with anyone, you will get tired of them at times and find the things that used to be cute or endearing are now annoying. That is totally normal. He probably is having the same issues. The best thing you can do is talk with him about it. Be calm and rational. Know what you are going to say and how you are going to say it. Let him know what bothers you. Find out why he gets upset about you being around other guys. He is probably afraid of losing you. He has also probably picked up on you being distant (you probably are, if you are getting bored) and so the other guys seem like more of a threat to him. Let him know you can't imagine being without him, but also that you are feeling like there is something lacking. If you are calm and caring, the two of you will figure out what is needed and be able to continue in a happy relationship. If either of you starts to get upset, take a break from the discussion and do something you enjoy together. Talk again when you are both calm again.
Oh, I married my high school sweetheart. We eventually had troubles and ended up in marriage therapy, which worked wonders. Turns out we both had the same issues, but brought them up different ways and just upset each other more. So, if you have trouble talking with him, find a neutral person to help you out, someone who can translate for each of you. A school counselor might be a good choice.