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Q: Does anyone know that if a cellphone that fell in the bathtub can be repaired? Or is it gone for good?

Ok, well heres the catch!!!! Your cell might have a chance!!! wiat type is it? if it is an lg, then its gone if its a nokia then it might work. I may only be 13 but I work in electronics. If its not a lg or motorola you have a good chance of having it work!!!! if its not them, then I would send it to the company it came from and tell them to dry it out.. and then get a factory reset because without that then your phone will have all memory erased on the phone!!! Your Welcome,Sup4321

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Q: 13/f/8th grade. okay from when i was about 7 to about a year ago, i was a complete tomboy. the only way you could get a dress on my was if i was dead. and guys werent looked at as guys, they were my friends, and sports teammates. now i have changed, but i still play all my same sports. but the people at school and my friends have gotten so used to me as a tomboy that they make fun od me every time they see me in anything girly-ish. and the guys that i grew up playing sports dont see me as a girl really, they see me as a teammate, and it seems like they could never see me as girlfriend material. WHAT DO I DO???

Ok. Yea so you changed your look. alot of girls I know were tomboys. They changed. yes It will take them a while to get used to it. but you don't have to change your attitude on how u used to act. if your friends don't accept you as who you are, then they arn't friends. I have a friend who is a complete tomboy and she doesn't care what people thinks. if someone thinks something wrong about her and makes fun of her, she ignores that statement and then ignores them for that day. it works because then they learned to stop making fun of her....so it don't matter whhat you look like. truthfully it don't matter what you look like on the outside but on the inside, and if you are nice, cute and funny on the inside then all your guy teamates and friends would be lucky to have you as a girlfriend. I am a guy/13/8th grade. I live in va. my friends think of me as kind of a person who can get ignored. so please just ignore them if they make you mad. but just wait and you will find a person who would be lucky to go out with you!! sup4321

Q: one of my best guy friends in the world has been touchy-feely on me. i like it (i'm not afraid to admit that), but my two most best friends in the world that i tell everything to, they say i should be carful around him. they barely know him, and they are trying to talk me out of liking him. they say what he is doing is something a guy friend normally wouldn't do. (and i'm not going out with him. i was turned down by him again yesterday, but everything is cool between us now.) (what i mean by again, is
i asked him out last school year.)

i don't know who to choose.

the guy i have been friends with forever and i know if he acts strange or not. and what he is doing, i don't mind at all.

but should i trust my friends instead? (which is what i don't want to do.)

i'm really confused and not sure. what choice do you think i should make?

If you asked him out last year maybe you should ask him out again this year!! If he has been touchy-feely on you and you like it, yea I would stay with your friends but have them hang out with him to. let them get to know him better. then ask him out. Its worth a shot. I wish you lots of love and luck on your problem and I hope my advice helps....sup4321

Q: well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.

ok so you are pretty much the tip of a triangle. the boys are at the bottom corners and you are at the top, the person who is holding all of them together. So you really need to choose the guy that is the best he can be for you. I am a thirteen male and I am with a nice gal. although I like this other one to ....So I am gonna have to figure mine out as well. so we are in the same predictament. I know this don't probably help much but I hope it. does. pretty much, follow your heart and don't get your eyes or mind messed up while you are doing it. but still have fun while you are dating. you and me are only 13. I have been dating my gal for 6months this 24th. so well I don't know. But follow your heart at the fullest it can. But have fun. you have the rest of your life to be with someone.

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Q: I kissed a boy today (no he's not just a random boy) haha and when we made out he didn't close his eyes. I usually close mine. Is NOT closing your eyes normal?

Ok. So even though me and my girlfriend is not totally romantic...But I have had another girlfriend who I made out with before. I found out that it is not unusuall for guys to not close there eyes..

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Q: okay so i feel really stupid asking this but...how do guys get orgasms? i mean i have a boyfriend and all and he said he has them four to five times a week and i'm not even sure if i should be disgusted or what since i don't even know if i have anything to do with them...

ok so a guy just masturbates. He sometimes gets turned on by a female.. I am a guy but still don't feel comfortable talking to you about this!!!

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Q: ok i know this is bad but my bf is 20 and im 13 but im vietnamese and i went over there and thats where i met him apparently age doesnt matter over there but now im back here and he lives over there which sucks but every1 says hes using me but he says he wants to marry me when im 18 which im not sure about yet since im just 13 but i dont know what to believe or what to do about the distance i can only see him once a year and i can only talk to him like once a month i dont know what to do should i keep going out w/ him? and i dont know if hes using me or not but i love him alot ahh im soo confused help!

Please stop dating him.. He is just gonna trick you into sex next time he sees you..and that is not good you don't wanna be raped...seriously so try and endit.

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Q: Do you think guys prefer girls who show alot of skin, a little skin or no skin at all when looking for a girl to start a serious relationship with?

Ok..Some guys are like an egg sandwich...Sometimes you buy it at the store and it just has: egg,tuna,onion and mayonaise..so it is predictable...but sometimes your mom makes one and it has all kinds of vegetables in it..so those boys are unpredictable...so what I am trying to say is depending on the guy you have if he is a guy that is pushing himself up to you and trying to be romantic all the time then yea he might wanna see some of your skin..but if he like the type that kinda wants to layback and take it easy just act normal and wear clothes that cover your body...

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Q: My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14?

ok...SO this may sound a little crazy, but I am 13 and I am dating someone 11...WE are madly in love so I could understand the loving part. yet why would he want someone 4yrs younger? That is still a freaky question...after you get a bit older he might just try to wrestle sex outa you...so WATCH OUT!!! He may say he loves you and he may but he also might be up to something. But if you love him and he loves you, Then it shouldn't make any difference how old you are...The person I love kiss almost everynight before we go off to our separate houses but we see each other everyday..

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Q: I went to a casual back-to-school dance tonight. While I was there, there's this boy, Andrew that I danced with serveral times. My heart litterally skipped a beat when he asked me to dance each time. The whole time he had his arms around me it felt so good. When I got there, I didn't really give him much thought, I mean he was a friend of mine, but I hadn't really thought about liking him again. But ever since I left, I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. Me and him have gone out before, but we broke up.

How do I let him know I'm totally into him, without having to be too straight forward?
We're both super outgoing, so I'm not like shy.
But I don't see him alot in school, and
were both kinda busy with cheerleading/football
after school for a while. What should I do?

you know I kinda have been in that same predicament. I thought that I was over a person and then I started liking them again..But you need to be honest and see if he still likes you like you like him..if not it may not work out and you may have some issues in the future.. but you don't have to be forward with it...kinda ease onto it.. start with simple questions like, What is your favorite music? or who is his idol? But after a while during the middle of it slip in (DO YOU STILL KINDA LIKE ME?) and then they will probably go, HU? but then he will give you an answer... But you either need to call him or find him and talk to him upfront about it. or even write him a letter and just use maybe your neighbors address. But if you like this boy you might wanna get him fast or some other girl might come along and snatch him away. SO GO HURRY GET HIM BACK TO YOU!!!

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I love helping people with relationship problems because I have gone through some myself. right now I am single but have recently gone through a break up.. I have 3 dogs and I love them dearly. so if you need help with electronics,your love life, or pets. just give my colomn a ring.

THANKS, MIKE, sup4321