Question Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 2:46 am
one of my best guy friends in the world has been touchy-feely on me. i like it (i'm not afraid to admit that), but my two most best friends in the world that i tell everything to, they say i should be carful around him. they barely know him, and they are trying to talk me out of liking him. they say what he is doing is something a guy friend normally wouldn't do. (and i'm not going out with him. i was turned down by him again yesterday, but everything is cool between us now.) (what i mean by again, is
i asked him out last school year.)
i don't know who to choose.
the guy i have been friends with forever and i know if he acts strange or not. and what he is doing, i don't mind at all.
but should i trust my friends instead? (which is what i don't want to do.)
i'm really confused and not sure. what choice do you think i should make?
MelLeDisko answered Saturday September 16 2006, 12:49 pm: I would trust your friends, because you need to think about this guy. He wants to be all touchy-feely with you, but he doesn't want to go out with you. It just sounds like he wants to get some action. But, if you really don't mind it or anything and don't care, then go ahead. It's your choice, and just explain that to your friends, I'm sure they'll understand. They just don't really know him too well, and they're concerned. Maybe the next time you guys hang out, invite him along so they can get to know him and see that he's not such a bad guy. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
girlmeetsboy answered Saturday September 16 2006, 10:43 am: well if i were you i'd go with my friends, no other people in the world should change that because you are best friends for a reason. but first you have to ask yourself if he really is dangerous and you really shouldnt like him. and if you do like him than just tell your friends that you like him and you want to do what you want to do. good luck and i hope i helped [ girlmeetsboy's advice column | Ask girlmeetsboy A Question ]
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