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well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.
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ok so you are pretty much the tip of a triangle. the boys are at the bottom corners and you are at the top, the person who is holding all of them together. So you really need to choose the guy that is the best he can be for you. I am a thirteen male and I am with a nice gal. although I like this other one to ....So I am gonna have to figure mine out as well. so we are in the same predictament. I know this don't probably help much but I hope it. does. pretty much, follow your heart and don't get your eyes or mind messed up while you are doing it. but still have fun while you are dating. you and me are only 13. I have been dating my gal for 6months this 24th. so well I don't know. But follow your heart at the fullest it can. But have fun. you have the rest of your life to be with someone.
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Ok the best thing really is to follow your heart. Your hearts telling you that you like the guy who broke up with you more. But you also like the other guy who is a nice sweet guy. But you should listen to your heart & go with the guy you like more. Because you will be alot happier with the guy who you want to be with. Hope I helped <3
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Well, since you like guy number one more, i think its best to stay with him because your closer to him. It'd be a waste to be with someone you didnt like. You have a better chance of the relationship working out with Guy number one. And who knows? u may be able to help him with some of his problems in his life.
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you should take the guy that you have the most feelings for and the one that will make you happy and treat you right. follow what your heart tells you to do..you will never forget the people you love or like soo much. and you may never get a chance again then you will regret it.
good luck. hope i helped
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well you should take the first guy, because you like him better. also because you'll feel more comfortable with him, since you've already gone out with him before. but if the thing about how his life is really messed up is bothering you a little, then picture yourself going out with him, and then picture yourself going out with the other guy, and see who you like better, and who you can picture yourself with the most. i personally think that you should pick the other guy because you like him more and have had more experience with him than with the other guy hun
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pick the one you like more. give him another try, if he's a butt, try the other guy
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Hello there! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your AG today! Hm... I have to think of something amusing to get you into high spirits. Hm... Amusing.. amusing...? *Cough, cough* Ick... I'm eating watermellon and I choked on a seed. It was an evil seed, but I spit it on the floor and my kitty ate it. Good kitty! Yay! I did it. And yep, that really did happen *Nods*.
Down to business! Okay, I can think of a few things to help you out. These are suggestions! It doesn't mean you pick one and think it'll magically work like a fortune cookie. Doesn't happen that way. Only you can decide what to do. These are just to help the gears in your brain work along and get you through it. Much like a cross-stitch sewing thing. Someone can help you out, but its up to you to finish your masterpiece up.
1) Don't date the guy who's got a rough life just for pity. There's no love there, just well... pity. It won't last anyways.
2) The second guy sounds so sweet. But get to know him better. Take your time with studying him. Hang out with him at school. If he's still sweet and nice, go for him.
3) Same as B. If the other boy you broke up with is having a messed up life, then hang out around him. If he's getting distasteful, or you just can't take it anymore, don't go for him. But you said you liked him better, so you may end up staying with him.
4) Make a chart. List things you look for in a guy. Pair the two up together. See which one is more appealing to you. Don't make it into a contest and just go "yep, he wins". You need to be HONEST with yourself. If not, you may as well flip a coin.
5) What do you know? Flip a coin! If you just can't decide, flip a coin. Date one guy for two weeks, tell the other you may still be interested in him to make sure he doesn't go off with another girl. I suggest dating the nice guy first. Get to know each boy. Whichever one you feel more comfortable with, take him.
I know this probably doesn't help much, and you're probably thinking I'm psychotic (random person: flip a coin?!?! Who comes up with that? / ppp: aw. =( ), but I really do hope I helped in some way shape or form. If not, there are plenty of other advice givers who would be more than happy to help you out. Take care!!
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well, go with whoever you love more. i mean, even tho the other guy has a messed up life, you might be able to help him. but when you say *willing to take you back*, just please don't ever think of degrading yourself about a guy. it's so totally not worth it. just make sure that whoever you pick treats you well and makes you happy
hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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