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asking your guy friend out
hey,
thank you so much for your advice, that takes a lot of guts to tell your friend how you feel, but i now feel that the chances of a worst case scenario from happening isn't that bad, but i'm afraid of the awkward situation. was it awkward when you brought it up? b/c i've been hinting at him i feel the same way, he just doesn't get it, or he thinks it's an act of kindness from a friend, so now i know i have to initiate it. and i'm wondering if you were nervous or anything, because i sure am! were they nervous/uneasy when you told them?
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Yeah, I was nervous. Heck, I was terrified that I could lose a friend. Has he shown an interest in you at all? That can ease the nerves because you know it will be ok.
Here is the worst thing that will happen:
You tell him how you feel. He doesn't feel the same. It is awkward for a little while, but you are close enough that I know you will get past it and remain good friends. Also, just knowing will make him look at you a bit differently. This is good. Guys are weird. Plant an idea in their heads and it sticks. He will start to fall for you, even if he wasn't before. Trust me. When I told Josh I liked him, he liked my best friend. It wasn't long before he was telling me he loved me. I still talk to him, and he still cares for me.
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