Iv been here for a few months and I belive that helping others is a way give others hope in there lives my advice is straight forward .I have my own problems like anyone eles out there but I keep looking for the answers .sometimes life isn't easy or not fair but you live and learn every day .I hope that anyone looking for the advice they need truly helps and if you need my advice I'm here for you .I might not have all the answers but I will do my best with this said good luck to all
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Well l am a teenager and I'm dating a guy who has A LOT of experience. He wants to have sex, and I do to but there's only one problem....I am over weight and I have stretch marks on my stomach. I don't think he knows because I haven't told him and I always wear a shirt around him. We've been dating a long time, we know all about protection, and I can honestly say I love him and we are planning on getting married when we graduate high school. But I need help, I am scared to death that when we are going to have sex he will take one look at my disgusting body and never want to get physical like that again. Please, any advice? Serious answers only please. Thank you for your time. (link)
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Well if you two have been together for a long time like you say .and if he loves you then he loves you flawes or not .don't be so self awere of your flawes everybody has them .your either too big or too skinny or too short or too tall and it goes on and on .if you plan on getting maried you aren't going to hide it from him .just bare t all ! You might be suprised .my wife used to weigh 200lbs and now she weighs 150lbs so you could emagin the stretcmarks and flab on her .but it doesn't stop me from getting to my most intament moments with her .why ! Because I love her no matter what its uncanditional .that's what its all about flawes or no flawes .so don't wory about stretchmarks .just be comfortable with yourself .and he will be comfortable with you .and if you please him he wll please you .trust me you will thank me latter .
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 year and a half... We have a 3 month old daughter... I'll admit I get a little jealous... I found out that he has been texting his ex girlfriend who lives in california (we live in texas) and deleted all the messages from and to her but the rest he left... he said its nothing were just good friends... and he said he deleted them cuz he knew i would get mad... We got in this HUGE argument about it and said that he'll stop contact with her... and he did... NOW i come to find out hes texting another ex gilrfriend of his who lives here in the same city.... I'm torn... I dont know what to do.... any suggestions compliments advices will help. (link)
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Girl I hate to tell u this but it sounds to me like he's playing .why eles would he be talking to his ex .put two and two together .know you are wondering should he stay or should he go .should I try to salage what we got because we have achild together .that's a big queation?? First off you need to finde out why he's talkng to his ex .I mean tthats what the are ex,s I don't talk to my ex wife .I haven't in 10 years so why is he talking to his .so how many ex,s does he have anyways ? You need to have a long talk with him .and be firm and tell him its either them or me you decide .don't back down either .he has no reason to talk to them .period.... I'm with you girl good luck ..........
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I want to really show my girlfriend that I love her a whole lot. I always tell her I love her but I want to prove it. What are some great ways to show my girlfriend who much I really care for her and love her? I want her to know that I completely and totally love her with every cell in my body. How can I prove that love to her? All idea are accepted and appreciated. (link)
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Its not just words but actions .if you realy want to show you love her buy her a ring like a promis ring that will show her that you are committed to her .she would melt n your hands .
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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she's so shy around me. I think it's adorable but at the same time I know she isn't comfortable and that makes me unhappy. Why would she be so incredibly shy and how can I get my girlfriend to loosen up and relax while she's around me? I want to know the real her, inside and out, and it seems like her being overly shy is causing a barrier between us. How can I get her to just relax? Why is it like this? (link)
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Well first of all I'm not for sure how old you two are but some girls are just that way its normal .nothing to worry about .all I can tell you to do is just talk to her about it but don't do it in a mean way just tell her its ok to just be yourself .she will come around eventualy just give her some time .take her out .take her out a lot. That way she wll get used to being with you and she will be more comfortable around you .then you will see her true side of her .trust me it works the more fun you have together the more she will open up .its all about trust .kida like getting a new puppy it takes a while for the puppy to trust you right the same with her only she's a person .just trat her with respect .
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Okay, three months ago I posted a blog about having mixed emotions with my boyfriend at the time. Im 17/f and he is 16/m. We was together for 4 months and I started having mixed emotions. Now its been about three months, and Im starting to want him back. I thought since I had mixed emotions it meant I didn't care about him like he cared about me, so I tried talking and hanging, and moving to a new level with other guys, but it just wasn't working. Seeing him flirt with other girls makes me jealous, and we hung out a couple of nights ago and he kissed me, and it felt good again. I recently found out he called me a "stupid fat ass bitch" because he said he knew it would hurt me and he wanted to just cause me a lil pain even though it was wrong because he's been going through hell for two months and ive acted like I was fine. A part of me wants him back, but another part of me doesn't because I don't want to get back with him and my mixed emotions end up coming back, and than I hurt him AGAIN. He says he doesn't care, he just loves me and wants me back. But I don't know. I want to be with him, but Im afraid mixed emotions will come back, but im not certain if they will.
Helpp? (link)
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First of all this is a confusing time for you .your young and still going through a lot of changes especaly emotional .you have your whole life to settle down with the one persone that will tteat you right .when I was your age I had this girlfriend who was 3 years younger than me and we would be together for awhile break up get back together and I tell you it was confusing for me but you see it all boils down to one thing you either have strong fellings for him or you don't .he might like you more than you like him or vice versa .but you will never know what true fellings you have for each other unless you comunicate .if you want to be with him than be with him. Don't play the cat and mouse game because can be bad .its a tough desision but here's the thing you have to be friends before lovers .it takes getting to know eachother and that could take a lifetime .what I'm getting at is this if it was me and you realy like him than start out slow and see what happens .you might be surprised of what could happen ask him to go out on dates just to see where his mind is at by asking him questions but go out alone just you too and you will then know the answer if you too are compatable with eachother. I hope I haven't confused you wiyh all this
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I like this guy and I've known him for a while, but I noticed him recently, everything seems to be okay, but one day I saw a picture of him him putting his arm around this girl in the car and now I'm discouraged by it and feel hurt. What should I do about this? He's not a flirt. I rarely get jealous but here I am. (link)
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Well if you lik this guy than you should tell him .he might not know you like him that way .if you do this than maybe you can be with him or at least know wher you stand .never assume nothing but be sure .if he likes you the way you like him than what do you got to loose .and this picture you didn't say if it was a recent picture or an old one .but never the less tell him how you fell that is the only way you will get anywhere .
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hi m sarab 25 years old..i want to commit sucide just beacause m very poor n i lost ma first love just because i m not fucking rich....but now i have already in a relationship with some other girl n in this case also money comes between us...she belongs to very rich family ...n the main problem is m unemployed n totally dependent on others even sometimes i feel hungry so i cant afford to buy 1 burger...i tried so many times to get visa of USA but every time i wasn't able to get it...every day my father discouraged me alot,..he says i spent lot of money on u..but now m not gonna spend a single penny on u, m so helpless so i think sucide is the best way to keep my self satisfy.... (link)
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Suicide is no way out !!! Where there's a will there's a way !!!l let me tell you iv had a rough life myself iv had my ups and downs iv had my family tookn from me I was in prison for 2 years for something I did not do and I lost everything when I was younger I was homeless living from shelter to shelter working odd jobs just to make it but I never gave up .you see life is a chalange every day .its what you make of it is what you put into it .life is not easy and its not fair either .you may think that nobody cares but you would be supprised how many people do .so you lost a relationship her and there .there is more to life than your pears .who cares what people thinks of you .its who you are .nobodys perfect not by a long shot .I still strugle everyday on my past but I have to remind myself every day this too will pass .it just takes time .what you need to do is find a church wher people will help you till u get on your feet .never be to proud to ask for help its out there you just need to ask .you need to concintrate on you and if you can do that then relationships will come .but don't do something you will regret .give life a fighting chance .untill then peace man
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My husband and I are always in fights. He wants things his way and I want things my way. I was about fed up with him and was going to pack my things and leave and he told me he wants to go to marriage counseling to try to resolve this and work our marriage out. I know he wants to save it since he approached me about therapy. Do you think marriage counsiling really works or should I just give up now save us the money? (link)
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Marriage counsiling works only if you both are commeted to it .it can't be one without the other .if you want it to work out it can but there is no gurantee like anything .iv tried it before but I found myself the only one that went to it so the outcome was a devorce anyways .if you two are ment to be with eacother than you have to put your differances aside that's the only way to make it work otherwise you will both be at eachothers throats all the time .I sugest you do your homework and look around and give councelling a try .it wouldn't hurt
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I just started talking to this guy that I work with (at a fast food restaurant). We have been texting every day all day for about a week. We have talked about hanging out in person outside of work and I don't know what to expect because...This guy and I are definitely flirty, but I literally just got out of a 1-year relationship and I honestly don't know how to tell if this guy is a player and is talking to other girls or if he genuinely likes me. What are the signs -- how do I know if this is just how he is with all girls or if he has a thing for ME only? (link)
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Ok here's my sugestion .go on a date with him a couple of times .and pay close attention and watch if he's looking at other girls or is he keeping his eyes on you .if he's. Looking at other women chances are he's just a flirt and only have one thing on his mind a true player can't resist the urge to see what the opertunites are or should I say bait .so if you seeing him looking at other women and not at you then you will have your answer that he's not fully intrested in you and you should forget him and move on
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ok i dont know what to do anymore. my ex bf of 2 years dumped me last year and it took alot of getting used to like no more kisses no more hugs i had to get used to living the single life and it was hard. this boy i went out with last year after him i only went out with him for 2 weeks. then he dumped me. after like 2 months we talked again. then i didnt actually until like 5 months later. and he kissed me. then waked right back out of my life again. i was mad for like a few days. then after that i still talked to him and then i seen him again like 3 months later i seen him one day he randomly said he wanted to see me. so i said ok and i seen him. its like everytime i see him we do things. ater that he said he wanted me to be his gf and like an idiot i said yes. that was last month. i still texted him and stuff.. then i didnt see him again until last week i met up with him like 4 days in a row more then i would usually see him and we did things. and this time i got really attatched to him for someone reason. and now he isnt texting me back. and he has pulled this kind of stuff before but i just wasnt really as mad but now i am so upset i feel like i have to start over again and it makes me mad cuz i love the feeling of being loved and kissing and hugging and now i cant do that anymore cuz i am alone and have no one. why cant i find someone who is a good bf to me and would treat me right. to me it seems like all boys are the same. help me what should i do. (link)
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Not all boys are the same it just seems that way to you I'm not for sure what age you are but that might be a lot to do with it .you see younger guys don't know what they want they just go from one girl to the next .my question is and I don't want you to ge ofensive about it but you didn't have sex with him cause if you didn't. Then that's probably what he's looking for a booty call .and you don't need someone like that .you seem like you have a lot of emotions going on in you cause you can't find the right guy but be patiant it will happen .hers what you do don't try too hard don't just take or get atached to the first guy you see take your time .I know it sounds hard to do because you don't want to be lonely iv been there before and I'm a guy .maybe you should ask this guy if he realy wants to be with you or not because you don't want to be with him when it covienent for him he's either with you or not and see what he says that's all I can sugest to you well I hope this helps and good luck
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I was in a slightly abusive relationship for about seven months. He was my first boyfriend, he was two years older than me (I was fourteen, fifteen now). He pressured me and physically forced me to be fingered/give a hand job/and blowjob. I was really screwed up at the time. Looking back, I regret everthing and I know the person I was then is NOT who I am now. I let him hurt me and use me and make me feel like shit. I have gotten so much stronger since the break up. It's hard to say he flat out abused me... Because at the time I felt like that was just how he showed he loved me. He would say horrible things though, and he never really hit me but he held me down and forced me to do things and he did smack me a few times. He always used his size as an advantage. He's pretty tall and strong for a guy and I'm pretty much just small... If he wanted something he'd have this way of towering over me or pressing me against something or squeezing my wrists. He was very controlling. It's been about six months since we broke up. And even though it was a really hard thing to get over, I am better. My friends were amazing for me and even though my family didn't know the whole story they supported me through the rough months after we broke up. It was hard to not go back to him... I am somewhat involved with this new guy but I have a hard time trusting him. Being alone together makes me nervous and he can tell... I told him I've had a difficult past but I'm not ready to tell him everything. It's hard to tell people what happened. It's really hard to admit that you were os weak and controlled... I'm just not ready to tell him. He's sweet and caring and respectful and I'm tired of not being able to get close to him. I know it's gonna take time but I know I'm huritng him when I jerk away from him trying to hold my hand or refuse to let his arms get around me. He says he understands that I've had a rough past even though he doesn't know what's happened. I know he undertands but I feel so guilty. I know it hurts him... What do I do?? (I'm fifteen sophomore and he's seventeen junior) (link)
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First of all what he did to you was not out of love he knew he could presure you into manipulation because he was bigger and stronger .to me he is a cowerd .and I'm sorry for what you have gone through .its not your fault and you have to remind yourself every day .sometimes people go back to the abusive relationship cause they think they can't do any better that its all they can get but its not you deserve way better and this new guy you are seeing needs to know if you want to be with him if he's understanding he will be ok with it. You don't have to go in full detail of wht happend just explain to him that you where abused emotionaly and physicaly by this guy .and that you are not quite over this and eventualy you will be but it takes time .you have been through a lot but don't let this ruin your life the abuse is over with and now you need to focus on you but don't be afraid to open up to people that's the part about healing be open to people and they will be open to you its time to start moving on with your life right here right now and good luck
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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First of all trust is a big issue and I'm sorry you are going through this .it sounds like to me he doesn't. Resect you to be putting things about your relationship on facebook .to me facebook is designed to let the whole world know about you persanal life and what goes on behinde closed doors .its something I don't use becase its nothing but trouble kinda like the jerry springer show. But let's get back to your problem .I would deffanatly confront him you have a right to know what he put on facebook and if he refuses it or denyes it then leave him .if he dosent respect you then he surly doesn't love you and I would ask other people that you trust if they have seen anything about you on facebook .I know its driving you crazzy but what he did was wrong .you see a relationship is built on trust .if you don't trust him you don't have a relationship not a healthy one anyways .and if he's hideing things from you then he can't be trusted .my sugestion is let him go you don't need that kinda drama you deserve better
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I mean, I think I'm almost there, the getting over part. We broke up less than a month ago and he's already moved on to another girl, and it doesn't bother me that much cause nothing in high school lasts anyway. But I know I'm not completely over him. We have class together 5-6 times a week, and we have the same group of friends & agreed to be civil with each other and be friends as well. But to get there completely, any tips, or do I just wait? -.- (link)
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I sugest you find another man .if you don't want to do that than jus date people .Get out there and be active have fun .it will help you get your mind off him .don't let him give you a hard time cause he seems happy .nobody is worth it like they always say there is plenty of fish in the sea !!!
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hi i'm 17.i'm from Lebanon/Asia..i'm having a probleme with my boyfriend: i don't trust him and he doesn't trust me..i'm with him since 2006.we try a couple of times to breack up,but we can't becauze we love each other,he is so selfish.he wants me for him and no one else..he sheats on me onces and he told me that.he's so honest with me but i can't took this..plz help we love each other but we don't understand each other..thank u (link)
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First of all a relationship is based on trust if you have no trust you don't have a relationship .Here's. The reason let's say your boyfriend constantly is doing things behide your back .you keep wondering what is he doing now always looking behide your back becase he's not faithful .you will always have this thought somewhere in the back of your head .and what kind of relationship is that .not one I would want to be in .Second is comunication if you don't know what he wants or what you want then that can be a problem also sure your wants and his wants maybe a little different maybe there the same but you have to sit down and talk and be serious with your needs and listen to his needs as well and decide where your future is together becase its fulish to play games when there is no trust you are either serious with a long relationship or your not nothing in between and third he doesn't own you not untill you are maried but even then its not in full .so back to where we first started trust is everything .No trust No relationship its that simple .I hope things work out and good luck
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ive been feeling weird,drained,and hopeless since i got rejected because getting his attention wass my main goal but now i feel nothing.what is this feeling and what should i do (link)
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I'm with you girl .I get the same thing from my wife the fellings not there anymore with my wife we used to make love all the time now its been a year and nothing the fleng is just not there .I get rejected all the time and its not me its her .but the onlything I can sujest is talk to him tell him what's bothering you comunication is eveything .I don't know how long you have been with him but sometimes the flame burns out so to speak and sometimes you can spark the fire and sometimes you can't .like with me iv tried everything but nothing seems to work .I. need the love but get the cold sholder but don't let me bring you down just talk to him that's the only way to finde out what the problem is if he is true to you things will work out eventualy just have a little faith and a lot of patiance and if that won't work we can hook up lol
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Okay. So this is pretty big for me. I had a really bad break up three months ago. I'm still hurting from it, but I AM over my ex. I like this new guy. He's sixteen; a new junior and I am fifteen; a new sophomore. He's always been a pretty good friend. But he's a really really really good kid so I never really hung out with him much... He doesn't drink or smoke or hook up or anything. He's basically perfect... He's smart, sweet, athletic and really cute! I like him. A lot. We've kind of been talking... kind of. We've been texting a lot and being pretty flirty... But I'm worried becuause right after my ex and I broke up three months ago, I went for a rebound I thought I really liked too... True, its been a long time and I feel liek I'm in a much better place, but I'm still worried. I'm also worried that I might be too... I don't know. See I made a mistake with my ex. We went too far... physically and he told everyone about it. There were all sorts of messed up things that led up to me giving into his pressuring, and in some of the cases, it was physical force, and someday (when things get more serious) I will explain it to this new guy. I didn't want to go as far as I did... Ugh its really complicated. I don't want this new guy to judge me on what happened... I want to explain to him but it's not to the point yet that I feel comfortable telling him about it... So it's kind of a catch 22. What happened might keep me from getting to a level where I feel comfortable explaining to him what happened... Ya know?? So what do I do? I like him a lot... I just want it to work. (link)
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First of all you shouldn't have to answer to anybody you shouldn't have to explain yourself either this has nothing to do with this new guy and if he truly likes you that shouldnybother him if he finds out .you see people think to get to know someone or getting closer to someone you should be open and tell everything about your past but that's not so you don't have too the past is the past that doesn't have nothing to do with the future you don't have to go into detail with your life not unles you want too .that's the beauty of starting over to forget and move on .so with all that said and done go get your man don't let your past stop you
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I have a friend to whome i am close to. He is one of my ultimate best friends and we talk on a regular basis. There has always been this "thing" between me and him and we both know its there. There is like a spark in the air but then again, we have NEVER kissed or anything . But we are so close mentally and emotionally.
He always talks abou what kind of girl he's gunna marry and how hell treat her. It just makes me think even more about how badly i want that life with him. They say that your husband is like your best friend. I think i do want my bestfriend to eventually become my husband. I have never really thought about is like that before but i legit think that we are almost perfect for eachother. And i do think that we could date very easily but I do beleive that the ONLY thing that is holding us back is me. My weight.Dont get it wrong he does love me but he also wants a "fitter " looking gf. And i honestly dont resent him for that. He is really into body building and fitness and he doesnt really judge me at all. I just have that gut feeling that that is what is holding him back from me. But me, i dont at ALL eat junk food. All my weight was put on when I was younger and now im just been kind of stuck with it for four years. For four years after i gradually began to eat healthier my weight still just kinda stayed the same. This summer i have been watching and kind of obsessing what i eat and i have lost about 15 pounds. All i drink is water and eat three times a day of mostly vegetables. But i dont only want to lose weight because i have this weird theory lol...but so i feel better about myself in general...im just getting sick of being fat.
anyway i guess i dont even really know what im asking i just kinda wonderr i guess what you think about all of this or just any advice. ... (link)
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First of all beauty is only skin deep and if this guy realy likes you he will like you for who you are not what you look like but I'm glad you are taking an aproch to lose weight .my wife at one time weighed 220lbs now she's down to 150 she lost a lot of weight in just one year but she has this problem with flab loose skin .I'm a skinny guy in 5/8 and weigh between 145 to 155 .so aperance to me is not everything it how you connect and the other person treats you .so anyways I would just ask him honestly how he feels about you if there is a chance on moving forward in your relationship tell him how you feel about him too .what do you got to loose that way you know where you stand and you might be suprised .if you don't take chances in life you won't ever know what the outcome might be and you will never gain anything either its worth it don't you think
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k my boyfriend of two years and i have been rocky any way right now like we are fighting. well things were going good again until i go on facebook and see these pictures of these girls who are 15 16 with him but they were at his friends house and his friends little sister and her friend were taking pix now there were two that were just of the girls and him and he sees nothing wrong with them yet everytime i ask him who he is with its boys that he chills with and these were taken the other night and he said he told me but i think id remember him telling me that hes with a girl especially one im not to happy with. every time i see these i want to break up with him am i being stupid? and when something like that happends i want to approach it in a diffent way instead of straight bitching at him. idk what to do any more. (link)
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Well to me he sounds like a player .and I bet you if you ask around people will tell you what he's doing .there are a lot of guys that arnt satisfied with just one woman sad to say but if he's doing something behind your back he will slip up trust me and the only fool will be him .should you give him the benifit of the dout when he has pictures of him on facebook ?not likely the truth is in black and white and why is he not with you hmmm something don't sound right with that I bet you there's more than meets the eye here .you can ask him what's going on all day but you know he will denye it that's what players do until the slip up and are cought redhanded then there's no way out .all I'm saying is go with your gut feeling its always the best one .oh by the way I'm a guy and I know how guys work trust me and good luck
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Okay so my boyfriend came over and we made out and I got horny.. and My underwear was soaked but we didn't have sex, I wasn't even barely close to his private parts. He left and Now i'm like jizzing in my pants thinking about what happened. and Im having some pain In my lower abdomen it's the same pain I feel when I'm ovulating, is this a sign of anything Like pregnancy or Infections?! My back is kind of hurting to and I'm getting pains on one side of my hips then the other side, it's really wierd I mean no sexual intercourse happen I was wearing jeans and he was wearing shorts, but they werent jean shorts But i'm just wondering is this pain Im feeling normal? Oh and by the way im 13. And my period is supposed to be coming sooon so are these symptoms a sign of my period. Oh and i've been constipated lately so maybe are these symptoms coming from the lack of poop.? please help i'm scared. (link)
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Well let me start by saying this is probably normal .you see a man can get blue balls by getting excited about having sex but to where he thinks he's going to get it and then something happens like almost getting cought and he's all worked up that his testicals fill up with seman .but since you are a woman its like the same your ovares fill up with eggs and get swollen too .and the only way to relieve the presure is to masterbate .it sounds kinda weird but it works .iv had this problem before plenty of times it can be painful but if you do what I said it will go away trust me .I'm no doctor but been there before .its like filling a baloon with water the more you fill it the bigger it becomes to the poin where it exploeds its the same way with you or anyone eles to that matter you have to realease the presure .hope this helps
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So I am in a relationship with a man that I really treasure and don't want to lose. We met in January, and we started out as friends with benefits but quickly became best friends and fell hard for each other.
My concern is that I've had a bit of a past, ie I've slept around. I've changed now, and I'm not sure if my boyfriend knows about my past or the extent of it, we never talked about it before. My question is should I tell him? In case he doesn't know, I don't want guys from school telling him that I've slept around, and then him to hold it against me. I want to know that he accepts me regardless of my past. I don't want it to come up in the future of our relationship, I want him to know that yes I do come with a not so likable past. So do I tell him? Or just hope he already knows?
Thanks, 19/f (link)
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Well the past is the past and what ever you did back then you wernt with him so it shouldn't matter .we all have a past some good some bad and I bet you anything he's no angel either I'm sure he's slept around too but hey like I said that's the past we are looking at the present and the future so if he doesn't except your past he doesn't except you and as for telling him about your past that's strickly up to you .the past you can't hide it always finde its way back to the surface you can't hide it but you can learn and move on .I think you owe it to him to be honest and up front if you plan on being tgogether .it will make you not have to wory if and when he will find out I hope you take my advice and I wish you all the luck
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