Question Posted Saturday September 25 2010, 1:13 am
hi m sarab 25 years old..i want to commit sucide just beacause m very poor n i lost ma first love just because i m not fucking rich....but now i have already in a relationship with some other girl n in this case also money comes between us...she belongs to very rich family ...n the main problem is m unemployed n totally dependent on others even sometimes i feel hungry so i cant afford to buy 1 burger...i tried so many times to get visa of USA but every time i wasn't able to get it...every day my father discouraged me alot,..he says i spent lot of money on u..but now m not gonna spend a single penny on u, m so helpless so i think sucide is the best way to keep my self satisfy....
advice_gurl101 answered Sunday September 26 2010, 12:42 am: No, suicide is not the answer. Suicide will NEVER BE THE ANSWER. When life get's tough there's always a silver lining. Through every darkness there's always a light somewhere. Life may get tough, but you can get through it. Just have hope and faith that things are going to get better in life. Because with everything that just falls apart and breaks, hope is the only thing that keeps us going. My mother always tells me, "Life is not easy. Life is a uphill struggle. But it doesn't mean it's not worth living for. What you struggled and overcome is your greatest success and pride." Those are true words. Life is not easy. Life is tough especially this bad economy. Being in college is hard, and working and doing stuff is hard. There are times where I have to deal with so much drama. But guess what? At the end of the day, I thank god. I thank god, for everything I work hard for and everything I have. I thanked god, for the place I internship for. I am happy everyday at the teen hot line that I helped someone in need. I don't get paid by the way. Knowing I helped someone was pleasure enough. Just know life is going to look up for you. Just keep fighting and holding on. Be strong. Because in the end, god will take care of you. Because in the end, all your struggles will pay off. Life is worth living for. You only have one life. This is it. You are so young with so much potential in this world. Don't let your father discourage you. Don't let anyone discourage you. You live your own life. You run your life. SUICIDE is NOT THE ANSWER. There are brighter days in life. Just keep fighting. Please do not kill yourself. [ advice_gurl101's advice column | Ask advice_gurl101 A Question ]
bigunored1 answered Saturday September 25 2010, 5:15 pm: Suicide is no way out !!! Where there's a will there's a way !!!l let me tell you iv had a rough life myself iv had my ups and downs iv had my family tookn from me I was in prison for 2 years for something I did not do and I lost everything when I was younger I was homeless living from shelter to shelter working odd jobs just to make it but I never gave up .you see life is a chalange every day .its what you make of it is what you put into it .life is not easy and its not fair either .you may think that nobody cares but you would be supprised how many people do .so you lost a relationship her and there .there is more to life than your pears .who cares what people thinks of you .its who you are .nobodys perfect not by a long shot .I still strugle everyday on my past but I have to remind myself every day this too will pass .it just takes time .what you need to do is find a church wher people will help you till u get on your feet .never be to proud to ask for help its out there you just need to ask .you need to concintrate on you and if you can do that then relationships will come .but don't do something you will regret .give life a fighting chance .untill then peace man [ bigunored1's advice column | Ask bigunored1 A Question ]
Rene5009 answered Saturday September 25 2010, 11:27 am: NO you shouldn't do suicide. SUICIDE is NEVER the answer, you have a relationship and there are people around you who love you, so don't give up! life is to short! Get help financially from friends and family who are willing to help you get back on your feet, and then through that process get a job! You need to be able to support yourself, I'm pretty sure if you get a job life will be a little better for you and your relationship. [ Rene5009's advice column | Ask Rene5009 A Question ]
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