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Why is my girlfriend so shy around me? How can I get her to relax around me?

Question Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 4:28 am

I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she's so shy around me. I think it's adorable but at the same time I know she isn't comfortable and that makes me unhappy. Why would she be so incredibly shy and how can I get my girlfriend to loosen up and relax while she's around me? I want to know the real her, inside and out, and it seems like her being overly shy is causing a barrier between us. How can I get her to just relax? Why is it like this?

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LisaSavage answered Sunday October 24 2010, 4:21 am:
I was like that with my bf i was nervis that he wouldnt like me if i was my true self it did take a while for me to start acting myself around him, Once i new that i could trust him and he actualy liked me i could start to loosen up around him and we got closer after we spent time by ourself and i new he woould be ther for me. she will come round just let her now that you do like her and she will soon get more confident with you.
best of luck :)

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bigunored1 answered Saturday October 23 2010, 7:48 am:
Well first of all I'm not for sure how old you two are but some girls are just that way its normal .nothing to worry about .all I can tell you to do is just talk to her about it but don't do it in a mean way just tell her its ok to just be yourself .she will come around eventualy just give her some time .take her out .take her out a lot. That way she wll get used to being with you and she will be more comfortable around you .then you will see her true side of her .trust me it works the more fun you have together the more she will open up .its all about trust .kida like getting a new puppy it takes a while for the puppy to trust you right the same with her only she's a person .just trat her with respect .

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