|
| |
okay. me and this boy named will, LOVE each other. we fight everyday but always say sorry. but today, one of his friends says love=trust. he asked me if i trusted him, i said yeah just not with heather (his ex girl friend for a YEAR AND A HALF) so that gives me a reason not to. but i trust him. then he was like then you dont love me, and i was like yes i do.. then he was like i love you so much but its going anywhere, we fight everyday. and then i was like yeah but you said we fight because we care and he was like well i was roung we fight because I care not you. then he said whatever forget you. thats where i started to cry! =( now me and him are in a HUGE fight over that. i really love him. but now i think its over with us. =( do you think it is? what should i do? should i still love him or let what we had go ?
(link)
| |
you should tell him that you love him (in a note or e-mail) and that you trust him but girls have trouble trusting their boyfriends with their ex girlfriends. and that you really want him not to be mad at him for a misunderstanding and that you are sorry. and if he truely loves you or cares for you he will understand. but if he can't understand you need to move on.
|
I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months but it seems like every week or so we have some misunderstanding anf get in a little fight. It's never anything big and we make up pretty quickly, but I'm starting to wonder if there's something I can do about it or if maybe I should just break up with him.
I really love spending time with him - he makes me laugh, treats me well, talks things out - but maybe we are just on two different levels and I should keep my options open.
What would be best?
P.S. He's a little older than me so he has more freedoms than I do (something that gets in the way) (link)
| |
i think that you should dump him that way you could find someone closer to your age.Also that way nothing really gets in the way. but you need to think about how you feel about him and if you realize that you don't love HIM then you should definitly get out of that relationship but stay close friends with him if you want too.
|
i have been dating wit this guy for 3 months.
and these 3 months have been beautiful, but so hard. Not only did i lose all my house privliges like cell phone and going out, but i was about to get sent to a broading school in a latin country. my parents want me to be happy and i know im love. it sounds quick but, this guy really helped me get through all these other problems. but he got me bigger ones. i know he loves me and has never felt this way over a female because all his friends tell me. his cousin who i now adore tells me all the time how he raves about me with his parents and close relations. but my mom is so against his piercesing. he says he love me but he wont try to have an aproval from my parents. so my question is should i leave him and find some who will make sacrafices for me?
thank you for reading this.
please help me.
thank you
Senorita Lopez (link)
| |
i think that you should tell him how you feel about him then tell him that if he loves you he will try to get your parents approval.OR if that seems too manipulative for you you could tell him that you really want him to make a sacrifice for you and get your parents approval because you have made sacrifices for him and if he says no, dump that non-caring jerk and find someone who not only loves you, but will make sacrifices for you as you will for him.
|
|
So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie? (link)
| |
tell him that you like him but not in that way. he might be upset for a while but he will eventually get over it. but make sure that there isn't anyone else around because you don't want to imbarris him.
|
|
my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do? (link)
| |
Wow! that is hard. maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him that your not ready to go that deep in a relationship yet. or that you were just surprized and didn't know what to do. but you really need to understand you and if still can't after you talk to him then you need to move on if he doesn't uunderstand you how can he love you? well i hope i helped! Good Luck!:)
|
my mother and father have band me from talking to a guy i really like and he likes me. and i dont see why because my sisters have been making up all of this crap. and thats why i cant see him anymore and i got to go to this place last weekend and slow dance with him and i really want to go out with him but im not even allwoed to talk to him on the phone. amd my x boyfriend is his cousin and he still likes me so he is makeing up all of this crap to please help me
love x0x0 confused p.s i have tryed to talk with them about it but it didnt work
(link)
| |
i am so sorry i kind of have the same situation although there are times when i have to see him(at church). well, what works for me is e-mailing him all the time and if i call him and my parents ask who i was talking to i say that it was one of my friends. tell your sisters that you know what their trying to pull and your not going to put up with it. then threatn to blackmail them about somthing. if you can't think of anything to blackmail them with make somthing up. Good Luck!:)
|
hey thx for your advice im not gonna get over him maybe he does still like me thanks alot!^^
*~-NATY-~* (link)
| |
your welcome
|
|
i want to invite my bf over to my house so he can meet my parents and so we can hang out and thats the only way my parents would feel comfertable with me and him being together is if it under their supervision, so what can we do if he comes over? (link)
| |
you could have a nice dinner (not like dressy or anything, people coiuld get uncomfertable), play a game or somthing like that, and just talk (parents love talking,esepcially to boys about going out with their daughters, but be careful about the subject)good luck!:)
|
|
what is the meaning of life? (link)
| |
the meaning of life is to serve the one and only true God. if you want to know more just ask me.
|
ok this is gonna be long but i need advice i cant hold this feelings anymore...ok this guy moved in lik 2 years ago...lets call him N....well he has been my friend and all he is sweet and is always joking around..well last year he would occasionally ask me out but since he always jokes around i didnt take it seriously he kept asking me but i kept not taking it seriously..anyways he went out with my friend thats a girl lets call her M well i got jealous and thought he picked her because she is prettier but the other day like to 3 days ago my friend came over lets call her Sally ok so Sally met the guy and i told her that he was going out with M and all that..well Sally out of nowhere ask N why wasnt he going out with me instead of M..well N said that he asked me out but i rejected him or said no...and i told him i would've said yes if he didnt joke around alot cuz i thought he was joking and he said he wasnt after that i felt guilty for not paying attention to the signs he was hinting at me that he liked me....now i want him back i want another chance because i really do like him even after 2 years of misery of seeing him with M..i still have feelings for him..i really want him..he broke up with his g/f 2 days ago..i want another chance..what should i do? Do i get over him or what?
P.S SORRY IT WAS LONG
OH HE IS 16/m and im 14/f! (link)
| |
if he broke up with his girlfried then he's probably gonna ask you out soon since you told him.so don't get over him.
|
|
I'm very shy and quiet, and I not a geek or anything but I'm not exactly popular either. There's this guy that I think might like me.. but he is really popular and outgoing, so I'm not sure if he really does like me or if it's just my imagination. Is it possible for a popular, outgoing guy to like a shy, not-so-popular girl? What are the chances? I don't know what to do because of my uncertainty.. should I flirt back or not?? Thanks in advance!! :-) (link)
| |
ihave the same situation and i would say go for it and flirt back.
|
|
My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago at school. Right after school that same day i saw him kissing another girl. I know we broke up and everything but how did he get over it that fast? My question is how can i get over someone quickly? Any tips on how to forget about someone? (link)
|
well the feeling will just have to go away on it's own. sorry i know how this feels. he is just a jerk (remember that if you think of asking him back).
i hope that i helped you!
|
|
my friend likes me (hes a guy)an today my frend (grl) told me that he wants to go out with me. said ok and now changed my mind. i feel like if i go out with him we wouldnt be frends and if i say no hell hate me. it would just be weird to go out with a frend ya know? please please help i need to know by 8:00 tonight.thanks. (link)
| |
go with your feelings if you don't think you want to than don't if he's really your friend he won't be very mad if you say no. if you think that you do but don't want to because it would ruin your friendship tell him that, he will understand.i am 13 also and i used to think that having a boyfriend would make my life eaiser but it didn't. but it might be different for you. just go with your feelings.
|
|
my friend wanted to know if getting braces affects kissing ??? (link)
| |
i am a 13yr old girl and i have braces and a boyfriend and no it does not effect kissing.
|
|
I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice? (link)
| |
ask him to kiss you or write him a note or send an e-mail that says you want him to kiss you.
|
|
Ok I have fallen hard for one of my guy friends and i've liked him as more than a friend since January or something. Ok, now he has a girlfriend, but on the day he asked her out he told me that he really only liked her as a friend, and this girl's friend kind of made him feel like this girl would be crushed if he didn't ask her out, so he did. And tht was a few weeks ago. And last week, he kept looking at me and paying attention to me a whole lot more than his girlfriend and flirting and such, and this week he's hanging around with her again, and he still glances at me, but it's like we're just friends again... I'm so confused and I don't know what to do... any help will be greatly appreciated, THANKS! (link)
| |
ask him he likes you still and if he does ask him if he will break up with his girlfriend to go out with you.
|
|
OK i like this guy and he is really cool and funny and all we ca even say ilove you to each other and its ok.. He is in 7th grade and i'm in 8th but we are really good friends like we go to the movies and he calls me all the time and talk about nothing for 2 hours or more.Once he told me that he liked me and i said i liked him too but he hasn't done anything like ask me out. I like him and i want to ask him out but at the same time i just want to be friends and not ruin our friendship. But heres the thing he is the weirdest, most geekest guy in 7th grade everybodys told me but he is my friend and i can't just turn my back on him like that and people think he is gay too. HELP what should i do. (link)
|
well don't listen to what oter people say . i know it mighgt be hard but... if you really like him go for it! ask him out
|
|
ok well my best friend is/was having a HUGE bday party for herself (shes got a huuuuge house, an amazing pool and her parents said that max was like 60) so yeah everyone looks forward to her partys.. and ya know how it is in high school.. you cant go to a party like this without having someone to "hook up" with.. thats just how it is.. so me and this guy planned to hook up and blah blah blah.. you know how that goes.. well the party kinda got canceled and so now me and this guy are just "talking" about doin stuff like goint to the movies or w.e and "hookinh up" there but the thing is we have been talking a lot now and i think i like him.. (wich i knew this was gonna happen :/ ).. and hes telling ppl he likes me (a little) so thats a high point.. BUT (and theres always a BUT) :/ theres another girl.. that hes like IN LOVE with.. but this girl has a bf and has for a looong time now, but this bf goes to a different school then her so her and this guy i like act like they are together at school, but outa school she just totally ignores him when shes around her bf (gay huh?) and i dont go to the same school as the guy i like or this girl, and ive never met her either but everyone tells me shes really not all that pretty.. so yeah im just wondering.. should i take him out.. just me and him and show him who i really am and try to steal him away from this "other girl" and make him change his mind to want me?.. or what? (link)
| |
yes invite him to a movie or somthing so he can know the real you. then let him decide if he wants to go out with you.
|
|
OK, my bestest friend, hes a guy and im a grl, i dunno if i love him...i call him all the time and we talk for hours, and ya, we love eachother, and we both know it, but my question is, how much? I'm not sure if he likes me that way, and I think i do, but i dunno...What should I do? (link)
| |
simple ask him how much he likes you and if he likes you go out with him for a while and see how you feel.
|
|
i have a guy friend that i like for a while and i still do like him and he likes me one problem is that he gots a gf and we close and he always tells me that he loves me and we can talk for hours and not worry about who knows we talking but my question is is it a bad thing that he has more feeling for me and not his gf? plz help! (link)
| |
tell him that if really loves you that he will break up with his gf and if he doesn't that there can't be anything between you cause it's not right.
|
|
