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Weird guy
OK i like this guy and he is really cool and funny and all we ca even say ilove you to each other and its ok.. He is in 7th grade and i'm in 8th but we are really good friends like we go to the movies and he calls me all the time and talk about nothing for 2 hours or more.Once he told me that he liked me and i said i liked him too but he hasn't done anything like ask me out. I like him and i want to ask him out but at the same time i just want to be friends and not ruin our friendship. But heres the thing he is the weirdest, most geekest guy in 7th grade everybodys told me but he is my friend and i can't just turn my back on him like that and people think he is gay too. HELP what should i do.
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Listen to your heart, if you like hime fuck what people say its your life not theirs and if he still wants to be friends oh well and if hes gay wouldnt you have noticed already?
x0Lindsey
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If you really like him then just don't worry about what other people say. But ye of course knowing me i would just like leave him but i don'y know but good luck. Does he look geeky to you?
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well don't listen to what oter people say . i know it mighgt be hard but... if you really like him go for it! ask him out
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I think...if you really like him...you should ask him out. I mean see how it is. And if it doesnt work out...then just b friends again. SCREW WHAT THE OTHER PEOPLE THINK. and if he was gay...im sure u would find out eventually...or have noticed already. asHleyx3
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If he's your friend then don't let other peoples opinions affect your thinking.
It sounds like you have fun together and that is the main thing at your age. No need to rush into the whole bf/gf thing at all. Just have fun together!
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Stop caring what other people think, for starters... even if other people call him gay or a geek or a purple 2-headed monster... that doesn't need to affect your opinion of him!
So he's a cool guy and you're good friends with him, and he's told you he likes you and you said you like him back... but he hasn't made the next move...
Perhaps you need to grab the bull by the horns (figuratively of course) and make a move! Ask him out, or you could just kiss him, too.
Or do nothing for now, and continue being friends... and if he ever gets up the guts to ask you out, then you can deal with the decision as to whether you want to date this guy.
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Ask him out. If he likes you like he said he did before, he wont have a problem saying yes. Some guys are different.. and you say he's a geek.. but if he's your friend, it shouldn't matter.. if you like him friendly-wise and boyfriend-wise.. do what you know you'd be more comfortable with..
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This has the potential to be a great relationship, but if you're worried about what people would say if the two of you dated, don't ask him to be your boyfriend. It almost sounds like you would be ashamed to be seen with him because of his reputation, if people knew you were dating. It's not fair to him to be covered up with a sheet all the time because his girlfriend's too worried about what everyone else might think. Take this advice, don't get involved with him if you want to keep this friendship alive.
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I think that a good relationship always should start out as good friendship. If you like the guy a lot you shouldn't care what other people say about him. You should start sending signals that you want him to ask you out. However if he does not ask you out after sending signals then maybe you should ask one of his friends to talk about it for you. You never knows he may be scared to ask you because he thinks you may say no. f wanna be in the relationship you have to be friends as well or will not have a god relationship.
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