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REALLY confused
Ok I have fallen hard for one of my guy friends and i've liked him as more than a friend since January or something. Ok, now he has a girlfriend, but on the day he asked her out he told me that he really only liked her as a friend, and this girl's friend kind of made him feel like this girl would be crushed if he didn't ask her out, so he did. And tht was a few weeks ago. And last week, he kept looking at me and paying attention to me a whole lot more than his girlfriend and flirting and such, and this week he's hanging around with her again, and he still glances at me, but it's like we're just friends again... I'm so confused and I don't know what to do... any help will be greatly appreciated, THANKS!
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ask him he likes you still and if he does ask him if he will break up with his girlfriend to go out with you.
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Just wait for the best. Don't stop being his friend and remind him every now and then how you feel about him. He obviously has feelings for you if he flirts with you and glances at you when he's with his girlfriend. From what I see, he asked her out because he felt bad. I've got friends just like that.. especially guys, thats what they do. I can tell you from what I'm reading and from what I know, that he does like you and the time will come when he breaks up with her and asks to be with you. It might make his girlfriend jealous then, but she'll get over it. Hope this helps.
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GOSH. And they say WE are compliacated. You should confront him yourself. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way back. If he doesn't...well try to forget about him you know? Because he does not seem like he really can be a man and make his mind up...
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Look sweetie, I know that it really sucks to like a guy and be unsure about his feelings back. I also know that it is hard liking a guy with a girlfriend, and sometimes liking someone will cloud your judgment. What you need to do, is play a little hard-to-get. He knows you like him, he also hasn't dumped his girlfriend because he knows you will still be around reguardless. If you want him to like you, and if you want him to be with you and not her, show him what he is missing when you don't talk to him as much. Then wait. I know it's hard, but if you do amazing things will start to happen.
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I have been in this situation before. He may be unsure if going out with you, becuase you guys are friends. Once you go out with somone who is your friend, things are always going to be different. Me and my friend went out a year ago and things are still not the same. I can understand why you have fallen so hard. Think about it, he is your friend, and you like him a lot...so he would automatically include the things that you would like a good boyfriend to have. Right? But you have to realize that what is supposed to happen WILL happen. But remember, is going out with him worth risking the friendship. Hope I Helped!!!! If this isn't what you needed, go ahead and ask some more...
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