ok well me and my gf just broke up and well i really really liked her. well she dumped me because she said that all she saw herself getting out of this relationship was a friendship. and that wasent an excuse because the last couple days she has actually been trying to be a good friend. so im really sad and all being my pathetic self. but then the next day she was telling her best friend that she was having second thoughts bout doing it and that she dosent know if she made the right decision(i got the forwarded message from aim)
ok well my question is
is there anything i can do to influence her to come back to me
i really really like her and i dont want to loose her as a gf
my best friend is going through this. she broke up with her bf and she felt really bad for him because hes like in love with her and she told him it was just a break and then told him that they were just going to wait till drama settled and then get back together so he thinks that theyre still going out even though she really really doesnt like him and likes someone else.
and its cute but sad because finally last week she was like saying something about how they broke up at the lunch table and hes like "we broke up?"
mucho embarrassing.
so pretty much hes WAY annoying now to everyone because no one likes him anyway (not that no one likes you) but now hes always fawning over her and telling people to tell her stuff that he still loves her.
also he texts her mom about her personal life.
OK SO THE POINT IS
that you should move on. it sounds like you are capable of really really liking someone genuinely and i know there are a lot of girls looking for someone like you.
best of luck! sorry i talk a lot. :D
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading
ehh its weird but i LOVE when a guy has strong back muscles and shoulders when he turns around and you can tell hes just got that strength. also arms and pecs. abs are good too. pretty much just muscles everywhere haha.
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Female; 14.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for one month, we've done everything that leads up to a kiss, but we haven't kissed yet. If were hanging out with people they`ll like tell him to kiss me. Its totally embarressing, and he`ll kiss me on the cheek or the head which is super weird.
So, I tried to kiss him on his lips, so he'd get the picture. But he didn't like lean into the kiss back, he just kept his lips the same.
What should I do?
haha thats definately a bit strange there. that happened with me and my now ex boyfriend. he was so nervous because he'd never kissed anyone before. finally i just asked him why he didnt want to kiss me and he told me he didnt want to mess anything up and then we kissed. of course after thats all he wanted to do whenever we hung out so be careful the way you say things because then he might think you want to kiss all the time. hope it helps!
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Ok so on friday, I am going on my schools 8th grade trip to Six Flags Great Adventure. Im going to be spending my time with a boy that asked me out during november, but then we lost contact with eachother for a while until a few days ago when i found his #. I have a feeling he is going to kiss me, and I have never kissed anybody before. What do I do? How do I act? Please help!!!
13/f
kissing is fun :D
remember that. go along with it.
if he tries to french you, depending on if you want it or not, just go with it and go slow. my first french the guy was going so fast i thought he was going to bite my tongue off or something. haha
good luck! (and how cute ;))
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On saturday, this boy Chris asked me out. I liked him a lot, so of course I said yes. We only got to talk online, but he said he wanted to hug me after school, kiss me, and he invited me to his hockey game. I fell for him as soon as he said he wanted to hug/kiss me. I felt like this was the right guy for me. And then on tuesday morning, he randomly broke up with my online. I was really sad that he didn't do it in person and I thought it was low of him to tell me he'd NEVER break up with me but then 2 days later, break his promise. I asked him why he broke up with me, and he goes " I dunno I just think we should be friends." I was really sad. I never even got to hug him or even talk to him in person while we were going out! He broke up with me in the next 2 days. And I couldn't believe it because I spent hours talking to him on the phone and flirting with him, I thought we would last forever. For the past 2 days I've been crying and telling him I still like him, but he said "I'm really sorry but I only like you as a friend." As soon as he broke up with me, he asked out my best friend who was his ex-girlfriend. She said no because she knows I still like him and he's mad at her for saying no. I still love him SOO much. And when I fall in love, it takes a long time for me to fall out. Do you think he's a player? And should I waste my time liking him? I need your advice, and what I should do.
I rate high.
And if this helps, when he was going out with his last girlfriend, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with her, while they were going out.
wow thats basically the story of my life. lol
yeah, hes probably not a good guy. YES YES I know hes a sweetie...WHEN HE WAS A SWEETIE, now he used you to try to get closer to your best friend. sweet? not so much. He is definately a player. He needs to get his head out of his penis and head for someone that cares. but he is male so I would not count on that happening so I would try to move on.
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ok this is my dilemma.there is this guy called rick in both my english and history clases.he looks at me a lot.and when i say something in class.he at times smiles at me like his proud of me or something.its wierd cause now am thinking about him A LOT.him and me as a couple and am not really sure if i even like him.DO I LIKE HIM OR DO I JUST LIKE THE ATTENTION HIS GIVING ME OR BOTH./AND DOES HE LIKE ME ANYWAY
i am so confused.help me out here guys.
i rate 5
OMG ME TOO!!! only his name is steven.. yeah this guy has like, abercrombie model good looks and all of a sudden i cant wait to see him. But I think he is just being nice. However, you never know with these "boys". haha. I think you might like him, if you guys have ever talked before. And if not (never talked I mean) then why not give it a shot?
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ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months, but we've been close friends for about a year. when we first got together, everything was great.. we were so happy together!!! but then over the summer i went on a family vacation for alomost a month (i kept in touch with him as much as i could while i was gone, but i was overseas and it was hard) and when i got back (on his birthday! wouldnt think that was a good present? lol) he acted like he didnt care about me anymore. and it gets worse.. im a senior and he graduated last year, and he works two jobs, so it makes it hard to see him. when hes not working he "forgets" to call me and goes fishing or some other manly thing with his friends. now, i dont have a problem with his friends, but for some reason, his friends dont like me. whenever my boyfriend is with them, he acts like he doesnt like me either. for example, the other night he called me when i got off of work, and then in the middle of my sentence i could hear his friends come over and hes goes "look b!+
Aww Im sorry. This is the hard truth: When a guy calls you a B---- then it is over. His friends are influencing him a lot. What would your parents think if they knew you wanted to be with someone that called you that? or ditches you, or ignores you, or doesnt make time to spend with you? Guys dont like breaking up with girls...so they act like cruddy boyfriends. Let him go. and find someone that will throw you a party on his B-day just b/c you got back, or someone who will tell his friends to back off if they are saying stuff about you, or will take a sick day to spend extra time with you. Your boyfriend kind of stinks.
Hope it Helps abd Good Luck!
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right i think i like two guys and i can't pick between them they both told me they have feelings for me and they have both asked me out and because i could not pick i said no to them both. So heres the thing Jacks a muslim it will never be allowed by my mum if she found out she would go mad. James would be allowed its just i don't spend much time with james everyone says how cute me and james would be... but james just seems like he never wants to be with me in college. i am not sure what to do.someone help please. thank you.
this is going to sound cheesy, but follow your heart. I really liked a black guy and I had kept it from my mom for a while and so when i told her she told my dad and then they started yelling at them I callde them a racist and they were all "WE ARE NOT RACIST" even though they totally are. Anyawy, the point of that schpeal is that your parents arent perfect, but it is up to you to decide what you want. Your parents and other family members may not want you to do this, and remember, hell hath no fury like an unhappy familes wrath..
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Alright, Me and this guy were talking a lot and he told me he loved me and all that jazz. Then he started getting mad at me over stupid things and once I would explain myself he would be like alright. Then we got in this huge fight. And fought for a week. Then just yesterday he IMed me out of the blue. He said that he wanted to try the friends thing for now. I really like this kid, If I don't love him. I don't know what to do. He's always flirting with other girls and everything and I'm just like...wow. I really want to go out with him. But I know he would say no. I just wish he would like me.
I mean whenever he said he wanted to try the just friends thing for now part he sent me this poem/letter he wrote during the week we were mad at eachother and it made me cry. It basically said that he will always care about me and that sometimes he's stupid about things and wishes I would just over look them.
I really don't know what to do. I'm so confused. I just want him to like me..Wow...Please help me.
I rate 5's
Aww that sounds sweet! And a little confusing. Ugh guys..anyways..just tell him you like him.
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Okay this is pretty unlike me and I know I'm gonna sound retarded, but this weekend me and a few of my buddys are going to the mall and they're are always reeeeeaaallll fine girls there and even though I'm not a bad looking dude (shallow?) I always never have any courage to approach them, any suggestions? I would be mucho greatful =)
Any girl will take it as a compliment no matter how ugly a guy is if he approches her and her friends at a mall, or anywhere. I know I would. Just relax and be yourself.
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wondered if there are any advice on this topic. i don't mind players, as long as they don't play me... are there any signs to tell if a woman is looking for more than just (pretty shallow) fun?
Yeah, if she doesnt sexual with you a lot. If she acts like she cares, or remembers lil things that you say then she really cares about you. If she only remembers what you *ah hem* look like, then you might want to find someone new...
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Well there a girl I really like and we have been awsome friends. I want to tell her the way I truly feel about her, but I don't want to make anything more akward then they are, and ruin our friendship. It already came close to being decimated, and so whats the best way to let it out.
Aww, I like my best guy friend and I wish he would tell me if he likes me or not..tell her. For me.
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does he like me?
i like this kid who is in my group of friends that ij ust started really talking to at the end of the summer. he is soo good-looking with a nice body and everything and a ton of the girls like him. most of them barely talk to him and just like him because of his appearance but other do talk to him too and know he's a nice guy.
i really really really like him. my best friend (who's a guy) is good friends with him and he is going to ask him who he likes..but i want to know what you guys think.
-in gym class we had to do this thing where you had to sit on the lap of the person behind you..he was going to have to sit ona guy so he asked me to move behind him. hahaha.
-he comes over to talk to me a lot in gym
-he's walked to study with me both times that i've gone the same way as him (i usually go a different way and don't see him)
-in that same activity in gym i had to wrap my arms around his waist so i wouldnt fall (alright, alright..cause i wanted to) and he told my best friend about it later.
-in study i was sharing a seat with my friend who sits next to him so i was between them so i was sitting pretty close to him and i was trying to read his french (i take spanish) and he was laughing and turning red when i talked to him.
-when my friends and i went out to lunch he asked "is maggie..or anyone else coming?" (my name is maggie)
-when my best friend was talking about bio class he started talking about how he did bio homework with me in study. it was completely random..had nothing to do with what my friend was talking about except it had to do with biology..and the story had no point whatsoever.
-he smiles and says hi to me whenever he sees me in the hall
-after study he always walks out with me and walks with my until we have to go different ways.
that's all i can think of right now. please tell me what you think. i think he might but i don't know if he is just being friendly cause we haven't really talked a lot before.
Oo la la! Yup, he prob likes you. Good luck maggie!
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Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do?
Uhh, I would think the police could help. You never no what this guy might do. He sounds really sick to me. He could try to rape you or something. This is beyond a web sites or your help.
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okay so i met this guy hes soooooo freaking nice to me, we talk all the time. and he told me he liked me and stuff but last thursday he hooked up with this BEAUTIFUL girl. and then on homecomign i hear he has a girlfriend and hes all over like every freaking girl.im the type who gets jealus real easy. but we made up or whatever and he came over again yesturday we didnt hook up like usual we just kissed. hes a senior and im a freshman. and i dont know why i belive him when he says he likes me. but hes soo nice. and he told my friends he liked me andd stuff but he is considered a man whore. people even tolld me its funny that i think he likes me, but i cannot help it.
Ok, go to my advice column and to the third page. Read the 2nd one. It starts off "omg, someone's gotta help me get rid of this feeling". Read that pretty much. And also, if he is hooking up with other people, especially if he is a senior, then he is probably just hooking up with you because it feels nice to him.
Hope it Helps and Im sorry.
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Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do???
Yowza thats a bitch if I ever heard one...Haha. Ok, your friend is not a friend. Just to clear that up. So I am going to refer to her as Faker 1. And this "boyfriend" is not a boyfriend. So I will refer to him as Faker 2. These people lied to your face. These people do not care about you one bit. These people will not grow up to be successful people. Got that? Good.
Forget about them. I know it is going to be hard, but try. Know that he didnt care about you and she didnt care about you, so it isnt really a big loss of friendship of love. Hang out with other friends, other boys, maybe you will even get a new friend or bf out of this.
Hope it Helps and Good Luck!
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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate)
heck yes, if he WAKES UP to wake you up he totally likes you, but you might want to let your friend know that. Depending on her reaction then you might want to say something too, but LATER, i am talking 3 or 4 days. lol
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Okay I had a weird situation.... I've liked this guy for like 7 months, well I love him.... he's bisexual, but has a crush on someone else.... which dosen't really bother me much cause we're EXTREMELY close! Anyhow, there's this new guy at work...only problem is HE'S 15 and I'm 17. Everyone says I like him or whatever, but I like to hang out with him cause we're VERY ALIKE (To the point where it scares me)....so I dunno whether or not I'm crushin on him, and then at that, there's a girl I've been thinkin about more than usual...like she's cool or whatever...but I dunno if I'm lookin at her cause I've never been successfull with males or whatever...but I dunno, I dun wanna be BI, I'd rather stay straight, but my luck with guys is horrible...but this whole thinkin about her thing has just started, it's weird....I dunno. ANY ADVICE WILL HELP.... just tell me what yall think....
I dont have anything againt gay/bi/les people, but I beleive that girls and guys should go together. Maybe you are just "looking at her" because you feel like you cant be accepted by guys, but I bet you just havent found the right one. If you really feel that you like this girl, then go for it.
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think?
Be sexy. Simple as that. Giggle, bite your pencil eraser, stretch and arch your back so you are stickin your boobs out, sigh sexy, if they they tease you look 1/2 hurt and say "aww you are sooo mean", just feel sexy and be sexy and the guys will come to you, trust me...
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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?
Umm, you might want to ask him if he really means it. You probably know if you REALLY love him, but make sure it isnt just infatuation. Saying I love you is a really big thing so be sure that he means his feelings and isnt just saying it.
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