I am looking for a third month anniversary gift idea for my girlfriend. I am 15 and she is also 15. I gave her a 70 dolar necklace for our 1st month anniversary and I would appreciate the help if you could throw out some good ideas for our 3rd month. My money is limited to about 100 dollars or less. Thank you
paul
Paul
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when i sit near this guy.. i get this little fuzzy feeling in my stomach.. i really dont know what this feeling means.. thats why i need help.. i kind of like this guy too... the only problem is i have a boyfriend:(:( but i havent seen him in about four weeks and its driving me crazy..
please help me:(
*Fuzzy Feeling*
That "Fuzzy Feeling" you have in your stomach is another word for butterflies. You might have a crush on the kid. That's normal to have those type of feelings. With the boyfriend thing...maybe you have lost interest in him...and you see something else in this NEW guy! You know? Just give yourself a few times to think things through. Like try to talk to your boyfriend before you guys break up or you start talking to the guy that gives you a Fuzzy feeling. Make sure you don't regret things in the end...Best of luck!
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So theres this kid that I like. I'm 15 and hes 17. Hes leaving for college next year, but I really want a relationship with him. BUT I don't want to keep him back from his college experience and I don't want us to have to worry about eachother. (You know like...worrying about if their cheating on you) What should I do?!
*ConfuseD AbouT A GuY*
Hey! Well your still young, and age really doesn't matter but when you're still in high school it does. It seems like you know what you want...ask him what does he want? If you already have second thoughts about this...do you think it's a good idea? Honestly it depends on both of your feelings for eachother. If it's strong enough then both of you are willing to sacrafice(sp?) a lot for eachother then go for it. Long distance are hard to work out...but everythings worth a try. College is an experience that is more then high school. People party, get wasted, meet new people, and maybe bump into the love of their life.
I understand that you don't want to hold him back...but wouldn't it be great if you guys just pick it up when he returns or you meet with him. Best thing to do is talk to him. When you do end up talking...ask about what's up with you two, how will this work, do you want something to happen...just everything!
I hope I helped out a little bit, but if you need anything else feel free to stopp by again. By the way...I think it'll be better if you IM on aim!!!Best wishes with the situation...
*PhuonG*
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ok well were REALLY REALLY close and tell eachother everything but it seems like when i hint to him how I feel about him he doesn't talk to me as much the next day at skool.We have a CLOSE bond.I know I should let him do what he wants and I did but he didn't do it bc it started arguments and he cared enough about me to forget about it.Sometimes i AM scared to say things to him and I know I shouldn't be NOT at all!Ok well if u have any more advice PLEASE say...it would be soo much help...
:*:Hey:*:
The reason why your guy friend doesn't talk to the next day, after you got done hinting him, is because he's scared. He's nervous. It's like a guy is close friends with a girl because he's more relax, himself, comfortable, all sorts of things with you then his "girlfriends".
All I'm saying is wouldn't you rather have him in your life then not have him at all? If he keeps doing this, he might be like we need time apart...which is saying, your scaring me! So just take it easy, and let time fly. I know you really hate letting time take it place, because it seems forever and half. Right?
Don't stress over this. At least your still close to him. Most of the time, guys just avoid you when he gets that you like them. Stupid, but true. Another thing is, maybe he doesn't want to ruin your friendship with eachother, and going out would cause some breakage. You know? Things change when you go out and breakup.
Just be friends. GOOD relationships starts off as friends,but yours even better(Best Friends). Just let time take place. Everything will get better. I know.
Hope i helped, feel free to stop by if you have anything else. Best wishes and tell me how things go. =)
Take Care...XoxO...One Luve!
:*:Phuong:*:
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Ok theres this guy I like and we met in kindergarden but became GOOD friends in the 7th grade.But he went out with one of my best friends and then she dumped him.And now im really really starting to think i LOVE him.And he has been thinking about asking out one of my best friends.What do I do?What should I say to him?
:*:Hey:*:
Well how can you think your in LOVE with him, when you guys started being close in 7th? What makes you think it? Do you guys have that special bond? If he's thinking of asking one of your best friend out...then let him do what he likes. Your not dating...if you love him, you just let him do whatever makes him happy. That's what I did.
Since you said you guys are pretty close friends. You shouldn't be scared to tell them anything right? Well if you want him to know and date you...tell him. Tell him how you feel. Let him know. Don't come to strong because you don't wnat to scare him.
Honestly just let him know what's going on. Tell him how you feel. I know you'll probably be nervous...but EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! Just give it a try. Don't be the people that are like I wish he knows, what if we did go out...THE PEOPLE WHO WONDERS AND ASK! Just do it.
I hope I helped. Tell me how everything goes...Best wishes. If you need anything else,feel free to drop by my inbox!
Take Care...XoxO...One Luve!
-Phuong
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I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to post these type of questions on this site... but... what they heck...this is actually an english-y type question... you see, I was just wondering... there's this quote that I heard and liked the sound of, but I dont really understand it... maybe some adults in here (or some really smart teens) could explain it to me please... *batts eyelashes*?? anyway, the quote is... "All is fair in love and war" please answer... i know this is a boring question; i rate high!!!
hey! Well I heard this quote so many times "All is fair in love and war"...my teacher said something like that to us. I'm in advanced english, really no difference! But what I think the quote is trying to tell us, is that love and war is similar in some ways. but also different. Love, you get hurt(physically, and mentally), gain respect, self-esteem...so much more, and in war, you get hurt(mentally, and mostly physically), you gain respect and pride(depends if it is for the right reasons). You win some and you also lose some. In either ways you get something out of it. the outcome of the situation can be a positive or a negative outcome. But mostly you learn how to deal with it. so it's fair! This is just my opinion on this quote. but if you really do know what it is, then please tell, like what do u think it is in your own word? best wishes on finding the meaning. but it's deep down, there's really no right answer, it's just what you feel or think. Hope i helped, take care!
-Phuong
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Well i just broke up with my bf and we went out for a long time. We were still kinda close after we broke up and i was wondering if we should go back out or not.
John in Jersey
Hey *John in Jersey*. Well relationships, are bout risk taking! If you still have feelings for your "BF" then go for it. Nothing is stopping you, besides you and your mate. The thing is, do you think, both of you want the same thing? What got you guys to break up? What makes it so different from now and the past? Will things get better if you back out? Most of these questions would be going through your head time-to-time! I garenteed you on it.All i'm saying is, if you have feelings for that person, then give it another chance. Everything happens for a reason! If you respect him, trust him, care for him so much, and love/like him a lot. Then yes go for it! Still being friends or even close after a relationship is the most wonderful thing ever. You guys went out for a long time, thats really cute. Maybe you can go out even longer. Just make sure your "bf" feels the same way, so talk it out with him. ASk him does he want to give it another try, make sure he likes you respect you and TRUST you. I hope i helped you...but if u need anything else, then please feel free to stop by my inbox. Take care and BEST WISHES!!!!
-Phuong
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okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do?
Hey! Well i feel stupid sayin this, but i can relate to u!*lol* The word "Love" is thrown around these daes, ask yourself this, do i care for him this much? What does he have that the other guys don't have? why does he mean so much to me, would i die for him? the reason why i'm sayin ask yourslef these Q's so dat to see if u "Love" him! I kno u hate this, but it takes time! Everything happens for a reason...if u care for him as much as i think u do, then u'll be happy for whatever's goin on for him! Me N muh Ex. broke up, but we haven't dated anyone, but he likes one of muh best friends, which sucks major time! But i'm sayin i can't control dat, N if it makes him happy N her too, then i guess whatever floats their boat! I wish i can be in his arms again, but just try your best to be friends, don't throw yourself for a guy! Try to experiment with other guys, i did, I still think bout muh Ex. but i try to move on, it's hard! u'll get better! to summorize this long "paragraph" talk to other ppl, try new things, hang out wit your friends((that means guy friends too))*lol* I hope i helped U, if u need anything else then feel free to drop it by in my box! Tell me how things go, Best Wishes! Take care
-Phuong
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During the summer I met one of my sister's boyfriend's friend.I met him once,I went to his house with them.His name is Stevan and he would IM me and we'd talk about different things just life in gernal{{sp??}}Yeah well one day he told me he was going to his dad's house and he doesn't get on much so I should call him.Well i didn't want to becuase I never talked to him on the phone so I thought it would be weird ya know?Well I did call.And I called everynight during the summer.We'd always flirt and stuff you know the normal.I started to like him and I told him.Then he told me he likes me.Well at the end of summer we kinda stopped talking but he's still the only guy I think about.Well I went to his house on Sat.He had his arm around me and stuff and was holding me tight.Well we kissed.And then it lead to making out.And when everyone was out of the room he kinda not fully but a lil on top of me and we made out.Well he hasn't asked me out. =-/ so what should I wait for him to ask me out{{which makes me crazy and I cry everyday....}}..Idk what to do....sorry it's long but it's my life.I'm 13 and female.
Hey! Its ok, therre's a lot of long stories!This guy dat u like, seems to like u too! i mean why would someone want to make-out wit someone they don't have any feelings for? u kno? I wouldn't N i don't think u would either*lol*No ur not kidding urself. Most ppl think dat da opposite sex never or ever will like them!which is usually wrong. It seems like he's dropping hints! Hands around u...TIGHT, N Kissing u, N talking to u bout life N wutnot! It seems like ur "friendship" is good! So why not go for it! Da guy might be as scared as u are! Ask him out! I agree wit da one gurl...it's da 21st century, N anything is possilbe! Talk to him, tell him how u feel in this situation! don't be scared! Express ur feelings. I would talk face-to-face, cuz then u can read therre expressions better, instead of their voice!u kno? i think u guys might have a good chance of dating, but if goin out, doesn't work, u still have friendship! I think still having him in ur life is better then not having him @ all!Right? well lets keep in touch N tell me how it goes....I hope i helped u a bit...Take care N GOOD LUCK!!!!
-Phuong
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my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
qtpie101
*Qtpie101*
Hey! Well if u "think" u want to go back wit him, then ur not so sure! u still have doubts N stuff, right? Well if u think he cares so much bout looks then why do u like? Ask yourself this...do i want to be in a relationship like this? does he care for me like how i care for him? is this guy worth my time? are we better being friends? Why do i like him? I'm sorry to hear bout ur foot, hope u get better, but like u can alwayz lose weight! so don't worry, but yea juss talk it out wit him, tell him wut u think bout this thing, N if it's meant to be it'll happen! Don't rush into anything u ain't ready for aiight? Well communicate wit da guy! i Hoped i helped, if u need anything else fell free to stop by muh inbox!!! tell me how things go, Good luck, take care.
-Phuong
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Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila
*Kaila*
Hey! My friend went thru this, her N her boifirned has been goin out for almost a year or suttin now, i kno it's more than 6 months*lol* well it's not wrong dat u think this, ur juss stating the obvious! It won't be hard, because if he feels da same way, N u guys trust eachother fully, then therre's nuttin to be worried bout! U guys can still flirt, therre's nuttin wrong wit dat, but don't get to touchy touchy, u kno?Yes therre are alwayz ways to make things work! don't give up, ppl nowadaes be givin up to damn easy! People who has hope N beliefs, get thru a lot! i have!*lol* my xperience wuz bout muh Ex. i have hope! Well for u tryin to make it last, talk on the fone like almost everydae, cuz hike skewl would be busy N maybe middle but i doubt dat*lol*, well if u boi does sports, then go to them, u kno? on weekends hang with eachotha! dat's wut muh friends did! They talked on the fone like everydae, N they hang out like all the time when they can! my friend be goin to her boi's football games! N bball games N stuff like dat! try to talk it out, ask his friends to help two "love birds" hang out! if things are meant to be then let it happen!U kno? Hope i helped, if u need anything else, feel free to stopp by da inbox! tell me how things go! GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong
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Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed
*Confused N Depressed*
Hey! Well...u guys went out once right? Then became really good friends? I think U being someone dat he can turn to N talk to bout everything N anything, is a plus! "Bob" is prolly ur first "LOVE"! Since he kinda know's how u feel, juss confront him N tell him everything,how much u liked him, how much u want him back, so on N so forth! Then u can ask him if he wants to give it another try! Being "jealous" is normal, don't worry!I kno wut ur goin thru! I think i'm still goin thru it, unfortunately!*lol* are u sayin, like when he wuz gone, ur starting to lose interest in him, but when he returned from his trip, u guys communicating again, got ur interest back? It's like whatever happens u'll alwayz have feelings for him, N u'll alwayz open ur arms out for when he comes bak!right? That's normal too.I'm sayin u should let things take place, if it's meant to be then it'll happen! Trust me.i think this is u" Whatever makes him happy, makes me happy." right? WEll i did the same thing for this one guy, let him open up to u, be therre when he needs sumone....let him rely on u, let him kno he can trust u! do u get wut i'm sayin? During ur time "apart" ((not going out)) try talkin to otha guys too! Give them otha "studs" a chance! I kno they won't be da same as "Bob" but u need to see wut else is out therre! u kno? Trust me on this! I've learned from xperience, N still goin thru it! I hope i helped, tell me how it goes! if u need anything else, stopp by muh inbox! GOOD LUCK.Take care
-Phuong
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i like my friend mike ((agen))... i liked him most of the school year n then "stopped" for a while... n i definatly think he's been flirting with me kinda but like i unnno. n i rele rele like him agen. i dont know if i ever stopped. like seriosuly ill eb sitting around doing nutitn n all fo a sudden he'll pop in my head.... its really weird. but i dont know what to do about it cuz he doesnt think i like him ne more n i dunno if he like me or not ((prolly not but lol)) and then my friend anna also likes him too n ... blah i unno what to do... if i shoudl tel him or what cuz we are friends but i wish it were more PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE
Hey! Sorry, i'm not tryin to be mean, u might get this from otha ppl too, but try to write clearer, i can barely understand wut da words even mean*lol* I don't get wut u mean, bout u liked him N stopped, its either u have or u don't! u kno?U should talk to him! Get things out in da open! tell him how u feel, tell him how much u like him, N wuteva u want! I think he might like u! trust me! Well how good of a friend are u wit Anna! Confront both of them! It seems like he's losin interest in u! well get him back! N tell him wut u pratically told me!Be like "[his name] I liked most of the school years! U mean so much to me...." N tell him how u feel, tell him dat u want to be more than juss friends! but don't scare him off! Like if u come on too fast, it can scare da guys! *lol* Talk it out, be his friend, N don't rush into things! aiight? if u need any more, then stopp by muh inbox! I hope i helped! tell me how things go!GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong
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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!!
Hey! Well i think u should juss talk it out wit yo gurl! Ask her, well do u like me a lot? do u have any feelings for otha guys? I bet she might be questioning u on why u askin these questions then tell her why! tell her how u feel in this situation! But don't be shallow N start sayin shit bout one of yo bois! u kno wut i mean? She went wit u for a reason! So juss confront her! i hope things work out, tell me how it goes! Hope i helped! GOOD LUCK! if u need anything else please stopp by muh inbox! Take care
-Phuong
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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx
Hey! Congrats bout da 2 years! That's really sweet, cuz not a lot of ppl can stay together! Well if it's for education, u have to support him! Boyfriend or not, right?Well takl to eachother how things will work! Don't really break up, cuz this is a stupid reason to! u kno? But still talk to eachother, N have study dates! Ur growin up now, N try to sit your mom or dad or maybe both down N tell them dat ur responsible, n stuff like dat,tell them dat ur gettin older,juss tell them how u feel! Hope i helped, N tell me how things go! GOOD LUCK! take care
-Phuong
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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????
Hey! Well for starters Tell him! If he hears it from someone else, ur fuqed! N ten rumors will start, which will sux! so juss confront him with it!If ur losing interest wit da guy, then why do u wanna stay wit him? I say communicate! dat's da best, N juss tell him how u feel! Be honest! But be kind too, cuz he might have really strong feelings for u! u kno? well i hope things work out, N tell me how things go! I hope i helped! need anything else stop by my inbox!GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong
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im 12 nd ill be 13 on sept 5th nd im goin into 8th grade nd i kno im kinda young to say im " in love " but wen i was in 7th grade the 1st day of school i saw this kid dylan nd omg i went crazee nd couldnt stop tlkin bout him nd i kept tellin my friend that id never get him to look at me or even talk to me nd then we got called in r teams nd i swore i hurd my friends last name called nd i was like oh theres ur team nd then wen i was goin in my team it turns out she was in my class nd i thought i hurd her name b4 nd i was like whoops lol nd wen she got to my class nd i was like omgg im soo srii nd she sed ull be happy wen i tell u this .. nd she sed that dylan was talkin to my other friend frank nd sayin how hott i was nd i was like sooooo happy nd i couldnt breathe nd then soon enuff tha day b4 my bday he asked me out nd then we started goin out nd then i hurd one stupid rumor bout sumthenn he sed to me nd i believed it nd dumped him nd then we were still close nd then we went out again for a 2nd time nd then i got confused nd dumped him again nd then we were close again but then he gotta nother gf nd we didnt talk for a while nd then i realized wutta mistake i made nd how much i relii relii like him nd then he started sayin mean shytt bout me nd then after a while we became close again but he kept gettin new gfs nd now he has this gf hes had since like may nd i even tho i broke up wit him twice i still liked him nd havnt stopped ever since i saw him nd we talk on the fone a lot nd he tells me he still loves me nd tells me he always will but im juss soo depressed tha onli time i was happy was wen i was with him nd i want one more chance to prove how much i care for him nd i dunno wut to do .. his gf is from a diff town nd shes in a grade higher than him nd shes movin to our town now nd she needs to learn the school system so shes gonna be in r skool = \ nd i mean shes nicee but she has the one thing i love nd kare for nd ive never liked sumone for soo long in my like its almost a year! nd i relii want him back nd it helps that i kno he says he still loves me but .. wut do i do?!?!? plzz help
- sadd = (
*Sad*
Hey! Well, i kno how it is! it seems like u really don't kno how to live witout him, u've been wit him so much u don't kno how it is to be away! right? well hang wit otha friends to get ur mind off of him, give otha guys chances too! I've been in this, N still am! but u gotta move on, since he is! Everything happens for a reason, but u juss don't kno wut da reason is...right? well let things take place, if it's meant to be it will!If he still cares for u N "loves" u, then therre might be a chance for two of u guys! but juss chill, don't rush into anything cuz it usually turns into a disaster, TRUST ME! I kno! Be his friend, be a person he can rely on...Juss be therre when he needs someone! then he'll come back, but really u dumped him!TWICE! come on now...! Well talk to the guy! ask him how he feels bout u, N his gurlfriend! then tell him how u feel! juss be a friend first! cuz relationship starts off being friends, then they end up hookin up N stuff, so yea! I hoped i helped, but if u need anything else stopp by muh inbox! Good luck! Take care
-Phuong
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When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?
Hey! Well when ur lookin for a boifriend, u must be attracted to him, dat's one, then u look at their personalities, as in good sense of humor, outgoing, nice, honest, trustworthy, cool, comfortable, wuteva fits u best! But u have to be comfortable around him, u must be urself N not change yourself for a guy! then dat's good guy! cuz the guy would be your buddy N then maybe even more! But he must have respect for u too! Therre's more, but dat's like da basics!*lol* Hope i helped, if u have anymore questions, dropp it by my inbox! Take care
-Phuong
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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?
Hey! Yes it is ok to ask a guy out! It takes so much pressure of da bois! They might be shocked or wuteva but it's normal! Hope i helped, if u need any more, then drop it by my inbox! Take care
-Phuong
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Okay, its me again but this question is a bit different then the rest...Okay my boyfriend of 4 years thinks that he's a bad boyfriend cause he has a tendency to like check and see who calls my cell phone and everything and I told him that i feel like he has to check on me and like he don't trust me cause he'll ask me about a number if there isn't a name with it and all and i mean I either dont know who it is or its one of the girls on my dance team but I told him how i felt and now he feels like a bad boyfriend when he really isn't he's the best in the world and I tell him that all the time but is there anyways that I can show him that he's not besides just telling him i would highly appreciate this if you could give me some ideas cause i love him with all my heart and i dont want him feeling this way.Thanks a bunch...
-Cass-
*Cass*
Hey! well your boifriend seems to love u too! But the trusting needs a lil improvement? why does he feel this way?Have u done anything to make him do this? I'm not tryin to point fingers at you, sorry.Tell him how u feel! well for him to think this "bad boifriend" thing! everytime he says it, tell him to come to u, N u hug him give him a kiss! or when he does suttin sweet or nice to u, then give him a kiss N tell him how much u appreciate it!U seem to care so much1 dat's so awesome! Well trust is one of da key to a good relationship! remember dat!tell him how much u care for him, tell him how much u like/love him,care for him, trust him, respect him! all of this will make him realize "oh, she feels this way for me, i should do it too" u kno wut i mean?well if u need anymore dropp by my inbox! Hope i helped! Good luck, take care
-Phuong
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