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im 12 nd ill be 13 on sept 5th nd im goin into 8th grade nd i kno im kinda young to say im " in love " but wen i was in 7th grade the 1st day of school i saw this kid dylan nd omg i went crazee nd couldnt stop tlkin bout him nd i kept tellin my friend that id never get him to look at me or even talk to me nd then we got called in r teams nd i swore i hurd my friends last name called nd i was like oh theres ur team nd then wen i was goin in my team it turns out she was in my class nd i thought i hurd her name b4 nd i was like whoops lol nd wen she got to my class nd i was like omgg im soo srii nd she sed ull be happy wen i tell u this .. nd she sed that dylan was talkin to my other friend frank nd sayin how hott i was nd i was like sooooo happy nd i couldnt breathe nd then soon enuff tha day b4 my bday he asked me out nd then we started goin out nd then i hurd one stupid rumor bout sumthenn he sed to me nd i believed it nd dumped him nd then we were still close nd then we went out again for a 2nd time nd then i got confused nd dumped him again nd then we were close again but then he gotta nother gf nd we didnt talk for a while nd then i realized wutta mistake i made nd how much i relii relii like him nd then he started sayin mean shytt bout me nd then after a while we became close again but he kept gettin new gfs nd now he has this gf hes had since like may nd i even tho i broke up wit him twice i still liked him nd havnt stopped ever since i saw him nd we talk on the fone a lot nd he tells me he still loves me nd tells me he always will but im juss soo depressed tha onli time i was happy was wen i was with him nd i want one more chance to prove how much i care for him nd i dunno wut to do .. his gf is from a diff town nd shes in a grade higher than him nd shes movin to our town now nd she needs to learn the school system so shes gonna be in r skool = \ nd i mean shes nicee but she has the one thing i love nd kare for nd ive never liked sumone for soo long in my like its almost a year! nd i relii want him back nd it helps that i kno he says he still loves me but .. wut do i do?!?!? plzz help
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i dont think its crazi to say yooh love someone .. i kno sorta how yooh feel i fond someone who i love to death nd would do anythin to get bac .. i told him i liked him if ound he like me a week later we were goin out nd wen i was with him i was so happy nd i couldnt think of anythin or talk bout anythin but him .. then i heard a terrible rumor nd of course beleived it nd i broke up wit him .. sorta long story .. but yea i still talk to him nd he tells me he loves me nnd misses me nd all this stuf that i wana believe nd i do sorta but .. nd i dont wana sound mean or w.e but yooh have to kno wen to let go cause it took me a long time to realize it .. i odnt want to i want him bac but i have te realize im goin to 9 grade nd even though its hard to realize nd face your young nd theres goin to be plenty of other boys in your life .. mayb not as special but if its meant to be it will happen .. try bein wit other boys to try to get your mind off it .. if yooh need to talk to anyoe bout this im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hope i helped some nd if yooh need help im here to talk to ..
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um well its kinda your fault hun. you dumped him twice and he just said screw you and moved on. Thats what your gunna have to do. And from now on if i were you i wouldnt go out with anyone unless your not confused and you know that you REALLY like him. You've had a 2nd chance to get your act together and make it better, and u turned it down. sORrY! thats how life is now a days. -aMaNdA<3*
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Hey! Well, i kno how it is! it seems like u really don't kno how to live witout him, u've been wit him so much u don't kno how it is to be away! right? well hang wit otha friends to get ur mind off of him, give otha guys chances too! I've been in this, N still am! but u gotta move on, since he is! Everything happens for a reason, but u juss don't kno wut da reason is...right? well let things take place, if it's meant to be it will!If he still cares for u N "loves" u, then therre might be a chance for two of u guys! but juss chill, don't rush into anything cuz it usually turns into a disaster, TRUST ME! I kno! Be his friend, be a person he can rely on...Juss be therre when he needs someone! then he'll come back, but really u dumped him!TWICE! come on now...! Well talk to the guy! ask him how he feels bout u, N his gurlfriend! then tell him how u feel! juss be a friend first! cuz relationship starts off being friends, then they end up hookin up N stuff, so yea! I hoped i helped, but if u need anything else stopp by muh inbox! Good luck! Take care
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Well just take some time apart from him and see how you feel after that, If you still like him a lot then just tell him that, and then tell him that you just want one more chance to prove how much you "love" him..Good Luck!
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You say you are in love with this guy, but you've broken up with him twice. Given what you've said about your personal history together, it sounds like it might be a case of the classic 'grass is greener' scenario - when you're together you realise things aren't that great, hence you break up, but when you're apart you forget all that and want him back. This is a perfectly natural and common emotion when you get into on/off relationships with people. I think, honestly, the best thing you can do is have some time on your own. If in a while you still have strong feelings for him, then you can reconsider any decide to talk to him about your feelings - but rushing in now will probably only lead to hurt, especially as he already has a girlfriend.
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