okay well theres this guy at school. he really really likes me and i dont know what too do. i mean hes really nice and all but not too be shallow but hes not all that attractive. i would date him because hes such a nice guy but when i think about doing anything with him. like sexual stuff. i completely get turned off but its not like that with other guys. what should i do? whats going on?
well try jst going on a few innocent dates. ask him what his intentions are. it may turn out that he doesnt want to do anything sexual with you. then everything will be fine, right? but if he says that he wants to get in your pants, let him know that that is just NOT going to happen.. see how he reacts. if says thats fine, i respect that, then he a keeper. but if he says oh come show me how much you really like me, then kick him to the curb
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okay this might be long
this kid that i like wants to hang out. like jsut us. and he wants to watch a movie or something. and he like, likes to do a lot of stuff and i'm not used to all that and i think it would we awkward like hanging out with him and all that. so how could i make this unawkward and kinda sense to him that i only wanna like makeout and do nothing other than that? like besides saying it. please help! like i really wanna go out with him but i dont wanna do a lot until we have been going out!
well if he starts to do something he doesnt want you to do, then just be like "oh wow im really thirsty, can i have some water?" then while he's gone move to a chair or something to where he cant sit with you.. maybe he'll get the message that you dont want to go any further
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i've been with this girl for 2 months and at first everything was fine but when it started to get to the 2nd month we quit spending time together and everything we quit going places together and quit having sex and all kinds of stuff and i want to know what to do
you should definately say something to her. dont confront her hostily, just say something like "you know, im really bummed because we dont hang out anymore. do you think we could fix that?" dont make it an uncomfortable situation, just be nice about it, you dont want her to put up her defenses. hope i helped
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So I like this boy Robert right? Well, how do I find out if he likes me, without me having to ask? He's a sophmore, and I'm a freshman, and he's on my dad's wrestling team, but he's injured, so I talk to him a lot. And I don't know..I just like him a whole lot, and I don't know what to look for to find out if he likes me?!?!
-Cupid's Challange
why dont you try asking him.. that seems like a logical solution, doesnt it?
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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)
i think maybe the reality of his breakup hit him and he BECAME upset.. he might not have been upset before, but maybe he is now.. Just give him some time and space and everything will work itself out.
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Can a person be in love in 8th grade? Or is it just bogus? I do believe I'm in love and I wondering if it really is love. All of my friends alkways say I'm in love with this boy and I have been for a while. Thanks!
i think maybe infatuation is the word we need to use here, but hey.. if you think you love this guy, whos has the right to tell you otherwise?? so yeah i guess you can be in love in 8th grade.. well hun good luck to ya ♥ stefnie
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are there any ways to enjoy making out with braces? or is it too difficult and bloody?
dont make out with someone who has braces also.. you'll get stuck together!! but no.. making out with braces isnt bloody.. it just might be a little uncomfortable for the other person, depending on how sensitive their mouth is. just try it out and then ask them if they're cool with it or they wanna wait the 2 years before you get them off.. jeez that would suck...
anyways..good luck to ya ~*stefnie
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13/f
Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
maybe you should say what you just said in your question to some guy. just go up to him and say "why cant you see how nice of a person i am?? why are you so damn superficial!?!?!?! cant you focus on something more than a girls looks?!?!?!??!?!?!?" and maybe you should CRY.. that would be the icing on the cake, it would. then they will know that you mean business, that you really want to be known as the "nice girl".
oh, and kudos to you for wanting to wait on having a boyfriend.. way to take the Road Less Traveled. good luck to ya ~*stefnie
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance?
if you think that he still likes you, then i say go for it. its never too late for a realtionship to start. just tell him that you would like to give the dating thing a try, even though you said no before. tell him that you have really started to like him. he'll understand, and if he DOES like you, then yay for you. hope this helps. good luck ~*stef
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Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you.
it might be best for you to end things. long distance relationships arent very fair. lets say you meet someone one day and you get a crush on him.. you'll feel guilty because you know that your boyfriend is somewhere else thinking of you, but they might actually be thinking of some girl they met also.. so you see, they arent fair. youre young, youre supposed to meet new people. how can you meet n mingle with others when you have 'roots' with someone whos not even there? think this one thru a bit...
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I need a little advice here. The guy I like seems to always be too busy. I try to talk to him as much as i can, but I'm not sure if i get the point across that I like him. I have a suspision that he likes me back, but the one time I asked him if he liked me online, he wouldn't answer because he said we had to talk in person. Is this a good thing? And how do I tell him that I like him? Am i supposed to wait for him to make the first move?
Thanks to you if you answer..
if you wait for him to make this first move, you'll be waiting around forever. When you talk to him face to face, just be like "look man, i totally dig you." ok, so you could be a little more romantic or somethin, but you catch my drift. the only thing you can do is just be honest with him. ~*stef
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my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does.
if you love him so much, then get him some help. sign him up for a program or something. hey, thatd be a great christmas gift.. "sweetie, for christmas, im sending you to rehab" well, good luck sweetie ~*stefanie
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What's the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone to you guys? I'd appreciate some of your opinions.
JyNxiE
well JyNxiE.. loving someone is completely different from being IN love with someone. Like, I could say "I love you JyNxiE".. that just means that I care about you. But being IN love with someone.. that means a lot more than you just care about them. You feel like you cant live without them, your heart stops when they smile at you, you wanna cry whenever they have to leave, you think its extremely adorable when he threatens the person that is taking you home from school, saying that if she wrecks, he's gonna kill her.. oops, that was a little off subject. anyways, i hope i helped put it into perspective for you. you know im always here to talk!
~*stefanie (UWishUHadMyHemi)
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is it wierd to like someone whos like ure absolute best friend
not at all
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him???
turn punk for him..its totally worth it. punk is soo much better than prep. I think you should stick with him. who cares what other people think about you? damn.. this world is WAYY too superficial... ~*stefanie
Punk guys have all the fun, and Punk girls do it better (lol..that was courtesy of my cousin Mandy..she thought she needed to put her 2 cents in)
hope we helped!
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I have a secret admirer ( but my best friend knows who it is). What kind of thing can i have my friend say to this dude from me to let me know who he is? Any ideas? I REALLY want to know who he is, i dont want any dumb answers. Thanks!
"Friend, tell my secret admirer to grow some balls and come clean. He is not making a good impression if I dont even know who he is. Tell him that if he doesnt reveal himself, then I dont think he's that great of a guy and I might not ever consider going out with him."
That should do it.. and if it doesnt.. well, then, um.. WHOOPASS should come in handy..
hope i helped. have a marvelous day!
~*stefanie
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people keep telling my crush that we ((him and i)) should go out! he use to talk to me so much and now i feel like we don't talk as much as we use to! he is giving me mixed signals! what should i do?
he liked talking to you when there was no strings attached. guys are sooo afraid of being tied down. now that he knows you really like him, he's a chicken. he doesnt wanna talk to you bc he's afraid you might wanna become more than *Just Friends* sorry.. but he's just being a pansy. hope i helped. have a magical day. ~*stefanie
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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?
music works wonders.. play some kind of romantic song next time you guys are together. and if you have a good voice, it wouldnt hurt to sing along so she knows that you are directing the lyrics to her. Here are some good songs to use:
Two from the Rolling Stones: Beast of Burden and Miss You..
Angel by Aerosmith
I'd die for you by Bon Jovi
Dont wanna miss a thing by Aerosmith
High Enough from Damn Yankees
Theres three good ones from Van Halen:
(Oh) Pretty Woman(this is a good song for anytime.. the guitar part in the beginning is awesome!!)
Cant Stop Loving You
When It's Love
Ever Needed Someone so Bad by Def Leppard
Desperado by The Eagles
well, i think thats enough to get your point across about how highly you think of her... good luck
~*stefanie
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okay so yea my andmyboyfriend are goin to exchage christmas presents this year but i have no idea wut to get him. im thinkin about like taking him to the mall and hint him on to wut i want.. lol but everytime i ask him wut he wants hes just like "baby your everything i ever want" or like he says "well i have eerything i want" and stuff like that but i really wanna gt him a present and i knoe he wants somthing lol but he is just shy to say wut he wants so please help he is a 14 yearold guy plays football,basketball, wrestling, and track. but dont tell me to get him a football or any other sports equipment. i wanna get him sumthing that will be really sweet.
usually id be a smartass and tell you to get him a pet rock, but you sound really desperate, so'll i'll give you an answer i put some thought to..
CHIA PET!!!!
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I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please
screw your parents.. ya know, its not that hard to climb out of a window...
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