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okay this might be long
this kid that i like wants to hang out. like jsut us. and he wants to watch a movie or something. and he like, likes to do a lot of stuff and i'm not used to all that and i think it would we awkward like hanging out with him and all that. so how could i make this unawkward and kinda sense to him that i only wanna like makeout and do nothing other than that? like besides saying it. please help! like i really wanna go out with him but i dont wanna do a lot until we have been going out!
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well if he starts to do something he doesnt want you to do, then just be like "oh wow im really thirsty, can i have some water?" then while he's gone move to a chair or something to where he cant sit with you.. maybe he'll get the message that you dont want to go any further
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The best thing is to do is to go to the movie theater. There most people dont go farther than making out so you would be safe there. If people do have sex in the movie theater thats a little weird. I think that if he is trying to go farther than you want you need to stop him but i am pretty sure that if you are in the movie theater you wont have anything to worry about.
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If you only want to make out, then there's only two ways to tell him.
1. You tell him ahead of time, yall hang out, yall make out, you hope he plays by the rules.
2. You don't tell him and yall hang out, he tries to do something you don't want him to, he might not listen, you have to yell at him to stop, it's awkward, things screech to a halt and you probably don't hang out much after that.
I'd say just tell him. If the guy's worth a damn, he'll listen and respect your wishes, if he's not, then you shouldn't wanna be with him anyway.
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