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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them . That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.

~***HAnnah***~

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I really like this guy and we dated befor and are good friends now. Well i also dated his brother a few years ago too and he just came back to my school and I've been talking to him a lot and all the feelings are coming back but i don't think he likes me. Meanwhile he also dated my best friend for a long time, well she still has feelings for him but she doesn't talk to him. She knows how i feel about him and she doesn't care but i dont know if i should tell him or play it out or what. And i'm not sure if id want to date him because of my best friend and i still have a lot of feelings for his brother. wat should i do?

Hey this is hannah!

i think that you should tell him how you feel. but if your best friend likes him than you shouldnt act on it because she has feelings for him and it could hurt her. also, if u really like his brother than maybe u shouldnt focus so much on the guy you like now. find out if the brother likes you the same way you like him. If he does than go for and ask him out. You've been crushin on this guy forever and its about time you do something about it! lol

No one can tell you what to do but i hope i helped you out!

Love ya,
~*~*Hannah~*~*

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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

Yes! It could help rebulid bulidings and homes or given to families that need it. It could help out a lot. If your mom doesnt feel like it is enough than maybe she can go on the net and see some ways of helping with the tsunami diaster. I think that sending money is a good way of helping. I hope I helped!


~***Hannah***~

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hey this is for guys mostly but if girls want to answer ok. so anyways im going out with this guy we have been dating for 2 weeks and i really need 2 buy him a christmas gift but he wont tell me what he wants. guys when u say that what does it mean. and any gift ideas would be soooo great. thanks.

My friend is dating this guy for 3 weeks and she had a little trouble picking out a gift also. Get him something that he is interested in. For example, if he likes sports then you could buy him a jersey of his favorite team and/or favorite player. Or you could buy him a CD of his favorite band. My friends boyfriend is a redndeck lol and she bought him a redneck t-shirt. lol it is supposed to be a joke, i think. Even though youve only be dating for 2 weeks you should have an idea of what he likes. Find something youll think hell enjoy! I hope I helped!


~***Hannah***~

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Hey Hannah... since you're one of my best friends.. i'll ask you too. but please dont mention this to anyone else!!!
okay theres this really hott guy that i like. It's my BEST FRIENDS BROTHER!! he knows i like him alot! i was with him Saturday night and Sunday night. i stayed at his house with his sister. bUT ANYWAYS.... okay.. my friend and her boyfriend were wrestling.. me and (lets call him Skipperdy) well me and skipperdy were wrestling and having all kinds of fun. He'd like lay on me, out his arms around me.. breath on my neck(i thought i was gonna get a hicky) but anyways i didnt. It was really dark in the room. Anything that made light... it was covered. We tickled eachother and we got really close to kissing but didnt. I was like OMG!!! WOW!!! i mean words cant even explain how i was feeling. Then his hands were on my hips and were moving down slowly.. i didnt care.. later he grabbed me.. didnt care.. only becuase we were having so much fun. we were watchign movies together with our friends and things like that. It was the most fun i have ever had with a guy. And he ws the only one (guy) that ever touched me that much. I was so happy to be in his arms. i liked him once before for a while. We held hands alot the alst time.This time he always lays beside me... he lays sideways on his hip and curls his knees under me then i lay on my back and put my legs over his... then he put his hand on my stomach and alittle up my shirt. i thought he was gonna do "something" but then started tickling me again.This happened all night. As u can see i had a lot of FUN!!! It was the best night i have ever had!!
My question is... how do i know if he likes me? i really like him and his sister told him that i do. i didnt care if he knew. I think we're all doing something this weekend too after we get done working. Should i talk to him about it or just ignore it and have MORE fun than saturday night?
Should i talk to him about it or what? i sat with him again at lunch today and i might stay at his house again tonight. and i'll be there this saturday night too. i was supposed to stay last night but i didnt. What should i do?

Talk to "Skipperdy" and ask him if he likes you back. From above ^, it seems to me that he likes you. But im not completly sure. Anyway, go over and hang out with him and have TONS of fun! Hang out with him a lot and you might be able to tell if he likes you or not. You guys would make such a cute couple! GOOD LUCK!! Love ya! I hope I helped!


~***Hannah***~

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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...

Christine

hey kels

talk to him and tell him you dont like him anymore. I think if you ignore him it would hurt him worse than telling him the truth. No one wants a controlling guy so tell him what he is doing. he might change...he might not. also, goody is better i think LOL!! so talk to him, tell him that you dont like him and that you want him to leave you alone. It might suck at first but he'll understande eventually. I hope I helped!!

~***HAnnAH***~

P.S I only think you and him should go out if you want to...i want you to be happy and he is clearly acting like a dickhead right now. LOVE YA!

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im 15 and f ... there is this guy that was "really hott" and i had a big crush on him but finally i got over him because i realized that we are two totally different types of people, he does drugs sometimes and im one of the most innocent girls ever. But now a few months later we've been talking more just as friends and he's telling me he likes me and i dont know what to do because i do still like him but i dont know if its such a good idea we go out. please help im very confused.

You shouldnt date him if he is totally different than you. Like you said, he does drugs. Unless you feel comfortable around him while he does drugs (most likely if you date he will do drugs around you) then don't date him. I think you should think if he is the kind of guy that you like for a relationship. If not, let him down easy. I'm sure he'll understand. I hope I helped!


~***Hannah***~

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I've never really been shy around guys but theres one that i like now but and really shy towards. he nos i like him but i just got my heart broke so could that be why im afrid to talk to him?

Yeah, it could be. You might be afraid of getting hurt again or something. All i can say is get to know him and become friends with him. It can help you feel more comfortablr around him and you will be able to be yourdelf around him and not be so shy. I am really shy around guys until i get to know them and become friends with them. Then i feel that i can ber myself around them. Maybe once you know him you will know he is the type of guy who will break your heart or not. I hope I helped!

~***HAnnah***~

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im going out with this guy that goes to a different school. i see him only about twice a month and i dont think our relationship will last. is there anything i can do to see him more often because i really really like him.

thanx.

Try and get together with him on the weekends. Maybe when you have breaks from school you can see eachother. Talk to him on the phone alot so you can still be in contact with him and maybe IM him also. But just try and get together with him as much as you can. I hope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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how hard is to get pregnate at the age of 37? ia there any helpful method to make pregnancy happen? my husband and I want to have a baby and we are afraid because , as i said, I am 37 and he is 41. Thanks, ceci

My aunt recently had a baby six months ago. She was 37, turning 38 in March. All i can say is keep trying. My aunt had a few miscarriages before she gave birth. I'm going to be serious...it might not be easy. She had problems during her pregnancy. It might not go perfectly...i think she had problems because of her age but im not 100% sure. If you want, you could always adopt. Ihope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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when it comes to asking ppl out...am i wrong to think that guys should ask the grls out? be serious plz..

Girls can ask guys out. It's the 21st century! If you want to ask a guy out then ask him out. The guy might not ask, guys are weird like that LOL. I hope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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Okay heres my story...
I like this guy. Lets call him Jon. He likes me as well... We only knew eachother for like maybe 2 weeks at the most but i sat with him at that table everyday at lunch and in the morning b4 classes start. Anyways.... Last friday we went on a double date with my friend and his friend... Well both of our friends...
Besides the point. We had a great time. At first we went to dinner then played pool for a while then we were supposed to go to a movie but we didnt so we went bowling instead. Well that was alot of fun. Everyday we smile at eachother and talk sometimes but i never know what to talk about around him. What do i talk about? Then when the techers get back from tech (he's one) i always leave homeroom 10 minutes early to see him. I know it's sweet to some people but is it right for me to do that? Im seriously inlove with this guy!! This weekend he's supposed to come over to my house Saturday night so i can see him b4 i go to Punxitauwnii, Clearfield to go hunting for 2 days. So i wont be able to see him Sunday or Monday. Im skippin school.
What should i do with him? Should i make a move or wait for him? I know i need to talk to him more.. Becuase everyday he talks to this girl (i think her name is Jessica) and says like how much he likes me and stuff like that. I mean hes really sweeeetttt!!!! But he also says that i need to talk to him more. I know things about him but not that much. And i reallly want to get to know him more.
Could something happen Saturday night?
What do i talk to him about?

Please give me advice... I'll try anything!! lol

Im seriouslt Happy but Dont know what to do!!!
CEC

hey kels, (i hope this is u! lol)

hun, Jon obviously likes you too or else he wouldnt have went on a date with you and your friends. Does he know you like him? If so, then flirt with him! LOL if he doesnt know, then flirt with him! LOL Ask him what he likes and dislikes...basically get to know him. You dont have to have an indepth conversation with him until you feel comfortable enough to have long conversations. Girl, guys can be dumb! LOL He might not get that you want him to make the first move. If u want or when you are comfortable, make the first move! let him know you like him. Get to know him better also. Talk to him!!!! You aren't going to know him if youy are always quiet around him. Trust me, I know how are it is to talk to someone you like when you are always nervous around them. Write him notes if you dont like talking. Hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you and Jon!

~***Hannah***~

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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering

If you kiss, have sex, or do anything than is more than friendly behavior. I hope I helped.

~***Hannah***~

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Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...

It depends. If him being a pot-head doesnt bother you then give him a chance. But if you can't get past the idea of him doing pot than forget him. I know one of my friends who is dating a guy who does drugs. The guy is nice and she dont mind that he does drugs. if you like him then give him a chance. If you dont like dating him b/c he does drugs then forget him. But at least give him a chance before you turn him down. I hope I helped!

~***HannaH***~

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I really like this guy. I just figured out that I have really liked him for a long time. See, he used to like me last year and the year before, and the whole time I liked him too, but I was sort of in denile because let's just say that he's not the most popular. A lot of people think that he likes me too, but I'm not sure because he flirts with a lot of girls. Today I was at a party and he was there, so I was kind of flirting with him. I really wanted to know who he likes, so I told my friend, Leah to tell him that she knows who I like. She said that to him, and he asked who but she didn't tell him because she's a really good friend. Later, he came up to ME and asked who I like. I didn't tell him because he's one of those people who would tell everybody that I like him if he doesn't like me. He said, "I'll tell you who I like, but you gotta tell me who you like right after". I said OK and he came over to me and whispered in my ear, "I like Jillian." The problem is, my name isn't Jillian. Everyone knew he was lying, but i dont know if he likes me or some1 else! The worst part is, in like a month he is moving out of this country, and I was thinking about telling him that I like him on his last day at school, but I dunno. HELP PLZ! sry i know its long

Don't wait until the last day to tell him how you feel. He might feel the same way about you and you could have a great last month together.Come out and tell him how u feel. Dont be so scared or nervous! If he doesn't feel the same way, dont worry about it. There are plenty of other guys out there for you! I hope i helped!

~***HannaH***~

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Okay, so i was going out with this boy for a 2 months. i loved him so much and i still do! but my friends were really mean to him and stuff and so i dumped him because i thought it would just be better for him and everyone else since they like hated him. but then i found out that they didn't really hate him they just like him. But i dumped him before that and then he got really mad at me. Was it right to dump him in the first place? sorry this is long and i hope that made sense!

No, You really liked him and it shouldnt matter what other people think about him or the relationship. If you still love him then tell him why you broke up and see if he understands. He is going to be mad. But if he loves you then he will understand. Tell your friends that you dont want them bad-mouthing people you like or anyone for that matter! I hope I helped!


~***Hannah***~

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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss

Just casually start a convo with him. Be like, "Hey Chris. Whats up?" Don't ask him a ton of questions. Talk to him in class and when you are on the bus. Get to know him and see if he is your type. Become friends with him and then see if he is a guy you could date. WHen you feel comfortable enough, ask him to hang out sometime. I hope I helped!!!

~***Hannah***~

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ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.

but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.

thnx

Start flirting with her and see how she responds. Do something really sweet for her to show her you care about her. You should tell her how you feel about her. If she likes you back then you should show her that you want to be her boyfriend. Be really sweet to her and let her know that you want to be with her. If she doesn't like you back then you should find someone else. (Sorry if that sounds mean!) There are plenty of fish in the sea! I hope everything works out for you! GOOD LUCK!

~***Hannah~***

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I am talking with this dude. And I asked earlier what to get him for his 16th Bday, but I didnt get any good answers so I'm asking again! He likes bands like NFG and Blink 182, hes beachy/country, and he plays soccer and football! I really really want to get him something special! Please gimme some sweet ideas! Thanks!

Get him a cd of his favorite band(s). Also, you should get him a customized jersey with his number on the back or one of his favorite player. Or you could buy him a guitar since he is into counrty. I hope i gave you some good ideas!

~***Hannah~***

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Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

Yeah! i think there is. Don't give up on looking. Keep on searching for love. NEVER GIVE UP!

I hope i helped!

~***Hannah~***

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ok my friend lets call him joe well my friend joe is really cool and i just met him this year. my other 2 friends always say i like him and we always flirt. which i dont believe really. i dont think we flirt at all. i only have him in one class and we "always flirt". it makes me mad cuz like joe let me wear his rubber bracelet things and my friends are like awwwww how sweet! it makes me sooo mad! specially when they ask him out for me. now joe thinks im a stalker or sumthin and that my friends are stalkers. im not they are. so wat can i do to make my friends stop asking him out for me. and make joe think im not a stalkeR? plz help..srry this is long

Tell Joe what your friends are doing. IF he is a true friend then he will understand. Tell him that you like him as a friend and nothing more.


Sit your friends down and say, "Listen, i don't like you always asking Joe out for me. He is a really cool friend but i dont like him in that way." I'm sure they will undertand. I hope i helped.

~***Hannah~***

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