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trying to decide between friend or boyfriend
im 15 and f ... there is this guy that was "really hott" and i had a big crush on him but finally i got over him because i realized that we are two totally different types of people, he does drugs sometimes and im one of the most innocent girls ever. But now a few months later we've been talking more just as friends and he's telling me he likes me and i dont know what to do because i do still like him but i dont know if its such a good idea we go out. please help im very confused.
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If you think you'll be pressured into drugs, don't do it.
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Well my recomendation is to just date. Don't make a commitment yet. Drugs are very shaky grounds and he could try to get you hooked. I don't know him personally, but i have experienced this problem and it really has to do on how well you know him and if he would endanger you in that area. Maybe go on a few dates, see where things take you.
Hope i helped,
Panda
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Well even if you do like him you and him should not go out. Even if you are an innocent little girl, he will get you into doin drugs and then you could get busted by your parents or the police and you might even die. I wouldn't go out with him if i were you.
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THatS hard... i would personally say go out with him... but if your not into that whole "reBeLioUs thing" then you are going 2 end up feeling uncomfortable and maybe even pressured... if you truly like him then go 4 it! and if he truly likes you... then maybe he can end it with the druGs! tell him before you 2 go out (if u do) that your not into that whole drug thing! like i said... if he truly likes you... he'll understand! good luck though hUn! and fOllOw your hEaRt!
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As hot and yummy as you may think he is, Im sorry to say this but it wont work out. Like you said you are completly different people. If it did not work out then why would you think it could work out now. Innocence does not welcome deceit very well. Drugs and such dont equal a fantastic boyfriend i dont care how good looking he is. However if you are looking for a meaningless self absorbed relationship then go ahead I believe he sounds like the perfect type. I hope ive helped you.
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All those advice were good but simple. Heres a better one. OK you said he does drugs right well if he realy likes you he would give the drugs up if you ask him to and he wouldnt complain. Your a girl and from a guys point of view you are very manipulative. You can get wat you want without the guy even knowing wat he agreed to. Noones perfect but the flaws can be fixed over time. Just remember that. hope it works out bye
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Yes, I agree with the others here, dont date him. Remember that, apart from what the others already said, when you date a person, you will also automatically be drawn into their circle of friends (at least eventually). His friends are very likely also different from you in their... uhm, recreational habbits. It will quickly become an uncomfortable situation for you, and may put you in a position where you might be pressured into doing something you dont want to do.
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You shouldnt date him if he is totally different than you. Like you said, he does drugs. Unless you feel comfortable around him while he does drugs (most likely if you date he will do drugs around you) then don't date him. I think you should think if he is the kind of guy that you like for a relationship. If not, let him down easy. I'm sure he'll understand. I hope I helped!
~***Hannah***~
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if you dont want to loose your virginity or be abused (in more ways than one) or be drawn into drugs and beer, stay away! he might not want to sleep with you or abuse you on purpose, but if hes stoned and/or drunk, he wont know what hes doing. to protect yourself, just say "no" in the gentlest way possible. he may like you cause he wants someone who has a good reputation or something; he may like you for being you (i hope this is the case). my advise is no, dont go out with him. good luck! hope i helped!
-FunnyCide
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