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Alright, I'm a 13 year old female, in the 8th grade. There's this guy I really like... he's smart, gets way good grades (like the only guy I've liked who gets better grades, haha) athletic, nice, popular. I could go on, but let me get to the point. I've liked him for about 2 months now, and I keep thinking he likes me. I've heard 2 people say he does. So a few days ago, lots of my friends found out, since we were playing truth or dare, and everyone was like "Aww, how sweet you like so-and-so." And most of them seemed to think that he likes me too, but I'm not really sure anymore. Today at school one of my friends who found out totally wanted to tell him I liked him, and then I saw her go over and talk to him... She said that she had asked if he liked me, and he said yes. I was like, in a sarcastic way, right? But she said no that he was serious. I find that hard to believe though. So then she said he should ask me out and he's like, why, so I can face rejection again? And my friend was all, well maybe. Ugh I was sorta mad cuz she pretty much made it obvious I like him. I'm just wondering what I should do.. should I tell him I like him or what?!! I'm just worried that if I do he won't like me back and then things will be weird between us. And if he does like me, and we decide to go out.. well that worries me a little bit too because I heard that he's sort of perverted, he just doesn't show it as much as other guys. And the only thing I've ever done is hug guys. I'm willing to go as far as kissing/making out but I think my parents would freak if they found out. Arrgh.. please help! Sorry it's so long. (link)
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you should so tell him that you dig him! if it doesn't work out then...WHATEVER! you can move on...[[if things feel weird between you two afterwards, just give it a little time...trust me!!! i've been in this situation!!]]and if it does work, then you don't even have to kiss him or anything if you don't want to... just make sure you follow you make the right decisions [[ya know...for yourself...don't make decisions just so other people will like you]]and stay true to your heart!!! oh yah... and go with your instinct, hun!
i hope i helped... if not i'm SO SORRY!
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Ok well I really, really like this guy, K. Well K and me met online and we were "talking" and now we have met in person and all. Well I like totally ADORE him! He is soooo sweet and funny! I think he likes me too. But now he has said that he is going to stay single for a while! He's scared because all of these other girls have hurt him really badly, it has just torn him up! How can I make him see what's right in front of him and make him get over these other girls and start a relationship with me? ~Thanks sooo much!~
*`*`MissEmmyBoo*`*`
Oh and by the way I am a 14/f! :) (link)
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just let him come to you... maybe you can let him know that you have feelings for him... but dont ask him out unless he does first... if he's hurtin right now, let him heal before anything happens....
hope i helped!
luv ya alwaiz!
mandy
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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old? (link)
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i totally know what your going through...my best friend is going out with a 16 year old [[ shes only 13]] and i had the chance to when i was 14 but i 'wasn't allowed to' i guess the 16-year-old has MORE EXPERIENCE and your oarents or whoever doesn't want anything [[you know what i'm talking about]] to happen between you two... ya know there are a lot of teen pregnancies now [[ but i'm sure you've heard or have been told this any times before]] but adults are like that...it sucks i know and im sorry
hope i helped!
luv ya alwaiz!!
mandy
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what do you do when you love two people and you cant pick between them (link)
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make a list: the good things and the bad things that each one of the people have. and, you should pick the one person that you feel more comfortable talking to and the one that you shared the most secrets with. look at how many times each one has lied to you [[or hasn't lied to you]] and how many times one of them has told a secret of yours that they swore not to tell. Just follow your heart and go with your first instinct...
i hope i helped...if you need anything else...don't hesitate to ask me!
luv ya alwaiz!
mandy
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okay well today i was flirting w. this guy and i knew it and my friend kept sayin you so like him but i dont really like him like him i used to though and hes incredibly hott and attractive anyways then i go well i dont deny stuff like that n like 5 mins later i start flirting again n then my friend says it again n the guy im flirting w. goes "yeah i no we are" lol then i just left
wuts he trying to say?
i've asked him out before but he said no (link)
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guyz are soooo weird i know... but you guyz are juzt flirting....BABE, THAT'S WHAT HUMANS DO! it's ok to flirt with him...
oh and if he iz interezted... let him azk you out!
but if you know that you have no feelingz for him... don't worry bout what your friendz sai! juzt az long az you know da truth!!!
hope i help a lil!
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ok, there is this guy i like, and we are friends but i like him more then a friend. should i ask him out? my friends say yeah just to see if he will, but will that change our friendship if he says no? (link)
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i so knoe how you feel! it kinda just depends on the guy whether or not your friendship stays the same... ( me and this guy went out for a week and our relationship wasnt the same for another year!) so maybe... if you get the chance to be alone with him... discreetly ask him if there iz ANITHING between you two and if there is...you can ask him out right then and there! but if not... you don't have to worry about it... but if somebody tellz you that you HAVE TO MAKE A MOVE NOW, don't listen... just listen to your heart and make the move whenever it feelz right!
i realli hope thiz helpz at least a lil bit!
luv ya!...mandy
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