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Confused... to tell or not to tell!?
Alright, I'm a 13 year old female, in the 8th grade. There's this guy I really like... he's smart, gets way good grades (like the only guy I've liked who gets better grades, haha) athletic, nice, popular. I could go on, but let me get to the point. I've liked him for about 2 months now, and I keep thinking he likes me. I've heard 2 people say he does. So a few days ago, lots of my friends found out, since we were playing truth or dare, and everyone was like "Aww, how sweet you like so-and-so." And most of them seemed to think that he likes me too, but I'm not really sure anymore. Today at school one of my friends who found out totally wanted to tell him I liked him, and then I saw her go over and talk to him... She said that she had asked if he liked me, and he said yes. I was like, in a sarcastic way, right? But she said no that he was serious. I find that hard to believe though. So then she said he should ask me out and he's like, why, so I can face rejection again? And my friend was all, well maybe. Ugh I was sorta mad cuz she pretty much made it obvious I like him. I'm just wondering what I should do.. should I tell him I like him or what?!! I'm just worried that if I do he won't like me back and then things will be weird between us. And if he does like me, and we decide to go out.. well that worries me a little bit too because I heard that he's sort of perverted, he just doesn't show it as much as other guys. And the only thing I've ever done is hug guys. I'm willing to go as far as kissing/making out but I think my parents would freak if they found out. Arrgh.. please help! Sorry it's so long.
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I am 13 and in the 8th grade as well. I'd totally tell him that you like him. If your friend was lying, and the guy doesn't really like you back, then you'll be right where you were before, nothing bad. Also, you'll wanna find out whether or not ur friend was telling the truth. TELL HIM!
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oh..ok..i am NOT the one for letting my friends get involved in this stuff. First of all if he does like you..he will be like..ok and why are her friends in this??If he is shy and everyone is talking about you guys..he might NOT ask you out as he is embarrassed...or the worst thing..he may not like you and NOW everyone knows..
I know this is hard. But i still feel if a guy likes you..he will ask you out...unless he is too shy..then YOu will have to step up to the plate...
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First i'd like to say having a crush is nvr an easy thing,trust me.But on to your question.Well in my opion you should ask one of your friends to ask him out for you.Your only young once and the worst that can happen is a rejection.But who nos he could say yes.As far as him being peverted all guys are but some can hide it better then others.And don't worry about how far u've gone with a guy ,of will go because when u feel comfortable u'll no and whateva u do won't matter.
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You don't hafta worry about physical stuff until you're actually a couple and you've talked to him about it. I think you should tell him you like him, and then see what happens. The worst that can happen is you stay friends. There's nothing to be afraid of, besides, it's better to know than regret never telling.
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you should so tell him that you dig him! if it doesn't work out then...WHATEVER! you can move on...[[if things feel weird between you two afterwards, just give it a little time...trust me!!! i've been in this situation!!]]and if it does work, then you don't even have to kiss him or anything if you don't want to... just make sure you follow you make the right decisions [[ya know...for yourself...don't make decisions just so other people will like you]]and stay true to your heart!!! oh yah... and go with your instinct, hun!
i hope i helped... if not i'm SO SORRY!<<honestly
much luv!
mandy<3
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tell him tht u rlly like him and wanna go out wit him and ur not out to break his heart. convince him u wanna be his gf and badly! look into his eyes, he may jus not be able to resist! hope i helped ~stef~
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I think you should go for it girl! Flirt iwth him& make it obvious you like him. If he doesn't like you back..just play it off like nothing happened, that way it won't be too awkward!If you two DO hook up, don't worry too much, if he tries anything you don't want, just tell him you don't want to& I'm sure he'll understand! As for the kissing/making out..I honestly don't think it's a big deal b/c eventually you are gunna kiss guys..and your parnets are going to have to accept it at some point in time! Goodluck& I hope things work out grrreat:]
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just tell him you like him and see what he says! if he doesnt like you back just be like "o ok well thts cool we can just be friends" if you dont make it awkward and uncomfortable, he wont either because he wont be getting those vibes. and if he does like you and you end up going out, just do hwat you feel comfortable doing and if it goes beyond that tlel him you just wanna take things slow and he should respect that! x0x0x
After feedback: thanks! yes yes yes deffinitly let me know how it all works out! gl!
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