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Well... i like this guy
Okay heres my story...
I like this guy. Lets call him Jon. He likes me as well... We only knew eachother for like maybe 2 weeks at the most but i sat with him at that table everyday at lunch and in the morning b4 classes start. Anyways.... Last friday we went on a double date with my friend and his friend... Well both of our friends...
Besides the point. We had a great time. At first we went to dinner then played pool for a while then we were supposed to go to a movie but we didnt so we went bowling instead. Well that was alot of fun. Everyday we smile at eachother and talk sometimes but i never know what to talk about around him. What do i talk about? Then when the techers get back from tech (he's one) i always leave homeroom 10 minutes early to see him. I know it's sweet to some people but is it right for me to do that? Im seriously inlove with this guy!! This weekend he's supposed to come over to my house Saturday night so i can see him b4 i go to Punxitauwnii, Clearfield to go hunting for 2 days. So i wont be able to see him Sunday or Monday. Im skippin school.
What should i do with him? Should i make a move or wait for him? I know i need to talk to him more.. Becuase everyday he talks to this girl (i think her name is Jessica) and says like how much he likes me and stuff like that. I mean hes really sweeeetttt!!!! But he also says that i need to talk to him more. I know things about him but not that much. And i reallly want to get to know him more.
Could something happen Saturday night?
What do i talk to him about?
Please give me advice... I'll try anything!! lol
Im seriouslt Happy but Dont know what to do!!!
CEC <- my initials!!->
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hey kels, (i hope this is u! lol)
hun, Jon obviously likes you too or else he wouldnt have went on a date with you and your friends. Does he know you like him? If so, then flirt with him! LOL if he doesnt know, then flirt with him! LOL Ask him what he likes and dislikes...basically get to know him. You dont have to have an indepth conversation with him until you feel comfortable enough to have long conversations. Girl, guys can be dumb! LOL He might not get that you want him to make the first move. If u want or when you are comfortable, make the first move! let him know you like him. Get to know him better also. Talk to him!!!! You aren't going to know him if youy are always quiet around him. Trust me, I know how are it is to talk to someone you like when you are always nervous around them. Write him notes if you dont like talking. Hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you and Jon!
~***Hannah***~
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weLL skippin skool i dont think is a good idea coz wha happens if u get caught but if u do just think bout it dis way was it worth it? if it was den w/e'z u've known dis guy 4 like about 2weeks u cant be in love with him?? ur prolly just fallin head over heels and first u need to find out if he really likes u ask him how he feels about u nd den tell him how u feel towards him nd den see wha happens from there on all u need to do is open up a little more with him and ask him question like fav food color sutff like dat nd den from there u get to talk to him more
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all you need to do is just be yourself and talk to him like you would any other friend. talk about favorite movies, books, music, hobbies, stuff like that. chances are once you guys get started talking, you'll really learn a lot about each other quickly. if you feel comfortable making a move, go for it! if not, it's totally fine to wait for him to make a move. but honestly, all you have to do is be yourself, that way things don't get awkward. if you feel they do start to get awkward, that's fine. it's totally normal for it to be awkward in the beginning. but just ask him another question, change the topic, or comment on his shirt or something. i hope this helped, and good luck! let me know how things turn out!!
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Awwww, most crushes start out like that. Where you can't get enough of him. But if he says you need to talk to him more, you're doing the right hting by hanging out with him. When you talk to him don't worry so much. Start with casual comments like "I like your shirt" or "What are you doing later?" If you run out of things to say, just tell him that you have to get going to your next class, or whatever and you'll talk to him later. DOn't get too obsessed where you go to every one of his classes. While this is all sweet and showing that you care, he might think it's odd or that you need to lay off.
As for Saturday, don't plan your moves ahead. If he really likes you, he'll make the move if the time is right. (Keep an extra pack of altoids in your pocket just in case you think it might be ;) lol) Maybe with this time you 2 are taking apart he'll be able to sort out his feelings. If you make Saturday special, he'll be thinking about it while you're gone. Keep me posted on what happens. Good luck, hope you 2 work out!
xo-Jor*
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