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hey im a guy 13 . i know this emo girl shes not that emo she just dresses like one, shes quite normal. shes really hot and has loads of friends...she was going to smake out my best friend until he backed out. now I talk to her alot. I talked to her about music for about an hour and every song I said she liked it or liked it alot.. she said she didnt know I had such good music taste. then she asked me who was the hottest girl in her school. I didnt say her... then we started talking about strange stuff.......like what find hot in a girl what she finds hot in a man....I want to know if shes interested in me.. she called me a loser kind of joking.....she doesnt act interested in me when my best friend is around. when hes around she acts alot less immature and strange. she thought i would like rave music. she also set me up with another girl one (of her friends)....I said I wanted to go out with this other girl and she said she was a complete loser and I shouldnt go out with her and shes hated by everyone BTW Im not in her school but I used to be she wasnt there then....I think she cant make up her mind whether she likes me or not? how can I tell if she likes me? now we dont really talk... we dont get the chance.... when im hanging out with my friends and her friends we dont talk to each other much... but when im with her with like one or two other people she will say small things like someone else said ive grown etc.... but she comes across as not being shy at all, and shes got loads of guys to choose from. (link)
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you're so sweet. ok, this is what I think you should do. I have friends just like what you have described minus the emo part.. Be confident my friend. I honestly believe confidence is key. You should build a friendship with this girl, a strong one. Show her that you want to hang out with her and invite her places so you can have the chance. Girls go crazy whenever a guy tries hard to get them. Try to get her! Don't just sit around, put forth some effort! punch your best friend in the face ;) just kidding! use his knowledge I'm assuming smake means go out with? So he should obviously know a thing or two about this girl. He could maybe do a little convincing? Which should be your last option! Let her like you for you. Take the opportunities you are provided and feel that she likes you. Wait to feel it, instead of wondering.
ha... I hope I didn't lose you there.
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hello there , i have this big problem! ok there is this boy and we have been "talking" If you no what i mean . and well he says he likes me and i really like him , but i jsut found out he goes out with this other girl and i dont no what to do! so i really what to know what i should do please help me ! thank you (link)
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hi :) calm down. It's great that you have been talking to this boy, its always nice to have someone to talk to like that. And I believe that that's the main ideas of having a boy. He obviously means a lot to you, but to be honest.. I believe this doesnt sound like a nice guy. You guys aren't going out, yet he is already going to provide difficult situations like this for you. If you haven't already talked to him, you should. Get to the bottom of this.. try to understand his reasonings and if this situation is even true.
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I am a 16 year old female. I gave my virginity to a good friend. He acted like he liked me then and when we talk. Should I ask him if he likes me and if anything is going to happen with us? (link)
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I think that would be a great idea. Including the fact what weight it would lift off of your shoulders to know what he thinks. Answers make everything better.
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well I really like this kid and he asked me if I had one wish what would it be? and I honestly my wish would be to be with him :] but Idk if I should say that... it seems to forward.. Im like way sure he lieks me back... but idk.... should I tell him that I like him??? or would it mess it up? (link)
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oh my goodness yes you should tell him. He obviously expects that answer! yay :] I am quite excited for you. Taking this risk could result in a lot of happiness for you. be fearless!
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I have a boyfriend and we use to use to go to the same school until he started a new one.Now we can't stop but to c eachother. The thing is in persn we can't stop talking but then when we are talking it's so hard to come up with a subject on the phone. On myspace we r lovebirdz..I lov him but how do i talk to him on the phoe wat should i say i need advice help me out please!! (link)
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calm yourself child. there is plenty and plenty and plenty of things to talk about. He went to your school and I am sure that you two share a lot of the same friends. Give him some updates on them and tell him funny stories that you might have. Also possibly common t.v. shows that you like would be good. If you're reading a book tell him about it and see if he's reading anything. Have you gone to any crazy parties? tell him about it. Any memories of him that you always think about? remind him so you guys can laugh. Show him you have this much care for him and ask him things about his new school.. family.. new people he's met. How he feels that day if he misses your school what he thinks about a lot. Does he like music? what concert has he always wanted to go to? does he skateboard? has he learned any new tricks? Try to keep things cool and non akward. be comfortable.. that is the main thing. Enjoy talking to him and be yourself.
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i know we all hate these questions but im clueless here. i have NO idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. i spent over $250 on him for christmas and for valentines day gave him candy and a list of "100 reasons why i love you". he downloads all his music so he has every song he wants so i cant burn a cd. and im not doing a scrap book w/ pictures. concert tickets arent an option. i want to get him something he like so i thought about guitar strings or picks but at the same time i want it to be special for our one year ya kno? hes taking me out to dinner & a movie and getting me something but i dont know what. any ideas? (link)
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I don't know if he is touchy or sentimental but I think it would be extremley cute to buy a pack of picks and decorate them for him. it would be amazing if somehow you could even put a picture of you two on one? can you imagine how awesome it would be for you two to make a song together? come up with some lyrics.. and enjoy seeing his creative side as he plays the guitar to your words. something sentimental.. make it special.
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yesterday a boy came over that i really like. Ok so things got heated and we started kissing, makin out a lot.yeah. Then we got into my room and he fingered me. Now im afraid that maybe he doesn't like me or somethin or just doesn't have any feelings for me. He's not the kind of guy that would use a girl like me like that because I know him really well and he treats me differently than other girls (in a good way)but for some reason I'm still worried that he's just gonna forget about me and go with another girl or something. What can I do to maybe prevent this from happening??? thankss! (link)
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I am sorry :(. But I think that if you act like you are hesitant to how yall's relationship is going to end up toward him he will think that YOU are uncomforatable... so just think positive consider how he treats you different from the other girls and just don't blank out and not talk to him for a while because that would give him the idea that you are avoiding him... just go on like normal and be confident, I'm sure he still likes you! well good luck with your situation...
:)
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im not sure if im exsperincing a real feeling for a "guy" friend of mine or if im just doing it to like someone. I'm afraid to ask him to do something because i don't want to ruin out friendship but I'm afraid that if i don't say anything than I may miss a good chance. i want to try to like him but i don't want to ruin our frienship, which i value more.very confused here..please help! (link)
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Don't stand in the shadows and not tell him how you truly feel, just tell him the truth get that weight off your shoulders, let it sink in with him and then see how he feels. If he doesnt feel the same way then dont feel bad, just consider it a sign from God that he wasnt meant to be your boyfriend just there for you as a best friend you know what i mean? And its ok to like your best friend as something more believe me. BUT if you are not sure about you really liking him then give it a little bit more time and see if your feelings are pure THEN tell him! But, if you think you are ready to reveal your secret then let it out- live life without regrets k girl? (Kisses)
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How would you describe love in your own words? I just want to know ho other people think about love and how they feel towards it.
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i think that love between a girl and a guy at a young age should just be fun and spontaeos! not like oh gosh he is so cheating on me. It should just be strong feelings for someone that you would die for, someone who means the world to you. Something that makes you feel warm fuzzies inside when you think about it. Something that holds you together and needed from everyone! that is how i see love... everyone needs it to survive and live in happiness
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Ok, there is this guy and everyday when I get on the bus he constantly stares at me. when I get to skool in the morings he stares at me! He used to like me I think. But I want to know if he still does. i think he has a girlfriend. Whats something I could just talk about right out of the blue and not sound stupied? (link)
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Just sit next to him on the bus one day and just totally act natural be like man i would give anything to (say your favorite thing to do) then be like what would you rather be doing right now? You know just talk to him about casual fun things, compliment him on something he is wearing, thats always good to get almost anyone to talk. Well I hope you can get to know him better and figure out why he is always staring at you! He probably thinks your hot so go for it girl! But make sure to ask him if he has a girlfriend first you dont want problems to rise.
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hey this is the person who asked about wanting a boyfriend and how i could change myself to get attention. im just asking if i could get more detail from you. thanks a lot. i appriciate it. (link)
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Okay for your make up i would suggest these eyeshadows: subtle oranges like the colors of apricots, pinkish gold (like shimmery) on and under you eyes, or just a tanish brown shadow would look good *remember dont get any dramatic colors stick with the subtle colors. As for blush try a very soft pink with a little bit of shimmer in it *like you should know apply it from your temple to the apple of your cheek. NEVER wear blush just on the apple of your cheek... Ok light pink shimmer lip glosses look really good (and it depends if you like the look) try a red gloss it really brings out your skin it lokes really good. For clothes red looks really good on your skin tone or greens and blue maybe not baby blues though cuz that looks too much like your skin tone ok? Remember try flattering clothes like the satin tops and little flats with jeans... so cute. or a tank with those little sweaters that button on the bosom* those are really cute kay? Well if you ever need anything never hesitste to ask me and dont forget to tell me if things get better with the boys!
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okay well theres this guy lets call him 'jesse' and well i like him. he likes me also. how should i ask him out? should i ask him out or wait for him? he asked for my number the other night. do you think i should wait a while longer and then ask? please help i will rate high! (link)
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If you like him then dont waste anytime! And if he knows you like him then he is waiting for you to ask the question. If you are a shy person you should call him on the phone and be like, I like you a lot and you like me so... i was wondering if you wanted to go out with (put a "if not then thats ok" to make him feel like he isnt on the spot and answer so soon) then be like if you want to think about it or whatever thats fine but i would really love to go out with you cuz i think you are a great guy. Just explain how you are feeling but dont make it too mooshy kay? If you arent shy just tell him all that but in person and make sure you use good body language to make him feel comforatable dont twidle your thumbs or something... that will make him nervous. Well Best of luck to you with "Jesse"! If you have anymore questions feel free to ask me.
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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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You should just totally be straight forward with your bf. Tell him you arent trying to cheat on him and he should know that John is just your friend and you had no intention on him thinking you were cheating. But if you feel that James is being TOO prude and you arent finding any fun at all in yall's relationship then go with your gut about the seperating situation. i suggest break up with him there might be some chemistry between you and John since he asked you to a dance so you have to like him enough to say yes! :) Maybe John will be the guy willing to give you more than James and make you happier and make your life more exciting kay? Well the best of luck to you girl! 'kiss' PrettyLady16
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i really really really wanna boyfriend. im 13, going into 8th grade and i really feel like no one likes me. its bringing down my self esteem because all my friends are hotties and guys try to pick them up every where they go. literally. i need a way to get noticed before school starts (sept. 7th). its not that i only think guys will like me if i look good i just want them to notice me that way, like 'omg that girl is hot, i wanna try to talk to her' then he'll get to know me. if that confuses you im sorry but i really need help with this. sorry for the lenght. i rate high!!! (link)
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Try to change yourself if you think you are a little too pudgy then start working out to tone yourself up get a totally different haircut no one expects you to have that compliments you well, compliment you skin tone with whatever make up goes good with you. Define your eyes well get highlights in your hair wear cute jewelery and popular clothes. Well if you need more help Just ask me, i am better at giving you advice with more details... well good luck leave me something in the inbox kay?
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Ok I have this friend he is 18 and is really cool and hot.But he likes my BFFL only because her boobs are huge and she is a slut(weird BFFL huh?) Anyway I am like in love with him but he only thinks of me as a friend but I am beginnig to think he doesnt even like me as that.He told my friend that he wanted her to see his balls.I know thats preverted but he never says anything thing like that to me and that makes me feel unattractive.What can I do to make him notice me without acting like a slut.Ill rate high for any good answer!!
PS he said if I acted more like her he would like me (link)
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Well, dont act like your friend whatever you do, you dont have tpo change yourself just to please this ONE guy ok? But talk to him more and try to make him interested in you more not like a friend like be serious and fun be whatever it seems he wants just make sure you dont change yourself into a totally different person! Well i hope you win him over!
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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think? (link)
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Yes I am sure that he does love you back i would try not to get yourself so hyped up on something so little, just have trust in him
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okay this guy his name is charlie! well people think he is known for wanting to get in girls pants and then breaking up with them. But, i have heard some stories about how he is really sweet to his girlfriends and is not like that. Well, i like him alot an he said he likes me! should i try it with him and if thats all he wants dump him or what?! i really want to try it i mean he calls me alot! and he acts like he likes me!and he takes care of me (link)
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Totally if you think you like this guy focus on the good stories about him and give him a try! If it seems he really cares about you and you seem to be head over heels for him then dont hesitate and go for it babe. If all he really wants is to get in your pants just tell him you dont want to go out anymore and would rather be friends. Good luck to you.
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16 F sophomore. guy 17 junior.
Me and this guy have been friends for about 2 almost 3 years i guess.. if i'm couting right. Anyway i suddenly liked him after a terrible break up.. and then I just gave up on it thinking i was still in love with my ex.. moving on... So this crush has kind of been hidden for a few months and i recently told him that i liked him way back then. and he was cool about it but here recently we've been joking about being benefit buds.. and i dont know if he's serious.. and even if he was and we really did like each other and wanted to date should I: b/c a) he's dated like 2 or 3 of my friends and B) this wouldn't destroy our friendship but maybe make it awkward. i dunno just some advice please?~ unsure. (link)
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I think that if you really think that having benefits with him could turn into something like a relationship and you truly trust him you should consider it. But if you are starting to have a lot of doubts and second thoughts follow your instincts and dont do it. But make sure you ask him if he is serious before you consider this. Well i hope that everything turns out well for you. "kisses" PrettyLady16
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I have had my girlfriend for 2 and a half years.... she recently had a crush on someone else who she had been spending quite alot of time with lately.... she didnt tell me about the crush, and he also happened to like her. Instead of telling me, she flirted with him, and she told him she liked him and he kissed her. She said she pushed him away and said that she couldnt kiss him because she loves me. She continued to hang around this guy hoping that situation would blow over. It didnt and he kissed her 2 more times(She kissed back a little bit before pushing him away these times) and continued to spend time with him. I didnt find this out until one of the guys friends told me about it. I confronted her and she told me the situation i had just described. She says she is really sorry and that she didnt want to hurt me and she loved me and didnt know why she kept up with this other guy. She then called him telling him that she cant ever speak with him again. I am very confused on whether or not i should break up with her because I love her so much. On the other hand im scared this could happen again. Should i break up and throw two and a half years down the drain or try and fix this up. She also seemed very sincere in her apology..... (link)
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WoW, I'm sorry man. But since you have been dating this girl for 2 and a half years i think that you should at least give it another try. Because if you break up with her now you might be throwing something good away. I think you should let yourself heal from this situation and move on. And if she does this again just kindly break up with her. You shouldnt have to go through all of that again. Well good luck to you.
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so the other day me and my boyfriend were alone at his house and he wanted to fool around. we have done it MANY times before but i just didnt feel like it so i told him i didnt feel like it. he got really weird and pissed off and it made me feel like i had to fool around with him. so we were weird for like a few hours until later at the park we finally fooled around and things were fine. i dont want to do it nemore ever. maybe every once in a while. i feel like i have to tho. we talk about everything usually and we have a really awesome relationship most of the time. we really love eachother. all he kept saying is he doesnt see why i dont wanna do it and i said "cuz i dont want to". if he really loves me should i need a reason? he said we will stop but i feel bad for it and hes mad and weird about it. i hate it. what do i do. (link)
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Not wanting to do it with him is fine and he is eventually going to have to get over it. Dont feel bad when you dont feel like it you just dont! So i dont think you should have to explain yourself everytime if your bond with your boyfriend is that strong you shouldnt have to worry about this problem at all. i hope things get better for you
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