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does she like me?
hey im a guy 13 . i know this emo girl shes not that emo she just dresses like one, shes quite normal. shes really hot and has loads of friends...she was going to smake out my best friend until he backed out. now I talk to her alot. I talked to her about music for about an hour and every song I said she liked it or liked it alot.. she said she didnt know I had such good music taste. then she asked me who was the hottest girl in her school. I didnt say her... then we started talking about strange stuff.......like what find hot in a girl what she finds hot in a man....I want to know if shes interested in me.. she called me a loser kind of joking.....she doesnt act interested in me when my best friend is around. when hes around she acts alot less immature and strange. she thought i would like rave music. she also set me up with another girl one (of her friends)....I said I wanted to go out with this other girl and she said she was a complete loser and I shouldnt go out with her and shes hated by everyone BTW Im not in her school but I used to be she wasnt there then....I think she cant make up her mind whether she likes me or not? how can I tell if she likes me? now we dont really talk... we dont get the chance.... when im hanging out with my friends and her friends we dont talk to each other much... but when im with her with like one or two other people she will say small things like someone else said ive grown etc.... but she comes across as not being shy at all, and shes got loads of guys to choose from.
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you're so sweet. ok, this is what I think you should do. I have friends just like what you have described minus the emo part.. Be confident my friend. I honestly believe confidence is key. You should build a friendship with this girl, a strong one. Show her that you want to hang out with her and invite her places so you can have the chance. Girls go crazy whenever a guy tries hard to get them. Try to get her! Don't just sit around, put forth some effort! punch your best friend in the face ;) just kidding! use his knowledge I'm assuming smake means go out with? So he should obviously know a thing or two about this girl. He could maybe do a little convincing? Which should be your last option! Let her like you for you. Take the opportunities you are provided and feel that she likes you. Wait to feel it, instead of wondering.
ha... I hope I didn't lose you there.
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Just ask her if she likes you. I know it's hard. But by asking her you will know if you should step up your relationship or reamain friends.
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okay well it seems like shes interested in you as a friend only. and yeah, it sucks but if you think about it, sincce she has "loads of guys to choose from" its probably better for you because you could wind up really hurt. and also, if she is setting you up with her friends, than she probably dosnt feel the same way as you
also, maybe if you confront her about it she may feel the same but thought that you thought differently.
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in my opnion i think that you should just ask her. i mean after reading this i thought that she didn't like you, bc of the whole "set up with another fried" and you should try and tell her that you miss the way you used to talk. this might help to mkae you better friends and maybe even more. i had this situation happen to me too....accept it was the opisite..lol.
well i hope i helped =]
good luck
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Now this is gonna seem harsh.
Maybe she doesn't like you,
Or maybe she does. The fact that she set you up with one of her friends tells me that shes not interested. But half of me says she is.
Now girls are much more compicated than you may think. I suggest talking to her, give her some subtle hints. If she is around another boy and he leaves say, "Oh I was gonna ask your bf when (sport practice is or what they are gonna do in health class) was" then from her reply you may get your answer...
*hope i answered ur question!!!"
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girls try to act like they dont like anyone, but flirt anyway.
its complicated but thats how it is.
try giving her subtle hints if you will on liking her.
maybe she will get the courage tosayshe likes you back
(but dont pressure her in front of her friends)
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