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Benefits buddy?
16 F sophomore. guy 17 junior.
Me and this guy have been friends for about 2 almost 3 years i guess.. if i'm couting right. Anyway i suddenly liked him after a terrible break up.. and then I just gave up on it thinking i was still in love with my ex.. moving on... So this crush has kind of been hidden for a few months and i recently told him that i liked him way back then. and he was cool about it but here recently we've been joking about being benefit buds.. and i dont know if he's serious.. and even if he was and we really did like each other and wanted to date should I: b/c a) he's dated like 2 or 3 of my friends and B) this wouldn't destroy our friendship but maybe make it awkward. i dunno just some advice please?~ unsure.
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I think that if you really think that having benefits with him could turn into something like a relationship and you truly trust him you should consider it. But if you are starting to have a lot of doubts and second thoughts follow your instincts and dont do it. But make sure you ask him if he is serious before you consider this. Well i hope that everything turns out well for you. "kisses" PrettyLady16
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I wouldnt do that friends with benifits, it never works out cos someone gets hurt (well ive heard, lol). Yea, um well if you wanted to have a relationship that would be better, sumwhat. But it will destroy your relationship when you break up. Well, it might, if you let it. I dont think its the best idea. But if you REALLY like him, then go for it. If you kinda like him, dont do anything about it and move on.
♥ nicole
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well after you break up,it would make your relationship awkward at first, but in time you will both get over the weirdness of it and become even better friends. I think you should go for it cause if you do really like him and you don't go for it, you will always wonder what wouldve happened. GET EM GIRL!!!
yes I know that but I was sayin don't be worried about your relationship beind awkward if you do go out. Well, friends w/ benifits is not cool, cause he can have as many friends as he wants and they can all be with benefits so...
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Friends with benefits is a lousy idea. Hey, if he wants the benefits make him date you. Other guys aren't going to ask you out if you have a relationship like this. You are the loser in a friends with benefits relationship in the long run. :)
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