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i really really really wanna boyfriend. im 13, going into 8th grade and i really feel like no one likes me. its bringing down my self esteem because all my friends are hotties and guys try to pick them up every where they go. literally. i need a way to get noticed before school starts (sept. 7th). its not that i only think guys will like me if i look good i just want them to notice me that way, like 'omg that girl is hot, i wanna try to talk to her' then he'll get to know me. if that confuses you im sorry but i really need help with this. sorry for the lenght. i rate high!!!
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be really flirty,
find a guy,hot or not,
and flirt soo much that there is not way they dont know you want em.
its all in the personality.
so dont be too flirty, that makes you seem desperate. when you get a boyfriend you'll get a boyfriend. if you dont you dont
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maybe be extremely flirty. dont be afraid to go up to a guy and ask him out!! just go up there and do it and believe me, once you do it you will feel better that you asked, and will will feel great! like my friend has the SAME problem. she hates it!!!! so she and i know how you feel. but she will never ask a guy out so thats her own fault. so i think you should just get right in there and go for it!!
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Try to change yourself if you think you are a little too pudgy then start working out to tone yourself up get a totally different haircut no one expects you to have that compliments you well, compliment you skin tone with whatever make up goes good with you. Define your eyes well get highlights in your hair wear cute jewelery and popular clothes. Well if you need more help Just ask me, i am better at giving you advice with more details... well good luck leave me something in the inbox kay?
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first off there are many girls in your position..iincluding me! my friends get guys numbers handed to them without asking..they even get the workers at like KFC and Mcdonalds to give them free food! lots of guys like them and sure i get jealous but this is what you need to keep in mind:
you have to be yourself..you shouldnt try and look "hot" for a guy. just be you..i mean do you really want a guy talking to you just because you look good? i mean i think it would feel a lot better if you had someoeon interested in you because of YOU overall..not you from the outside point of view.
it will all pay off in the end, your only 13...your love life will take off soon. just be yourself, meet new people, be friendly..it will all come together...dont change yourself so your some piece of 'eye candy.'
i bet sometimes your friends wish they had someoen whos into them ..not just for their looks.
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