hello there , i have this big problem! ok there is this boy and we have been "talking" If you no what i mean . and well he says he likes me and i really like him , but i jsut found out he goes out with this other girl and i dont no what to do! so i really what to know what i should do please help me ! thank you
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PrettyLady16 answered Friday July 13 2007, 2:50 am: hi :) calm down. It's great that you have been talking to this boy, its always nice to have someone to talk to like that. And I believe that that's the main ideas of having a boy. He obviously means a lot to you, but to be honest.. I believe this doesnt sound like a nice guy. You guys aren't going out, yet he is already going to provide difficult situations like this for you. If you haven't already talked to him, you should. Get to the bottom of this.. try to understand his reasonings and if this situation is even true. [ PrettyLady16's advice column | Ask PrettyLady16 A Question ]
claireblue6 answered Thursday July 12 2007, 6:15 pm: Well if this other girl knows about you, she might be in the exact same position. He's probably just dating around, not boyfriend and girlfriend, you'll know if he likes you when you guys make plans and suddenly the other girl is no longer in the picture. It could just be a friend that he goes out with sometimes. I wouldn't bring it up, because it'll sound a little obvious that you were interested. I would just make more plans to get together, and if he agrees to them, then he probably does like you. But if you guys just stick to "talking" and don't go out anywhere, then he most likely has something with this other girl and wants you two to be friends. [ claireblue6's advice column | Ask claireblue6 A Question ]
littlestar27 answered Thursday July 12 2007, 6:01 pm: well if he said he likes you but hes going out with another girl.. thats weird? is she his girlfriend or do they just sometimes go out? he might be dating her, but secretly likes you more.. so just play it cool and find out if there "happily together" don't make a move on him if he has a girlfriend, just wait and see what he does first :] [ littlestar27's advice column | Ask littlestar27 A Question ]
katieneedsadvice answered Thursday July 12 2007, 5:53 pm: Know if this boy is going out with another girl. You can't go out with him too! And if you really like him back just wait for their relastionsihp to end. I know this sounds harsh but(idk ur age so this may not work for you) most school relastionships don't last that long. But whatever you do don't break up his current relastionship!
Just try to stay friends with him and casually talk to him. Get his email address and IM him. Just don't get to flirty, his gf will get angry and you don't want that.
*hope i answered your question!* [ katieneedsadvice's advice column | Ask katieneedsadvice A Question ]
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