My boyfriend and I have been dating for one and a half years. He still has his exgirlfriend's engagement ring in his drawer. When I ask him what he is going to do with it he just tells me he don't know. He says, "what should I do with it?" I am sick of looking at it. She has caused so many problems for us. I just want the ring to be gone. He says he doesn't want to just give it away because it cost too much money. At this point I am ready to throw the piece of metal in the dump. What would you suggest to do with it.
you can always melt it down and recast it into something fabulously wonderful for you =o)
that way, not only do you get the guy, but a kickin' new piece of jewelry too
or just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable to have something of hers in such a personal "you and him" kind of area
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How do I get my ex boyfrind to want me back?
alrighty
so girls seem to be the most desirable when someone else has them
because as girls, we're twenty kinds of happier when we're with someone
try to achieve that same happiness, it should show him that you're still an amazingly awesome person
and if it doesn't, just recognize that sometimes, people break up for good reason
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ok. theres this guy that i like. his names ricky. and hes a major hottie. and i think he likes me but im not sure. ok. and he wants to hang this weekend. i dont know what were gonna do yet. but he was saying he wants to hook up with me. and i dont know if thats kissing or sex. but im not worried about that right now. ok. and like he seems like he likes me. but then sometimes he doesnt. like.....i dont know how to explain it. but anyways...like hes nice to me. and seems fun to hang with. and i like him alot!! and i really wanna hang out with him. and do a lil more. =] ha. but anyways....do u think he likes me or just wants to get some....? cause im a virgin. and he aint gonna get that. he might get kissing and maybe a lil more. but not that.
i'll rate high!!
hooking up = kissing mostly
you're too young to be having sex i think... don't just do it with someone because "he's a major hottie"
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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year nnow, i love him so much. but my problem is i have had dreams that ive been making out[and more] with guys (that i know like me) and in my dreams i feel happy when i cheat, but when i wake up i feel horribl. anyone know what is going on?
15/f
you're sexually frustrated?
as long as you don't act on it, there's absolutely nothing to worry about.
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There is this guy who a little younger then me (nothing illegal or anything)...he goes to my school and we always make eye contact in the hallways and sometimes i catch him staring at me. I think he's really cute and maybe kinda like him but i dont really know him. I want to talk to him but it's hard because i'm so shy n he seems kinda shy too. I'm mostly scared to talk to him because he might not even like me, thats what usually happens anyways. I kno i shouldnt waste my life thinking what if but im to scared to make a move, it's not my kinda thing, is there anything i can do to maybe talk to him?
drop a pen when you walk by him. have your hands full. ask him if he could get that for you
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I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.
About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.
The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.
How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will?
buy him a watch for christmas. better yet, start programming things into his cell phone scheduler when he's not looking
or just tell him to be ready for something an hour before he needs to be
for revenge: start showing up to everything he arranges late.
arrive entire days later.
ask him if it annoys him.
orrr.... promise him that you'll come over and show off lingerie as a christmas present (don't actually do it)
then tell him that you just sort of forgot about it... and that you couldn't be where you were supposed to be because of it
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what types of precautions should a person take before taking part in sexual activities if they have never had sex before?
use protection.
try and use more than one form
for example: a condom and the pill
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okay, well i think i kinda like this guy. i mean sometimes he can be really mean and everything.. but i just feel like hes the kind of guy that when your alone with him he would be so sweet and kind.. i want to be with him so bad! i dont know what to do or say when im around him, i mean how should i flirt with him what should i do?
um...
you can ignore me, but i wouldn't personally get involved with this guy.
the ones that are mean in public tend to be worse in private.
also, you didn't give ages, so it may be a phase, but still... it sounds like the intro to a bad relationship, and possibly abuse or something.
however, you are free to live your own life
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i'm a guy, 14 yrs. old. here's my dilemma. this girl has a boyfriend right, and everyday in class we hug and talk till class starts. she doesn't even act like she has one. my question is what do i do now, i'm totally clueless.
first off, you're not a friend with benefits.
unless your tongue has come in contact with any part of her body, you're not a friend with benefits.
anyway, bring it up in a joking manner, like if she does something overtly single, kinda laugh and play it off, but bring up the fact that she has a boy. watch for her reaction. then go from there
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My bf is acting really weird. He used to ride me all the time about being unemployed. He would say that I needed to better my life and to stop living off the system (welfare). Well that just wasnt true that I didnt want to better my life because I was volunteering at two different jobs to get a good reference.
Anyways, all the volunteering paid off because I finally got a good job at a store that was a UNION!
At first my bf was happy and said he hoped it would work out.
Well it has worked out REALLY well. I've been getting good hours, and get along with everyone. And I'm having FUN too!!
When I told my bf this he sounded like he was mad or something that it was working out so well!
I don't understand him, first he's mad I'm not working, then when I do get a good job he sounds jealous! Does anyone have any ideas on why he's acting this way? I will give everyone 5's.
because his job isn't as good as yours?
or perhaps because he doesn't get to see you as often because of your job
ask him perhaps if you'd really like to know the real answer
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on tuesday me and my bf were foolin around and he ended up giving em a hickey..normally its okay but this time its like really dark and noticeable..its one the side of my neck and kinda towards the back..like right under my ear and back like a cm.well i been wearing me hair down since so you cant see it at all. but if my hairs not down its veryy and i mean VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust em they will. can anyone help mee!?
5's for any bit of help
put something cold on it (ice, cold spoon, frozen peas even)
then a while later, put something warm on it
annnd. that should help clear it a little.
then makeup
and scarves
or a turtleneck
or pigtails
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I'm currently in an internet relationship with this guy in Canada (I'm in Australia) We liked each other for about a year, and only recently decided to give the relationship a shot. We had a few problems before we got together, but we worked them all out. We're meeting in a few months time. I do like him, however, there's a lot about him that bothers me. He's a REALLY extremist Catholic, and whilst i am catholic too, I'm nowhere near as religious. A lot of what he believes I respect, however disagree with. I have to act different around him, for example, I can't swear or say anything even remotely 'suggestive' Sometimes I feel like he's testing me, because he asks me questions like "did you go to mass today on sunday? Did you enjoy it?" and "How far do you think is too far?" I never feel comfortable around him and he doesn't know much about who I truly am due to this reason. He's a really innocent guy for a teenager, and whilst its good that he respects me, he's really uptight and we can never talk about things or joke around like other couples can. I realize that not everyone is into that kind of thing, but it's like we never do anything 'fun'
I tell him I love him every night but sometimes I wonder whether I truly do. I want to make this work but I have a nagging feeling telling me that this isn't right and I shouldn't be with him. What should I do? Is it normal to feel like this? Do you guys think I should still try with him?
Thanks.
i personally, wouldn't.
if i'm not comfortable in a relationship, i don't pursue it. the little things in the beginning of a relationship normally turn into the big things anyway...
besides, my mind is so created that suggestive jokes tend to come naturally. so i can't censor myself like that.
and i don't think i'd want to.
so, no, i wouldn't.
you might, it's really all up to you.
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I just broke up with my boyfriend "Andrew" of 5 months (I'm 14). I broke up with him because he made me feel bad, he was self-centered, and he always had to be right. I felt like the end of our relationship was coming anyway; we were just too similiar. I told him that I'd really like to be friends, and he didn't believe me. I was honest. I thought that a lot of the stress between us was because of the relationship,and we would've been such great friends. Later that day, another guy asked me out, and I said yes. Now, "Andrew" is really pissed off at me. He refuses to talk to me and he calls me a liar. I don't know what I did wrong.
How can I make him believe that I want to be his friend? How can I talk to him/what should I say?
Please help, and advice is appreciated
guys never want to be friends after they get dumped.
no, really.
i asked my guy friends about this.
it's why they and i have never dated.
give him a while
guys take a long time to get over this "broken heart" thing
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before this all happened my friend was going out with this girl but after a few days they broke up (i think, my friend might be confused). So then i went out with her(the girl) and we've been together ever since but my friend is still like hanging out with the girl (my gf), like me and my gf are walking to a class we have together and my friend just like comes in and talks to us.When i'm not there he talks and flirts with her BUT when i asked my gf if she was hiding anything she said no,she wasn't. I don't know what to do about it? what can i do about it?
stop being jealous and trust her.
tell your friend that his flirting with her makes you a little uncomfortable.
then trust them both until they give you reason not to
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ok im 13 8th grade and this guy asked me to go with him.
i really dont know how to say no to guys.
I AM EXTREMLY NOT ATRACTED TO HIM.
and i dont want to go with him.
hes going to kiss me.
PLEASE HELP.
i rate 5s.
tell him that you think he's sweet, but that you're not the right girl for him
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hey... heres my problem. theres this guy that im crazy about. he likes me too. so he says. and he acts like he does online. but not on the phone and somewhat does in person. i cant tell. and im pretty unconfident in myself cuz my bf broke up with me a while ago. and i was in love i thought. and for some reason i feel like i need so much reassureance. you know. it sux cuz i like him adn he likes me. he says he wants to ask me out. but in person. and when i went to school with him(he lives 30 min from where i go to school) as a guest he just introduced me as a friend. and never asked me out. we were together alone for a long time and he never did. i almost cried when i got home. i was so excited adn then it was broken.what would you do. and how do i know for sure that he likes me without questioning him like no other
signed confused lover
ask him!
this happened to me recently.
in my case he just didn't want it to be exclusive before we were ready for it
but ask him
that way you'll know what's going on
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I am a 27 year female and I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me. Well for one thing I"ve only been with one guy my whole life. I dated him for a year when I was 21 and it was a horrible experience. He just used me and treated me like a sex object. I never dated all through highschool, guys just were not interested in me. SO when I met my ex even though he was a loser, I went for him because he showed me attention. Well that was 6 years ago since I've been with him. I havent been with any other guys since. I've had lots of guys ask me out but I turn them all down. I get really lonely sometimes, and it seems like all my friends are getting married and I feel left out. I'm not a lesbian, and I do like guys, so what the hell is wrong with me?
maybe you don't date people because you turn them all down...
and maybe you turn them all down because you don't like any of them
maybe you're putting out the wrong image for yourself, and that's why you're attracting weird guys
so when you're out from now on, take a reality chekc and see if the person you're showing the world is the one you really are
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should i IM my ex-boyfriend? i've been wanting to talk/chat with him, but everytime i try to, i'm always whether scared or there's something to stop me. so, should i talk to him or not?
yes
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k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!
P.S. for really stupid answers i will give ones!!
sometimes you just follow your own heart.
and please, learn to spell.
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I met this guy, and I had a one night stand with him. I am 19 and he is 23. The problem is, I did not want to have sex at all. I just wanted to kiss, but he kept pressuring me to go further and further, and I eventually gave in to everything.
While we were having sex, it hurt so much. I was crying and telling him to stop but he kept going. I tried shoving him away but he didn't stop. I could have probably easily punched him in the face and made him stop, but for some reason, I didn't. I lied and told him it was hurting because I had been raped as a last attempt to get him to stop. He still didn't, and I eventually just sucked it up and let him finish.
Throughout the whole ordeal, he said some pretty mean things to me, the worse being that he had to pretend like the sex we just had was the best he'd ever experienced, just so he'd be able to finish himself off. And you know what I said? NOTHING. After I laid on the bathroom floor crying for awhile, I laid in bed with him, staring at the ceiling for 3 hours while he slept.
I do not have the slightest idea why I let him use me. I usually am smarter than this, love myself more than this, have more integrity than this. I am numb all over and wonder what the heck happened, how did I let it happen. Please, any insight would be appreciated.
he raped you.
and you're in an abusive relationship.
he's pressuring you to do things you don't want, refusing to stop something that's hurting you, and he's verbally abusive. get out of it now.
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