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There is this guy who a little younger then me (nothing illegal or anything)...he goes to my school and we always make eye contact in the hallways and sometimes i catch him staring at me. I think he's really cute and maybe kinda like him but i dont really know him. I want to talk to him but it's hard because i'm so shy n he seems kinda shy too. I'm mostly scared to talk to him because he might not even like me, thats what usually happens anyways. I kno i shouldnt waste my life thinking what if but im to scared to make a move, it's not my kinda thing, is there anything i can do to maybe talk to him?
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drop a pen when you walk by him. have your hands full. ask him if he could get that for you
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Well I can understand if you're shy, I used to be like that too. I sugest that you maybe write notes to him or letters. That way you don't have to talk to him directly, and get slowly get to know hime better, and feel more comtable talking to him to the point where you guys actually do get to talk. And if you do find that you two are good for eachother, go the whole 9 yards n' ask him out. But if hes not interested thne you have one more friend. It can work for you either way. Hope I helped.
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i am the exact same way. i'm shy and i dont want to be the one to make the first move. its hard, i know. wat i usualy do is in between classed, if i see him in the hall, i'll take a deep breath and just say "hey!" and smile. just keep walking. if he eknowleges you then you know that he doesnt hate you. it'll take a few tries. but take it step by step. sometimes if u jsut take a breath and let it out, u do it before you have time to holf back. then after you're comfy with saying hi every now and again...say "hey! how are you?" or something. just take it step by step. maybe he'll get the message and make the first move in a few weeks?
i hope this helps hun!
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a simple hi whats up can go a long way.
you dont know if he might feel the same way.
if i were you ( which i have been in that postion many times.)i would say hi whats up.
the most he can do i say hi back.
and you'll see what goes on.
you never know that boy can be your soul mate or even maybe your best friend.
you dont know unless you try.
good luck
i got my fingers crossed
Daniella
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Well, in you situation where both of you are shy, you should try to get your friends or someone you trust to set up a date, or a phone call to talk to this person. Once you talk to him on the phone or so on, you two will feel more comfortable around each other, and mabey in the future you will feell more comfortable around boys.
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you could go up to him and give him a note aand stuff and like you can give him your sn on the note or something...
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Well, since all you two do is make eye-contatct, the next time you see him just wave. And smile. Then, the next time you see him, go up and say hi and introduce yourself and say "maybe i'll talk to you later" and then smile and walk off. Keep saying hi, smiling, and waving. If he's interested, he'll talk to you.
^^ let me know if i helped!
**Hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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