i'm a guy, 14 yrs. old. here's my dilemma. this girl has a boyfriend right, and everyday in class we hug and talk till class starts. she doesn't even act like she has one. my question is what do i do now, i'm totally clueless.
confusedbabii answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 1:14 am: she's a girl. she flirts with you...it may not be intentionally, but some girls are naturally flirty and don't notice that they lead people on. i'm guessing that she thinks of you as a really good guy friend, so take it easy, don't get worked up, and be there for her. hope i helped [ confusedbabii's advice column | Ask confusedbabii A Question ]
PerkyPeacock answered Monday November 28 2005, 6:45 am: first off, you're not a friend with benefits.
unless your tongue has come in contact with any part of her body, you're not a friend with benefits.
kailey answered Monday November 28 2005, 1:08 am: She probably just thinks of you as close friends. It's hard, but since she has a boyfriend, you need to respect that & stay out of his territory. [ kailey's advice column | Ask kailey A Question ]
xOchErrytWistOx answered Monday November 28 2005, 12:56 am: Talking and hugging are just part of this girl's nature. She thinks of you just as a friend. She's treating you like she probably treats all her other guy/girl friends. If she has a boyfriend, she probably likes him. Still confused? Ask her about her boyfriend. Ask how the relationship is or just something as simple as "how's your boyfriend". It's a neutural subject that you can always turn around without saying I LIKE YOU especially if she's def into her boyfriend. If she replies with something like "things arent well" or maybe even "i dont have a boyfriend" then tell her how you feel. If she says things are great, stay friends and fall for another girl.
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Annerszz_101 answered Monday November 28 2005, 12:37 am: She just sees you as a friend hun. We always hug our guy friends, sooner or later she'll like you. Always happens!
MissJessicaPaige answered Monday November 28 2005, 12:18 am: Honey, she's just flirty. Maybe she likes you, but I doubt it. But, if you make a move, things could get awkward between both of you. Just continue doing what your doing,..just dont make out with her or anything more...
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