hey... heres my problem. theres this guy that im crazy about. he likes me too. so he says. and he acts like he does online. but not on the phone and somewhat does in person. i cant tell. and im pretty unconfident in myself cuz my bf broke up with me a while ago. and i was in love i thought. and for some reason i feel like i need so much reassureance. you know. it sux cuz i like him adn he likes me. he says he wants to ask me out. but in person. and when i went to school with him(he lives 30 min from where i go to school) as a guest he just introduced me as a friend. and never asked me out. we were together alone for a long time and he never did. i almost cried when i got home. i was so excited adn then it was broken.what would you do. and how do i know for sure that he likes me without questioning him like no other
signed confused lover
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CutUpAngel013 answered Friday November 25 2005, 7:04 pm: if all else fails hun just ask him.. upfront... face TO face... make sure hes looking you in the eyes that way you klnow hes telling you the truth.. and simply ask him if he truly likes you the way he says that he does.. and if his reply is yes.. and he STILL doesnt ask you out.. then you gotta be a little aggressive about the situation and ask him why he said he was gunna ask you out and then it never happened...you never know... maybe hes just a little nervous.. you gotta liberate him... !
PerkyPeacock answered Friday November 25 2005, 6:05 pm: ask him!
this happened to me recently.
in my case he just didn't want it to be exclusive before we were ready for it
trlblzr4u answered Friday November 25 2005, 2:56 pm: You can't be sure of anything. One of the things that I like to share with people is more of a quote: Actions speak louder than words. If he can't be as he is with you online all the time, i'd say don't trust that he does feel that way for you. If you need reassurance like that and he doesn't realize it, then you have to tell him. If he already knows and doesn't do anything about it; as hard as it may sound, you're going to want to move on before you get hurt more. [ trlblzr4u's advice column | Ask trlblzr4u A Question ]
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