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how can i ask my boyfriend if he wants me to go to his football game?? i only see him like 1-2 every month maybe 3-4 if im lucky but i rly miss him and wanna see him so whats a good way to be ask him if he wants to see me at his game... *i dont thnk he does.. :(* i kno he misses and loves me but i really wanna see him !!..i dont kno if its bcz he embrassed of me seein his friends..(dont think soo) but i dunno.. if any1 has a screen name (aol..aim) plz leave it for me so you can maybe help!! (link)
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Hey sweetie, Here's a quote I live by... "live life like you were dyin'"....with that said, if you were dyin wouldn't you do and say all the things you wanted to?? lol I thought so.. So just say, Hey baby, I want to go to your game and see you in action! or just show up and suprise him! Hope I helped and for future 411, my yahoo name is almighty_princess69@yahoo.com
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I was off and on with my ex boyfriend several times. The last time we broke up, a couple days ago, I dumped him. He was playing little games with me, I didn't fully trust him and I just kept getting hurt. He's the only boy I was ever truly in love with and I still love him. The way he makes me feel is unbelieveable and so many things about him I fell in love with. We still talk and I know he still has feelings for me. Do you think a relationship like ours will ever survive if we go out again? I could never let him go and I love him more than words could say. (link)
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Yes it can work. both of you need to sit down together, share what you feel as far as where your future is headed.
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Me and my boyfriend were together everyday, it could be for only 5 minutes sum days but we were together. Tuesday he left on vacation with his friend and didnt tell me and hasnt called me at all. He's coming back on Sunday but I dont know if this was his way of ending it or not. Its not like him to just up and go away. Anyways of approaching him if he doesnt call on Sunday and I stop by his house to talk to him? What should I say because I odnt want to lose him. I'm 18 and hes 19. We have been together for 8 months (link)
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I understand that you don't want to lose him. 8 months is a long enought time period to have "love" feelings about this person. I'm going to assume he will call you when he gets back from this "vacation" I think you should not return his call for however long he was gone and took him to get back. Ie: he didn't call you for 4 days, then dont call him for 4 days...lol. Don't let him know your stressin' it. It would have only took him 30 seconds to call you and be like hey im going here..I'll be back then, love ya'....No excuses!
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I think i am a pretty cute girl,i have a great personality, and all of my friends love me. i just can not seem to get the attention of the guy i like. we are friends but i like him more than friends. i just dont know how to let him know i like him without messing up our friendship. what can i do to let him know in suttle ways that i like him? (link)
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Try flirting with him and see if he flirts back!
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i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me? (link)
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Repeat after me: "once a cheater, always a cheater" Babe, you need to leave this guy alone and find someone that TRULY does love and RESPECT you.
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There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
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As him out if you like him that much.. if he say's no, yes, it will hurt and eventually you will get over it and move on to someone better, but you never know he might say yes and look at all the happiness that's in store.
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Okay this guy is 17 and im 13 going to be 14..well hes soo afraid of what his friends will think if we go out but hes up for the friends with benfits behind closed door thing and i dont know if i like that but friday night i went to this show with my friend and the 17 yr old showed up the night b4 this he had told me just to move on because he would hurt me and i need to find a guy that cares about me an such well i have this really good friend named Josh and i was sittin on him at the show because there were no other chairs and my other friend was sittin on her boyfriend well gabe (17yr old) walked in and he looked at me and he got really upset and walked outside i ran after him and as soon as i got outside he walked back in later that night we got into a big fight infront of everyone and now hes tellin me how he likes me and all this but doesnt know what to think ne more.. im really confused and dont kno if i should just be friends with benfits or just be done with him im soo lost sk8tergurl294 please help me b4 i go insane over this boi (link)
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NO NO NO to the friends with benefits! {lol} If this guy really likes you then he should have no problem in letting anyone know that,....despite of your age. If he starts talking about: well, im worried what my frends will think bull shit then say look, I'm not wanting to date your friends! I want to date you!! See where it goes from there. Good Luck
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I'm fifteen years old and completely in love with a twenty-one year old guy. We have both liked each other for about 2 years now. However, the guy I like has never acted upon his feelings because of my age. He respects me, which isn't a bad thing. But how can I make him see that I'm mature enough to be his girlfriend? How could I coax him to get into a relationship with me? (link)
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If you really like this guy then there is no problem in that. However, this guy has every right not to want to pursue anything with you right now because of your age. Im sure it has nothing to do with him thinking your mature or not but the simple fact that he could go to jail. If you love him and he loves you then he can wait till you a lil bit older and the consequences aren't so severe.
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ive been goin out /w this guy 2 weeks exactly. were kissed b 4, and weve held hands god nows how many times, and we went 2 the movies yesterday and he had his hand around me and i have my head on his shoulder. that basically shows you how close we are. i just got out of school for 3 months. i gave him my phone # in his yearbook. i still feel strange about calling him though. and i dont now why. do i call him or wait for him to call me?
~*A*~ (link)
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two words: CALL HIM
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hi, im the girl who had the problem about loving sum1 other than the guy i am with (or should i say, WAS with). i broke up with him and he didnt seem too hurt, which was wierd. but now i have a problem with telling John that i like him. i mean, i am pretty sure he likes me too...cuz he went with me to a choir concert of mine (which he has never been to in his life) and sat through an hour of (no offence to my fellow choirs) not-so-good choirs juss to hear me sing in my choir for 15 minutes or so. and he normally would never do somethign like that even for his best friends. so i know there has to be something there...what do you think and do you have any ways i can not be so nervous when i tell him i like him? thank you so much for helping me. (link)
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Ways that you cannot be nervous around him? hmmmm.... The best advice I can give you is to just be yourself. He most definately likes you or he wouldn't of sat through a "boring" performance just to be able to see the best 15 minutes of it. {lol} I'm sure he's probably nervous around you to. What you need to do is find something that both of you share a interest in then you will always have something to talk about.
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what do you do when your are tottaly flirting with a guy one day and then the next day he pretends you don't even exsit it like really confusing? i'm not sure if i sould forget about him or go after him (link)
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Guys are so damn confusing! and we girls dont make it any easier with the "what if's?" lol If you like him then tell him...What's the worst that could happen...Your thinking about forgeting him anyway.
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about a week ago i was talking to this guy on the internet and he was asking me who i liked and i was like idk who do you like and he gave me all these clues that lead up to me then told me that it was me and then i told him that i like him. he is cute and makes me laugh (which i like) but on monday he went on this trip and my best friends bf waS there to. so of course they talked on the phone everynight then one day she told me that while they were talking he asked for my phone # but he hasn't called me yet, should i call him or just forget about him??? im am really confused (14) (link)
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That is sooo sweet that he gave all these clues about liking someone that lead right up to you! this guy obviously like you...go for it girl! Swallow ur shyness and give this guy a call... He may just be to shy to call you.
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what do you do when you wake up oen morning and you suddenly realize...that you really dont love the person you thoguht you did, but you love another guy. and you dont know what to do about it? anyone got any ideas??? (link)
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As far as what to do, only you can answer that. and as far as having any ideas, I think I might can offer some insight into your problem. So here goes,.... This is your life and you deserve to be happy, not make others happy before your own happiness. This guy that your already with sounds like the flame has burnt out. But to make certain, You need time away from him so you can see where your heart truly lies. and maybe that is with this other guy. Have you and this other guy even talked or anything? I wish i knew more about you and this other guy to be able to answer this question better. feel free to write to my advice column, would love to try to help you with this.
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I'm a 20 year old female who has been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and been living with him for 2 years. Before we got together I had a 1 night stand with his brother then I cheated on him with his brother 3 times, (he only knows about 2) Everytime it has happened I told me boyfriend cos i was scared his brother would tell him 1st. I pretend infront of everyone including my boyfriend that i hate his brother but i secretly wanna be with him. His brother called me the other day and i told my boyfriend cos i was scared it was a test, and when I saw his brother at work (the 3 of us work together) we made plans to meet after work and 'talk' but i know it would've went further. (my bf wasnt at work that day) I can't stop thinking about his brother and I eally want him to call me again. I love my boyfriend heaps but I don't know why I feel this way about his brother. I think I love them both....what should I do? Please help!!!! (link)
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Ok, in answering your question what should you do? You need time apart from your boyfriend so that you can truly see where your heart is. This is YOUR life, and you only live once and you deserve to be happy, and if you think that could be with his brother, then that should tell you your answer right there.
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I am 17. When me and my boyfriend were first together, things were so great. We used to do so much together. We saw eachother everyday. We couldn't stand being away from eachother. Infact, we couldn't be away from eachother so much that he convinced his parents and I convinced my mom to let me move in beacause it was like we practically lived together anyway. We've been together for 8 1/2 months, and lived together for about 3. I love him so much, but now at days I can't tell how much he loves me. We rarely do anything together anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. infact, about 5 mins ago he just left with his friend to go watch a movie on his friends big screen. The only reason he came here was to get a movie, and mind you its 2 o'clock in the morning. This is how it is for me every night for like the past 2 weeks, I am up til like 3 waiting for him. I tried to tell him how left out I feel but I havn't seen any improvement. Just now I tried to talk to him and he said "I'm sorry, do you want me to take you back home?" its like his solution is breaking up. I feel like I am last on his list. I don't know what to do. (link)
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there are 2 different reasons your man may be doing this, #1, after being together for a while, a man get's "comfortable" in his relationship. acts more himself, stops opening car doors (lol) hangs out with his friends, guys do love them big screen T.V.'s.....lol #2, one thing that bothered me in your letter was the time he was leaving to go watch this so called movie. which leads me to think he may be seeing someone else. If you love him, try to make it work but keep your eyes OPEN to things that he is doing.. {possibly cheating} you also might want to check into that.
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my daughter is involved with a man that is 18 yrs older than her. i dont have a problem with that as i have known him quite awhile, she is old enough to make that decision. my question is what do i do to hide the fact that i too have feelings for him? i would not hurt my daughter but im not sure i can suppress my feelings much longer. i know it is purely lust feelings i have for him, and i know he does not feel the same way what should i do? (link)
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Leave it alone. Acting upon your desires could cause you to lose your daughter - froever - that's a line that you just don't cross.
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i have a boyfriend well two actually the first one i live with the second one is just a guy im trying to see if him and i can work or not there are things lacking with the one i live with so im not sure about the second one but he is pushing me and he promised he would not what should i do (link)
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If you want to pursue a relationship with someone else thats fine! but break off the realationship your in with first. That guy doen't deserve that. **How would you feel if the shoe was ont he other foot and it was your live in man out tryin' to cheat on you?**
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Yeah, so I don't usually ask questions, but I'm curious as to what you all think I should do.
I've been thinking about, er...going all the way with my boyfriend. I'm sixteen. He's seventeen, turning eighteen in late May. I know I'm young, but...eh. He hasn't been pressuring me at all, so that's not an issue. He loves me, I love him, we're planning, if all goes well, to live together when we graduate. I trust him and everything, but I'm concerned about the risks involved. I could get pregnant...I'm not worried about STDs because no one in either of our families has ever had one. Oh, and we're both virgins, in case you couldn't tell...Lol. I'm also just thinking...my mom has always told me "if you ever want to become sexually active, you should come to me so we can get you birth control. I wouldn't be happy with you, but I'd get you protection. If you ever got pregnant, I'd make you have an abortion." I can't imagine actually talking to her about it. It would be so horridly awkward, and she'd be so unhappy with me...My mom and I are fairly close. I'm also not sure if I'm ready. I mean, we've come close a few times, and I sorta panicked. I've just been thinking about it more lately and it's starting not to freak me out so much. What should I do? (link)
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Oh! I hope you get to read this!!! I am 21 yrs old and was in your same shoes when I was 16... which was not that long ago. It is very important that if you decide to have sex with your boyfriend that you do it because YOU want to....not for any other reason!!! Also, you can go to the health Department and get on birth Control without your mother knowing if you feel to uncomfartable to tell her. The service is FREE of charge and they will in NO way contact your parents. Another thing, just because neither one of your family members has ever had a std doesn't mean anything. Sex is a very big step and not something that you can take back! Make sure it is with someone you love and someone that you know love's you back.
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how do i get a girl friend (link)
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How do you get a girlfriend? Look toward girls that you think you might have something in common with.. Get to know a girl before you run up and say, "hey wanna be my girl?" Doing it like that will most definitely get you a "NO".
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If *males* would answer this it would be great, but females with knowledge are good too. Please.. How do you know if a boy likes you? Or doesn't like you? Is it true that if they're kinda rude, they like you then? I have NO idea whether I should ask this person out.. But I don't think he likes me. I know him a *little* more than he does me..? (link)
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I depends...how old are you? if your young, between the ages of maybe 8-13 boy's will so call "pick" on you if they like you. But they should never be rude.... no matter how old you are. If you really like this boy, then ask him out.. The worst thing that could happen is he could say no... then oh' well you'll find another boy somday.. Maybe you could try to be a little more suttule and drop a few "hints" to him that you like him as more than a friend and see where that goes.... Good luck!
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