I think i am a pretty cute girl,i have a great personality, and all of my friends love me. i just can not seem to get the attention of the guy i like. we are friends but i like him more than friends. i just dont know how to let him know i like him without messing up our friendship. what can i do to let him know in suttle ways that i like him?
TrumpetChyk92 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:55 am: Why don't you try being YOURSELF. Don't act different because of the boy. If he will ever like you, he is going to like you for yourself. In this way you can't mess up your relationship, you can also flirt with him, but remember don't be clingy. If he does't like you in the way you hope he does, don't go too hard on yourself because maybe it wasn't meant to be and it was probably better for both of you to be just friends. Remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea, so don't let your whole world revolve around him and be open to any friendships coming your way because you never know when that lucky someone could come along. Good luck and I hope that things work out! [ TrumpetChyk92's advice column | Ask TrumpetChyk92 A Question ]
bucs10us answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:08 pm: i have the exact same problem, tons of gurlfriends but no gurlfriend. but i think that the best way is to just flat out tell the person, the longer you wait the harder it will be to tell. [ bucs10us's advice column | Ask bucs10us A Question ]
CrayzeelilDanca7 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:46 pm: Well First maybe you should get one of your friends to ASK him or something if he likes you or not .. If he does go for it and if he doesnt ? Then oh well Bein Friends will Last Longer then Being BoyFriend/girlfriend cuz once u break up usally u end up HATIN them* gOoD lUcK!! <3 COlleen! [ CrayzeelilDanca7's advice column | Ask CrayzeelilDanca7 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 7:07 pm: I think I would just say it - that way I get all of my emotions and thoughts out, and hopefully theRe is no misundeRstandings. PeRhaps he's feeling the same way, and when he sees that you aRe bold enough to just come Right out with it and make the fiRst move, he may RetuRn similaR feelings! Be bold - you can do it! Hope I helped!! Best wishes!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
advicequeen answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:47 pm: You should get to know him a little bit better. After that you could try flirting...lol it doesn't hurt. If it turns out you like him, the flirting should do the job. [ advicequeen's advice column | Ask advicequeen A Question ]
DeliciousDelNegro answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:46 pm: well i would say...you could flirt wit him more than..you used to if you did, ask him to hang out sumtime...then eventully he´ll start to get used to you and youll be able to tell him how you really feel, or he´ll just catch on! lol [ DeliciousDelNegro's advice column | Ask DeliciousDelNegro A Question ]
blondebtqueen answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:39 pm: You should try getting to know him even better than you already do. Spend time with him and eventually you might be able to just tell him how you feel. Explain that you don't want it to effect your friendship, even if he doesn't like you, but that you just had to get it off your mind! -Macy (rate me!) [ blondebtqueen's advice column | Ask blondebtqueen A Question ]
blinkgurlbritt182 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:23 pm: Heyhey Hun,
Try flirting with the guy a little such as touching him, leaning on him and etc. Or if you wanna be more daring ask him what he would do if you asked him out. Hope this helped!
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