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I was off and on with my ex boyfriend several times. The last time we broke up, a couple days ago, I dumped him. He was playing little games with me, I didn't fully trust him and I just kept getting hurt. He's the only boy I was ever truly in love with and I still love him. The way he makes me feel is unbelieveable and so many things about him I fell in love with. We still talk and I know he still has feelings for me. Do you think a relationship like ours will ever survive if we go out again? I could never let him go and I love him more than words could say.
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guys perspective: he's honestly playing games, you know this for sure, he's doing this to intentionally hurt you or your relationship? lose him! or you're gonna get seriously hurt.
:you think he's playing games, you don't know for sure, you think he might not realize that he's hurting you? talk to him.... but when you ask yourself these questions... look at it from someone else's point of view...not your own... it will be clouded by emotion... ask his friends about the way they see him treating you, ask your friends too.... you have to be willing to let go in order to hang on.....
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It depends on if he is willing to work things out like you are
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I would tell him how you feel..that you dunt like playing little games but that you are in love. I think if he still has feelings for you then he might want to change for you. Ask him questions like "What dunt you like about me" and such and then you tell him wat u dunt like bout him. Hope I helped!
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If your relationship is off and on, then it most likely means that neither of you are ready for each other. Give it a break for a while, go out with other people, and then if after a period you think your ready again, then try it, but these things are never predictable, so don't go in with high hopes. There's plenty of other great guys out there that'll you'll fall in lvoe with. Good Luck :-)
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Yes it can work. both of you need to sit down together, share what you feel as far as where your future is headed.
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However much you may love him, think about what he (and the relationship) did to you. He played games, he didn't seem to take you seriously, and he didn't seem to take the relationship seriously. It sounds to me, though, like you've already made your decision to try it again.
If I were in your situation, I wouldn't give the guy another chance. Sounds to me like he's already had a few too many chances, and screwed them all up by playing games and hurting you.
I would think this over very carefully, if I were you.
As for your question, I don't think a relationship like this could survive if you went out again, but you don't seem to want to let him go. Think it over HARD before you take him back, no matter how much you may want to.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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i think you should sit down and talk to him..tell him you still have strong feeling for him and wanna make the relashionship happen..tell him your committed and see if he is too..if he is i think you should give it another shot..and try really hard to keep things steady..and hope he does too..well hope i helped..rate me =)
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mandah
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